Hey guys. If you recall, I made a thread about a month ago asking for advice about a girl I liked. Well, I'm finally going to see this girl again on Saturday, since we're both going back to college. giggle;
I can't wait to hang out with her again. Now I'm not as crazy about her as I was a month ago since I haven't seen or spoken to her all winter break (except the occasional facebook conversation), but I still have feelings for her. I eventually want to ask her out. But I want to take things slow first.
I have ideas for hanging out with her. On Saturday, I'm going to surprise her by bringing her favorite movie back to college. I just got a brand new DVD player for Christmas, so we can watch it in my room. ;) We're also going to have a snowball fight at some point. Any other ideas and advice would be appreciated.
make sure you piss on your snowballs
give her the twilight books
^_^
Quote from: Hermione Granger on January 08, 2009, 01:00:29 PM
give her the twilight books
^_^
She probably already has them. She's a huge fan of twilight.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 01:05:29 PM
She probably already has them. She's a huge fan of twilight.
for anyone who says blah blah you shouldn't date her gtfo.
every girl is going to read twilight. it's just a fact of life.
get her the wolf bracelet that jacob makes for bella cjlubdoods;
Quote from: Hermione Granger on January 08, 2009, 01:08:01 PM
for anyone who says blah blah you shouldn't date her gtfo.
every girl is going to read twilight. it's just a fact of life.
get her the wolf bracelet that jacob makes for bella cjlubdoods;
ew i'm not
Quote from: Hermione Granger on January 08, 2009, 01:08:01 PM
for anyone who says blah blah you shouldn't date her gtfo.
every girl is going to read twilight. it's just a fact of life.
get her the wolf bracelet that jacob makes for bella cjlubdoods;
But wouldn't knowledge of such bracelet's existence suggest that I have read the books or watched the movie? (Which I haven't.) Then I would be up a creek with no paddle.
Quote from: ÎεάÏ,ολις on January 08, 2009, 01:10:03 PM
ew i'm not
YOU SAW THE MOVIE
YOU FORFEIT.
also you would be out of the creek in a river almost to an ocean with a motor boat.
I hate dating.
Quote from: ÎεάÏ,ολις on January 08, 2009, 01:10:03 PM
ew i'm not
And that is why you're the best. baddood;
Twilight is gross. If she's a fan, question her....
Quote from: Camtaro. on January 08, 2009, 02:50:27 PM
why
I don't like having relationships beyond friendships.
Quote from: Hippo on January 08, 2009, 02:50:43 PM
And that is why you're the best. baddood;
Twilight is gross. If she's a fan, question her....
bingo bingo bingo giggle;
she's gonna dump you no matter how great the romance is
And I'm not questioning you as a romantic or attractive person, although I'm sure you're pretty ugly and boring, but I speak the truth.
ok because i am so silly i will give you some jmv advice
make something cool that lights up and take her to a park really late at night and show it to her.
get her a sockmonkey (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0013JEAO4) baddood;
get her a sock monkey that lights up and give it to her at night in a park when you are alone
Quote from: Proletarian Guerilla on January 08, 2009, 03:14:18 PM
get her a sock monkey that lights up and give it to her at night in a park when you are alone
that's the most retard thing i've ever heard
the better option is to give her a sock monkey that glows and give it to her in a park at night when you're alone
Quote from: Bassir on January 08, 2009, 03:03:08 PM
she's gonna dump you no matter how great the romance is
And I'm not questioning you as a romantic or attractive person, although I'm sure you're pretty ugly and boring, but I speak the truth.
That may be, but I still need experience in the whole girl area.
My advice is to stop looking to be in a relationship so early in your college years.
Just be yourself. And don't hold back. Do something kind and interesting and fun, and you need to figure out that part on your own.
Quote from: Commodore Guff on January 08, 2009, 03:07:07 PM
get her a sockmonkey (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0013JEAO4) baddood;
ilu Guff. cjlubdoods;
Hey that works. giggle;
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 03:25:21 PM
That may be, but I still need experience in the whole girl area.
You don't need shit.
By the logic you're going by, you should also get some experience in the liquid-nitrogen consuming area as well. And the nuclear bomb human testing area. Oh, and don't forget the heroine area.
Quote from: Bassir on January 08, 2009, 07:32:19 PM
You don't need shit.
By the logic you're going by, you should also get some experience in the liquid-nitrogen consuming area as well. And the nuclear bomb human testing area. Oh, and don't forget the heroine area.
why not? doodhuh;
I don't want to wind up like the 40 year old virgin. ;-; Hell, he actually went further with a girl than I ever have.
Quote from: Bassir on January 08, 2009, 07:32:19 PM
You don't need shit.
By the logic you're going by, you should also get some experience in the liquid-nitrogen consuming area as well. And the nuclear bomb human testing area. Oh, and don't forget the heroine area.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 07:33:40 PM
why not? doodhuh;
I don't want to wind up like the 40 year old virgin. ;-; Hell, he actually went further with a girl than I ever have.
i don't want to end up like the 40 year old non-liquid-nitrogen-consuming man ;-;
Quote from: Bassir on January 08, 2009, 07:34:49 PM
i don't want to end up like the 40 year old non-liquid-nitrogen-consuming man ;-;
well good. if that's what you want to do, go for it.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 07:33:40 PM
why not? doodhuh;
I don't want to wind up like the 40 year old virgin. ;-; Hell, he actually went further with a girl than I ever have.
Don't fret. It'll happen.
Quote from: Hippo on January 08, 2009, 07:35:47 PM
Don't fret. It'll happen.
I've never kissed a girl before, though. I'm 18 years old. :'(
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 07:36:51 PM
I've never kissed a girl before, though. I'm 18 years old. :'(
Awwwwwww. It's alright honey. Sometimes things happen to some people later than others.
You're going to find your princess, and full-out french her one day.
I just know it. ;)
then why the hell are you guys saying i shouldn't go out with this girl when this is the best shot i've ever had?
Quote from: Tyler on January 08, 2009, 07:38:01 PM
Awwwwwww. It's alright honey. Sometimes things happen to some people later than others.
You're going to find your princess, and full-out french her one day.
I just know it. ;)
Haha. Well he better! :P
Yeah, and don't worry. It'll happen if you want it to happen.
Oh and if it helps any, this is the girl. Her name is Amanda. giggle;
[spoiler](http://photos-f.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v1972/40/30/1361614179/n1361614179_211541_2916.jpg)[/spoiler]
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 07:39:18 PM
then why the hell are you guys saying i shouldn't go out with this girl when this is the best shot i've ever had?
I'm telling you to go for it honey!
If she's the one you'll end up full-frenching, it's a chance worth taking.
Awww. She's cute. :3
I think while you watch a movie you should put your hand on hers. You will get a great idea how she feels about you. If she doesn't move her hand then grab it and hold it. And take it from there.
Quote from: Clair on January 08, 2009, 07:41:55 PM
I think while you watch a movie you should put your hand on hers. You will get a great idea how she feels about you. If she doesn't move her hand then grab it and hold it. And take it from there.
Isn't that for in movie theaters only? doodhuh;
she has a nice fish
i wouldn't mind finding her nemo, if you know what i mean giggle;
okay i totally stole that from house but who cares akudood;
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 07:43:24 PM
Isn't that for in movie theaters only? doodhuh;
No. It can be for movies anywhere. :3
Quote from: Clair on January 08, 2009, 05:13:47 PM
ilu Guff. cjlubdoods;
Hey that works. giggle;
fuck yes baddood;
i will totally get anne hathaway a sockmonkey now cjlubdoods;
Quote from: Clair on January 08, 2009, 07:44:44 PM
No. It can be for movies anywhere. :3
but my bed/chair can really only comfortably fit one person each. Plus holding her hand while she's on the bed and I'm on my chair (or vice versa) would be awkward.
but i suppose i could try it...
Quote from: Commodore Guff on January 08, 2009, 07:46:50 PM
fuck yes baddood;
i will totally get anne hathaway a sockmonkey now cjlubdoods;
Oh how sweet. cjlubdoods;
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 07:48:09 PM
but my bed/chair can really only comfortably fit one person each. Plus holding her hand while she's on the bed and I'm on my chair (or vice versa) would be awkward.
IDIOT!!! Sit on the bed with her.
Just not in a sexual manner. You don't want her to think you're coming on to her.
Quote from: Tyler on January 08, 2009, 07:49:07 PM
IDIOT!!! Sit on the bed with her.
Just not in a sexual manner. You don't want her to think you're coming on to her.
OK! But these beds are relatively small. I'm telling you...
It's college, just ask her if she wants to make out. It's not that complicated.
Unless you go to some christian college lol
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 07:50:16 PM
OK! But these beds are relatively small. I'm telling you...
...the more reason to cuddle if she accepts, yes? ;)
Quote from: heltar on January 08, 2009, 08:08:58 PM
It's college, just ask her if she wants to make out. It's not that complicated.
Unless you go to some christian college lol
This isn't your typical slutty college girl. She doesn't have that personality at all, which is the way I like it.
No we go to a public university.
Quote from: heltar on January 08, 2009, 08:08:58 PM
It's college, just ask her if she wants to make out. It's not that complicated.
Unless you go to some christian college lol
Umm...I guess if you want a disastrous relation that'll go nowhere...
I actually really haven't met any girls who I feel comfortable asking to hook up. Then again, I dgaf about women half the time, the other half I care too much.
And yeah I was joking, calm down tyler.
Red, I don't intend for this to sound mean, but I think you need to just relax and go for it. You seem awfully nervous about the whole situation, which can make you feel awkward around her, which can in turn make her feel awkward near you, which is obviously bad. If you come into the situation calm and collected, things will work out better, since you won't be stressing out over every little thing. You have to remember that your mood and attitude can reflect upon her, so it's always good to be positive in these situations. If you aren't comfortable asking her out yet, then wait a little while and work on your nerves, it'll help in the long run.
See if you can't come up with a way to sit so you are next to each other with out being on top of each other. Move something IDK. doodhuh;
I don't want to just hook up with a girl. I want to date one. At this point I couldn't care less about sex. I mean, I've gotten this far without it. I can wait a little longer. It will happen sooner or later.
You're a good guy. I'm sure it'll work out.
Mind your P's and Q's. giggle;
[spoiler]I'm so old-fashioned. No wonder I can't keep a guy. :'([/spoiler]
Quote from: Clair on January 08, 2009, 08:16:22 PM
See if you can't come up with a way to sit so you are next to each other with out being on top of each other. Move something IDK. doodhuh;
I guess that would mean moving everything in my room.
My room:
[spoiler](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v96/yoseph/img1231473747945.jpg)
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v96/yoseph/img1231473749614.jpg)
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v96/yoseph/img1231473748442.jpg)[/spoiler]
nice room. i'll take pics of mine when i get back.
Could you just move the tv so it is across from the bed long ways? Then sit with your back against the wall? O_0
Quote from: Clair on January 08, 2009, 08:23:30 PM
Could you just move the tv so it is across from the bed long ways? Then sit with your back against the wall? O_0
No because that's where my closet is. I guess I could put it on my desk, but that's where I do all of my hw and everything.
Actually, that's not true anymore. Most of the time, I pull my chair up to my bed and use that as a desk now. There's so much more space on that.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 08:26:30 PM
No because that's where my closet is. I guess I could put it on my desk, but that's where I do all of my hw and everything.
Actually, that's not true anymore. Most of the time, I pull my chair up to my bed and use that as a desk now. There's so much more space on that.
I'm sure there is a way to do it. :3
Quote from: Clair on January 08, 2009, 08:29:04 PM
I'm sure there is a way to do it. :3
Here's the rest of my room showing my desk and closet (curtains).
[spoiler](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v96/yoseph/img1231473748888.jpg)
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v96/yoseph/img1231473750229.jpg)[/spoiler]
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 08:31:22 PM
Here's the rest of my room showing my desk and closet (curtains).
[spoiler](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v96/yoseph/img1231473748888.jpg)
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v96/yoseph/img1231473750229.jpg)[/spoiler]
Yeah, tough one. doodhuh; IDK
Quote from: Clair on January 08, 2009, 08:33:08 PM
Yeah, tough one. doodhuh; IDK
Her room is situated in a similar way, but her TV IS on her desk. We sat on her bed and watched the last half of Jumanji on her bed. It was still an awkward viewing position, though. I think I had a cramp in my neck at the end of that night. doodhuh;
Quote from: Sam on January 08, 2009, 02:51:21 PM
I don't like having relationships beyond friendships.
Didn't you want to sex up some 13 year old ronald weasely look a like?
I just thought of something. What if she doesn't want to watch the movie with me? What if she doesn't want to hang out with me anymore? :(
Then buy a fleshlight.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 08:16:33 PM
I don't want to just hook up with a girl. I want to date one. At this point I couldn't care less about sex. I mean, I've gotten this far without it. I can wait a little longer. It will happen sooner or later.
That's a terrific attitude! Your future gf/wife will appreciate that.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 08, 2009, 08:10:50 PM
This isn't your typical slutty college girl. She doesn't have that personality at all, which is the way I like it.
Very good.
I don't think she wants to have anything to do with me anymore. I asked her if she wanted to have a snowball fight later, and she said she couldn't because she has work to do later. Which is probably a lie because it's only the first day of classes.
Fuck my life.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 12, 2009, 02:05:29 PM
I don't think she wants to have anything to do with me anymore. I asked her if she wanted to have a snowball fight later, and she said she couldn't because she has work to do later. Which is probably a lie because it's only the first day of classes.
Fuck my life.
Or maybe she has work. O_0
Maybe she hates snow.
Quote from: FAMY2 on January 12, 2009, 02:07:23 PM
Maybe she hates snow.
No. That's the thing. She loves it. :'(
Quote from: YPR on January 12, 2009, 02:06:47 PM
Or maybe she has work. O_0
No, don't be ridiculous. Everyone knows that everything anyone ever says always must have a hidden meaning.
(Even this post shouldn't be taken at face-value.) n_u
The night before we both left for winter break, we did so much together. We "watched" Pearl Harbor together in the lounge with other people. (In reality, we were sitting next to each other with out laptops, chatting on Facebook.) After that movie, we had a snowball fight with a few other friends. About two hours later, we hanged out in her room and "watched" the last half of Jumanji. (In reality, we were just talking about a ton of random things. We turned the tv off after
Jumamji was over and continued talking until 2 am.) It was an amazing night. I though we were really hitting it off.
And then this month long winter break came and ruined everything. She doesn't talk to me much at all anymore.
Sounds like a porno
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 12, 2009, 02:15:26 PM
The night before we both left for winter break, we did so much together. We "watched" Pearl Harbor together in the lounge with other people. (In reality, we were sitting next to each other with out laptops, chatting on Facebook.) After that movie, we had a snowball fight with a few other friends. About two hours later, we hanged out in her room and "watched" the last half of Jumanji. (In reality, we were just talking about a ton of random things. We turned the tv off after
Jumamji was over and continued talking until 2 am.) It was an amazing night. I though we were really hitting it off.
And then this month long winter break came and ruined everything. She doesn't talk to me much at all anymore.
did you make an effort to talk to her?
Quote from: Sam on January 12, 2009, 03:53:37 PM
did you make an effort to talk to her?
of course i did. multiple times.
Go watch a damn James Bond film.
Okay she really does have homework. >.<
Well, not exactly. She's reading the textbook for sociology, which isn't actually homework. She's just a workaholic. I should've known better.
Quote from: Bassir on January 12, 2009, 04:12:55 PM
Go watch a damn James Bond film.
The new James Bond cries.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 12, 2009, 04:24:59 PM
Okay she really does have homework. >.<
Well, not exactly. She's reading the textbook for sociology, which isn't actually homework. She's just a workaholic. I should've known better.
Relief isn't it? n_u
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 12, 2009, 02:15:26 PM
The night before we both left for winter break, we did so much together. We "watched" Pearl Harbor together in the lounge with other people.
That probably ruined it... such a terrible movie
Quote from: YPR on January 12, 2009, 07:34:34 PM
That probably ruined it... such a terrible movie
Explosions are cool, though.
Quote from: YPR on January 12, 2009, 07:34:34 PM
That probably ruined it... such a terrible movie
I agree. Horrible movie.
Quote from: YPR on January 12, 2009, 07:34:34 PM
That probably ruined it... such a terrible movie
That's one of her favorite movies, though. n_u
Quote from: FAMY2 on January 12, 2009, 06:55:09 PM
Relief isn't it? n_u
Yes. doodella;
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 13, 2009, 06:13:43 AM
That's one of her favorite movies, though. n_u
Probably because they managed to turn Pearl Harbor into somewhat of a chick flick
Quote from: YPR on January 13, 2009, 07:04:16 AM
Probably because they managed to turn Pearl Harbor into somewhat of a chick flick
I LOVE THAT MOVIE.
it's the besty bestest bester best movie.
Quote from: l a c e y on January 13, 2009, 07:11:12 AM
I LOVE THAT MOVIE.
it's the besty bestest bester best movie.
After Boys N the Hood. baddood;
Quote from: l a c e y on January 13, 2009, 07:11:12 AM
I LOVE THAT MOVIE.
it's the besty bestest bester best movie.
HOW COULD YOU LEAVE ME?
WE THOUGHT YOU WERE DEAD!
I'M GONE FOR A YEAR AND YOU ALREADY REPLACE ME?!?
WE THOUGHT YOU WERE DEAD!
AND YOU'RE A BACKSTABBING SON OF A BITCH FORMER BEST FRIEND
WE THOUGHT YOU WERE DEAD!
I want it to die die die madood;
I didn't like Pearl Harbor
if anyone cares.
Titantic on the other hand. bassir;
Quote from: Sam on January 13, 2009, 07:16:36 AM
I didn't like Pearl Harbor
if anyone cares.
And you're a better person for it
Quote from: Sam on January 13, 2009, 07:16:36 AM
Titantic on the other hand. bassir;
Leo has a weird nose akudood;
Quote from: Sam on January 13, 2009, 07:16:36 AM
I didn't like Pearl Harbor
if anyone cares.
Titantic on the other hand. bassir;
titanic was okay.
but pearl harbour atleast had some guns and intense war scenes.
Quote from: l a c e y on January 13, 2009, 07:53:58 AM
but pearl harbour atleast had some guns and intense war scenes.
Watch Band of Brothers for that plus a good plot
true story to boot
she's dating the textbook akudood;
Quote from: l a c e y on January 13, 2009, 08:22:06 AM
who is dateing a textbook?
the girl that's why she didn't want to have a snowball fight. akudood;
Quote from: Arm Leg Leg Arm Head on January 13, 2009, 08:22:39 AM
the girl that's why she didn't want to have a snowball fight. akudood;
idk what your even talking about?
jmv is trying to be on topic giggle;
Quote from: Arm Leg Leg Arm Head on January 13, 2009, 08:22:39 AM
the girl that's why she didn't want to have a snowball fight. akudood;
actually, she had one boyfriend very early last semester that she dumped after a week because of schoolwork.
I'm beginning to be afraid that nothing will happen for the same reason.
Well, it's good that she's dedicated to her work.
Explore the possibilities of a relation with her. She really seems like a keeper.
Quote from: Cocoa Tapioca on January 13, 2009, 12:14:59 PM
Well, it's good that she's dedicated to her work.
All work and no play makes a dull girl akudood;
Quote from: Cocoa Tapioca on January 13, 2009, 12:14:59 PM
Explore the possibilities of a relation with her. She really seems like a keeper.
I don't think it's that simple
Quote from: YPR on January 13, 2009, 12:16:35 PM
All work and no play makes a dull girl akudood;
Typical answer from a typical guy. n_u
Quote
I don't think it's that simple
It could be. Maybe he could study with her. Do some homework at Starbucks with her.
He needs to show he cares about his work as well.
Maybe them some magic will happen. cjlubdoods;
Quote from: Cocoa Tapioca on January 13, 2009, 12:20:58 PM
Typical answer from a typical guy. n_u
What, I just stole that from a proverb. Point is, doing too much work makes anyone dull akudood;
Quote from: Cocoa Tapioca on January 13, 2009, 12:20:58 PM
It could be. Maybe he could study with her. Do some homework at Starbucks with her.
He needs to show he cares about his work as well.
Maybe them some magic will happen. cjlubdoods;
Ah. By explore the possibilities of a relation I thought you meant flat out ask her which would be terrible. Yeah, hanging with her could work.
Quote from: YPR on January 13, 2009, 12:27:15 PM
Ah. By explore the possibilities of a relation I thought you meant flat out ask her which would be terrible. Yeah, hanging with her could work.
I may be fat and ugly, but even I know how to swoon people. akudood;
Yeah last night I thought about the possibility of studying with her. I only have one class with her, though. akudood;
I might ask her tonight if she wants to. giggle;
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 13, 2009, 12:41:10 PM
I might ask her tonight if she wants to. giggle;
YES YES YES.
Ask her if she'd like to spend a few hours studying with you.
See? It's a possibility. giggle;
Quote from: Cocoa Tapioca on January 13, 2009, 12:42:44 PM
YES YES YES.
Ask her if she'd like to spend a few hours studying with you.
See? It's a possibility. giggle;
Does it make it better that the class we're in is sociology? doodhuh;
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 13, 2009, 12:43:36 PM
Does it make it better that the class we're in is sociology? doodhuh;
It'll make things more interesting. n_u
Quote from: Cocoa Tapioca on January 13, 2009, 12:20:58 PM
It could be. Maybe he could study with her. Do some homework at Starbucks with her.
He needs to show he cares about his work as well.
Nobody ever wants to do homework with me at starbucks ;-;
I love starbucks ;-;
Quote from: Sam on January 08, 2009, 02:51:21 PM
I don't like having relationships beyond friendships.
wht
Quote from: Sam on January 13, 2009, 01:38:41 PM
Nobody ever wants to do homework with me at starbucks ;-;
I love starbucks ;-;
I'd go with you. ;-;
Quote from: Camtaro. on January 13, 2009, 01:41:38 PM
wht
I don't. Haven't dated for years and don't plan on starting anytime soon. Just uninterested in it, I'm too independent.
Quote from: Selkie224 on January 12, 2009, 06:43:54 PM
The new James Bond cries.
So?
He needs to watch Sean Connery work his magic as he kills a man in a bath tub by shocking him with an electric lamp after a woman betrays him and walks out saying "Shocking. Simply shocking."
Quote from: Sam on January 13, 2009, 01:38:41 PM
Nobody ever wants to do homework with me at starbucks ;-;
I love starbucks ;-;
oh my lanta.
i love starbucks too!!!
it's great times ten.
i love going there and yelling at people that drive by.
and then making fun of all the weirdos that go to get coffee.
Quote from: Bassir on January 13, 2009, 02:20:09 PM
So?
He needs to watch Sean Connery work his magic as he kills a man in a bath tub by shocking him with an electric lamp after a woman betrays him and walks out saying "Shocking. Simply shocking."
The old James Bonds are so campy, which I why I like the new ones better.
Either way, Jason Bourne is better than them all. akudood;
Quote from: Slim on January 13, 2009, 03:28:08 PM
The old James Bonds are so campy, which I why I like the new ones better.
Either way, Jason Bourne is better than them all. akudood;
You obviously haven't seen much of Sean Connery.
Quote from: l a c e y on January 13, 2009, 02:31:26 PM
oh my lanta.
i love starbucks too!!!
it's great times ten.
i love going there and yelling at people that drive by.
and then making fun of all the weirdos that go to get coffee.
...I'm probably one of the weirdos that you'd be making fun of, you realize. saddood;
Quote from: Sam on January 13, 2009, 01:46:12 PM
I don't. Haven't dated for years and don't plan on starting anytime soon. Just uninterested in it, I'm too independent.
tsk tsk tsk
Quote from: Bassir on January 13, 2009, 05:07:23 PM
She's on the right track.
Atleast she could attract someone of the opposite sex.
Bassir is just sitting there all lonely in his room fapping to selena gomez
Has he figured it out yet?
Quote from: Geno of Endor on January 13, 2009, 05:08:36 PM
Atleast she could attract someone of the opposite sex.
Bassir is just sitting there all lonely in his room fapping to selena gomez
I actually spend most of my time in this room alone yes, but I don't masturbate in here. I do it in the bathroom. And it's not usually to anything in particular. I just do it to relief stress.
In my room, I play video games, sleep, do my homework, watch TV, go on AIM, Reddit, Boyah, Facebook, Gizmodo, and Engadget.
Quote from: Bassir on January 13, 2009, 05:25:42 PM
I actually spend most of my time in this room alone yes, but I don't masturbate in here. I do it in the bathroom. And it's not usually to anything in particular. I just do it to relief stress.
In my room, I play video games, sleep, do my homework, watch TV, go on AIM, Reddit, Boyah, Facebook, Gizmodo, and Engadget.
There's a fabulous world beyond all the gizmo-shit you know.
Quote from: Selkie224 on January 13, 2009, 05:39:34 PM
There's a fabulous world beyond all the gizmo-shit you know.
I already have a passion for the field of medicine. There's nothing else out there that interests me.
Quote from: Bassir on January 13, 2009, 05:25:42 PM
I actually spend most of my time in this room alone yes, but I don't masturbate in here. I do it in the bathroom. And it's not usually to anything in particular. I just do it to relief stress.
In my room, I play video games, sleep, do my homework, watch TV, go on AIM, Reddit, Boyah, Facebook, Gizmodo, and Engadget.
Sad life indeed
Quote from: Sam on January 13, 2009, 01:38:41 PM
Nobody ever wants to do homework with me at starbucks ;-;
I love starbucks ;-;
There's not enough room, I always feel so cramped at their little tables... Not to mention I never buy anything there, I just tag along if people want to go akudood;
Quote from: Bassir on January 13, 2009, 04:42:34 PM
You obviously haven't seen much of Sean Connery.
He's the best Bond actor, but the annoying puns and occasional goofy tone of his movies detract from them greatly. akudood;
Quote from: Sam on January 13, 2009, 04:51:43 PM
...I'm probably one of the weirdos that you'd be making fun of, you realize. saddood;
oh :(
well there isn't much i can do about that.
lol.
but this might take you out of that category: the weirdos i make fun of are all like the grinder like creepy like nerdish people. also i like to make fun of the preppy people, that's a goodtime. and other weird old people.
so i'm pretty sure your excluded from that.
i was unable to ask her if she wanted to study together last night due to bad gas. baddood;
hopefully tonight
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 14, 2009, 06:14:45 AM
i was unable to ask her if she wanted to study together last night due to bad gas. baddood;
hopefully tonight
wow, gross.
goodthing you didn't study with her last night.
Quote from: l a c e y on January 14, 2009, 06:16:41 AM
wow, gross.
goodthing you didn't study with her last night.
exactly. dining hall food must've had something gnarly in it last night. :(
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 14, 2009, 06:18:33 AM
exactly. dining hall food must've had something gnarly in it last night. :(
haha oh fuck.
what did you eatt?
Quote from: l a c e y on January 14, 2009, 06:22:31 AM
haha oh fuck.
what did you eatt?
some turkey, stuffing, lasagna, and acorn squash.
and some ice cream, although i doubt that's the cause. it was probably the lasagna/acorn squash.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 14, 2009, 06:25:05 AM
some turkey, stuffing, lasagna, and acorn squash.
and some ice cream, although i doubt that's the cause. it was probably the lasagna/acorn squash.
no i bet it was the turkey.
Quote from: l a c e y on January 14, 2009, 06:26:21 AM
no i bet it was the turkey.
maybe. all i know is that i had some really bad indigestion after dinner. >.<
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 14, 2009, 06:28:15 AM
maybe. all i know is that i had some really bad indigestion after dinner. >.<
lol anyways.
that's gross aha.
Quote from: l a c e y on January 14, 2009, 06:34:56 AM
lol anyways.
that's gross aha.
oh lacey. we all know farts are gross.
that's why when you have them, you tend to stay in your room with the window wide open. giggle;
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 14, 2009, 07:17:26 AM
oh lacey. we all know farts are gross.
that's why when you have them, you tend to stay in your room with the window wide open. giggle;
haha.
or you could just go outside..
Quote from: l a c e y on January 14, 2009, 07:40:22 AM
haha.
or you could just go outside..
Please click and observe how cold it is outside.
[spoiler](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v96/yoseph/Picture1-3.png)[/spoiler]
After reading the past few pages with relevant posts, I have determined that you are slowly sinking into the friendzone due to your lack of skills and experience with girls.
DID YOU ASK HER IF SHE'D LIKE TO STUDY?
Well, I'd hang out with him. n_u
Quote from: Fredo on January 14, 2009, 11:00:40 AM
After reading the past few pages with relevant posts, I have determined that you are slowly sinking into the friendzone due to your lack of skills and experience with girls.
Quote from: Fredo on January 14, 2009, 11:00:40 AM
After reading the past few pages with relevant posts, I have determined that you are slowly sinking into the friendzone due to your lack of skills and experience with girls.
Quote from: Fredo on January 14, 2009, 11:00:40 AM
After reading the past few pages with relevant posts, I have determined that you are slowly sinking into the friendzone due to your lack of skills and experience with girls.
Quote from: Fredo on January 14, 2009, 11:00:40 AM
After reading the past few pages with relevant posts, I have determined that you are slowly sinking into the friendzone due to your lack of skills and experience with girls.
Quote from: Fredo on January 14, 2009, 11:00:40 AM
After reading the past few pages with relevant posts, I have determined that you are slowly sinking into the friendzone due to your lack of skills and experience with girls.
Quote from: Fredo on January 14, 2009, 11:00:40 AM
After reading the past few pages with relevant posts, I have determined that you are slowly sinking into the friendzone due to your lack of skills and experience with girls.
Quote from: Fredo on January 14, 2009, 11:00:40 AM
After reading the past few pages with relevant posts, I have determined that you are slowly sinking into the friendzone due to your lack of skills and experience with girls.
Quote from: Fredo on January 14, 2009, 11:00:40 AM
After reading the past few pages with relevant posts, I have determined that you are slowly sinking into the friendzone due to your lack of skills and experience with girls.
ACT FAST
I don't want to sink into the friend zone, but I keep trying to wait for the perfect moment and she's being so stubborn. Why does she have to stay 30 minutes after class every day just to ask the professor a question? :'(
I mean, I don't want to have to fucking wait for her outside. I don't want to be a stalker.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 14, 2009, 01:10:43 PM
I don't want to sink into the friend zone, but I keep trying to wait for the perfect moment and she's being so stubborn. Why does she have to stay 30 minutes after class every day just to ask the professor a question? :'(
I mean, I don't want to have to fucking wait for her outside. I don't want to be a stalker.
Yeah, definitely avoid doing that...
Well won't she be free on the weekend?
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 14, 2009, 08:46:46 AM
Please click and observe how cold it is outside.
[spoiler](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v96/yoseph/Picture1-3.png)[/spoiler]
it's the same as opening your window.
it's going to get cold in there anyways.
just put on a coat and a scarf and a hat.
oh and mittens, not gloves.
and it'll be good times.
Quote from: YPR on January 14, 2009, 01:16:28 PM
Yeah, definitely avoid doing that...
Well won't she be free on the weekend?
One can only hope, especially since this will be a three day weekend.
Quote from: l a c e y on January 14, 2009, 06:09:40 AM
oh :(
well there isn't much i can do about that.
lol.
but this might take you out of that category: the weirdos i make fun of are all like the grinder like creepy like nerdish people. also i like to make fun of the preppy people, that's a goodtime. and other weird old people.
so i'm pretty sure your excluded from that.
...how am I NOT a nerd?
saddood; saddood; saddood; saddood;
Quote from: Sam on January 14, 2009, 06:43:10 PM
...how am I NOT a nerd?
saddood; saddood; saddood; saddood;
oh lord edit i should have read that better..
oops.
well. i dont think your a nerd.
you dont look like one.
im talking like glasses, flood pants ect.. that ordeal.
sam is definitely a nerd
Quote from: l a c e y on January 14, 2009, 06:49:32 PM
no i know your not a nerd.
thats why i said you were excluded.
so i probably wouldnt make fun of you.
cause you actually look like a normal everyday person to me.
from what i have seen of your pictures.
Nerds aren't defined by how they look.
I'm a nerd, face it.
Quote from: Sam on January 14, 2009, 06:55:50 PM
Nerds aren't defined by how they look.
I'm a nerd, face it.
haha well it's not like ima know weather your a nerd or not by personality ect..
if i'm sitting in starbucks and i was to see you walk past.
i wouldnt make fun of you i dont think.
Quote from: l a c e y on January 14, 2009, 07:00:20 PM
haha well it's not like ima know weather your a nerd or not by personality ect..
if i'm sitting in starbucks and i was to see you walk past.
i wouldnt make fun of you i dont think.
not even a "omg why the fuck did that chick dye her hair PINK?"
I get that a lot. saddood;
i think the real question is why sam gives a shit about what bojanglesrocks thinks of her
Quote from: Nyerp on January 14, 2009, 07:02:46 PM
i think the real question is why sam gives a shit about what bojanglesrocks thinks of her
shhh I'm trying to make her feel bad for making fun of me. :(
Quote from: Sam on January 14, 2009, 07:02:08 PM
not even a "omg why the fuck did that chick dye her hair PINK?"
I get that a lot. saddood;
lol there is a girl at my school with pink hair.
and a girl with purple hair at my school..
and i dont make fun of them lol.
Quote from: Sam on January 14, 2009, 07:03:23 PM
shhh I'm trying to make her feel bad for making fun of me. :(
pssst I don't think it's working
Quote from: l a c e y on January 14, 2009, 07:00:20 PM
haha well it's not like ima know weather your a nerd or not by personality ect..
if i'm sitting in starbucks and i was to see you walk past.
i wouldnt make fun of you i dont think.
goonish
sorry, had a Lawlz moment. I don't actually care.
Sam, you look amazing with pink hair. Why would someone make fun of it?
Quote from: Desert Wrench on January 14, 2009, 07:56:10 PM
goonish
sorry, had a Lawlz moment. I don't actually care.
Sam, you look amazing with pink hair. Why would someone make fun of it?
yeah i was just about to murder you for pointing that out.
im just joking.
Quote from: Desert Wrench on January 14, 2009, 07:56:10 PM
Sam, you look amazing with pink hair. Why would someone make fun of it?
Because it's different and different scares people for some reason
Amanda likes to study alone. smithicide;
just ask her for sex then
Quote from: Sam on January 14, 2009, 06:55:50 PM
Nerds aren't defined by how they look.
I'm a nerd, face it.
Sorry, nerds are intelligent.
Quote from: YPR on January 14, 2009, 07:58:29 PM
Because it's different and different scares people for some reason
Nah, it's more that there are some people who will think of anything to put a person down to make themselves feel better. I assume the majority of people who insult me don't do it to my face, so I don't really care. When it is to my face I also don't really care. n_u
It's wrong and people shouldn't do it, but when I scold them for it (like I'm trying to do to lacy) it's for their own sake.
Quote from: Bassir on January 15, 2009, 02:30:46 PM
Sorry, nerds are intelligent.
haha, fuck you. :3
p.s. I'm not sleeping with you anymore because of that. Hope you're happy.
I don't know what to do anymore. Fucking friendzone.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 15, 2009, 02:53:57 PM
I don't know what to do anymore. Fucking friendzone.
'
Give up. Move on.
Harsh maybe... but I really don't see you salvaging it at this point.
If you like her THAT MUCH just ask her out. It's not really like you're harming anything at this point. Worst case scenario, she says no and you're still in the friendzone.
there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 15, 2009, 02:53:57 PM
I don't know what to do anymore. Fucking friendzone.
idk, if I were you I would just forget her. People who are obsessed with studying are usual uptight and not much fun to be with... and it sounds to me like she is the type who is ridiculous with her school work. Im not saying that she is uptight or annoying, Im sure there are girls who work hard and are still fun... somewhere.
What I would do is find someone decently smart, very fun to be with, and doesn't revolve her life around working. Also make sure she isn't a bitch. Bitches sometimes seem fun, but be careful because they aren't and you will hate yourself for liking a bitchy chick later.
If you want experience, invite one of your female friends over who you have a seemingly platonic relationship with, and let things happen. You'll end up making out with her and then you'll try to see where it goes. More likely than not, it will go nowhere and you'll end up really good friends again. You'll have more experience, and she'll never be able to make gay jokes toward you ever again. Happened to me twice fromthesky;
Oh right, that smiley doesn't work here >:[
No. I will not give up. Not yet, anyway. This weekend is my last stand. If nothing happens by MLK Day, I give up.
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 15, 2009, 03:18:44 PM
No. I will not give up. Not yet, anyway. This weekend is my last stand. If nothing happens by MLK Day, I give up.
Good luck, Custard.
Quote from: M_W on January 15, 2009, 03:19:34 PM
Good luck, Custard.
Are you suggesting that I'll fail? madood;
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 15, 2009, 03:21:40 PM
Are you suggesting that I'll fail? madood;
No but the comment about it being your last stand tickled me.
Tonight I will ask her to either go with me to a party or a movie.
Defeat.
There are more fish in the sea.
It's important you've experience heartbreak.
You'll soon realize that this won't be your first time. It's also not your last. giggle;
I would tell you there are more fish in the sea, but then I have to take a quick look at my life and realize how hypocritical it is to say that O_0
the only defeat is admitting defeat. baddood;
Quote from: Arm Leg Leg Arm Head on January 16, 2009, 01:49:35 PM
the only defeat is admitting defeat. baddood;
So is that why some cases continue to drag on?
Dude. I asked her to come to a party last night, a Friday night right before a three day weekend right after the first week of school. She told me no because she had too much schoolwork or some bullshit like that again. When I come home from the party at around 1:00, I se her watching a movie in the lounge with a group of people. What a lying bitch.
shoot her mom
Quote from: Red Lightning on January 17, 2009, 07:20:45 AM
Dude. I asked her to come to a party last night, a Friday night right before a three day weekend right after the first week of school. She told me no because she had too much schoolwork or some bullshit like that again. When I come home from the party at around 1:00, I se her watching a movie in the lounge with a group of people. What a lying bitch.
I'm going to be honest: it's because of how you look.
i gave up on women completely and it feels better than worrying about trying to be accepted by one
Quote from: Pancake Persona on January 17, 2009, 07:54:24 AM
i gave up on women completely and it feels better than worrying about trying to be accepted by one
And it gives you much more time to yourself so you can focus on more important things.
Quote from: Bassir on January 17, 2009, 07:59:05 AM
And it gives you much more time to yourself so you can focus on more important things.
Like posting on a forum?
Quote from: rreeppttaarr on January 17, 2009, 09:40:36 AM
Like posting on a forum?
I was thinking of things more along the lines of schoolwork, video games, and movies, but okay.
Quote from: Bassir on January 17, 2009, 09:41:26 AM
I was thinking of things more along the lines of schoolwork, video games, and movies, but okay.
Meh, I'd agree with schoolwork.
Maybe..
Time to move on.
I told you that you were in the friend zone.
There is nothing you can do about it.
You have reached the point of no return.
Quote from: Bassir on January 17, 2009, 09:41:26 AM
I was thinking of things more along the lines of schoolwork, video games, and movies, but okay.
Aside from schoolwork, just gaining overall knowledge is pretty important.
Guys I think I'm going to try my hand again. Amanda and I haven't really talked much since I asked her 5 weeks ago, but I'm going to try and get closer to her again.
That means starting over though. What happened before winter break obviously doesn't mean anything to her. Sometime this week, I will beg for her to help me with studying for Sociology again, only this time it's more serious because we have a test this week and I haven't paid any attention in class since the first week of the semester. (That class seriously sucks.) If she accepts, we start getting closer. If she doesn't, I'll either try something else, or move on and try to get one of my friends to go out with her. (And if she doesn't go out with him, she will never go out with anyone.)
Any objections/better ideas?
Quote from: Dean Martin on February 16, 2009, 06:58:32 AM
Any better ideas?
inject yourself with the correct amount of hormones so that you become asexual in behavior
Advice: Don't overthink it. I myself fall into that trap, but you end up coming off as awkward if you're trying to make it all go according to plan. Just hang out with her and take it as it comes, don't worry about her liking you the same way or not.
She wasn't interested the first time, so what makes you think she'll be interested now?
You're only setting yourself up for disaster. A very foolish plan, if you ask me.
Quote from: Dean Martin on February 16, 2009, 06:58:32 AMAmanda and I haven't really talked much since I asked her 5 weeks ago, but I'm going to try and get closer to her again.
BROTIP: Don't keep trying to get the same woman.
If she denies you once, just drop her and immediately find someone else. It'll save you time, money, and keep you from going insane or becoming a JMV.
Quote from: Classic on February 16, 2009, 09:12:44 AM
She wasn't interested the first time, so what makes you think she'll be interested now?
You're only setting yourself up for disaster. A very foolish plan, if you ask me.
if he has a delusional problem and thinks that :3
I didn't ask her out last time. I just asked her if she wanted to go to a party. Later on, I found out that she doesn't like parties. That's all.
Plus I talked to her again today, which totally wasn't planned out. Later I'm going to see if she wants to study with me some time. happydood;
The reason I'm going after her other than the fact that I still have feelings for her: last time was a misunderstanding. I wanted to do something that she had no interest in. Maybe if I had asked her if she wanted to go to the mall and watch a movie, things would have turned out differently.
The only problem is that it seems like she isn't really interested in a relationship with anyone at the moment, which her roommate (my cousin) tells me is because of maturity issues. That's really why I can't just go all out and ask her out on a date. I have to take it slowly and ease into a relationship.
I'll see if she wants to hang out at all this weekend. If she does, and she wants to hang out on Friday night, I'm even willing to sacrifice not going to a Mardi Gras party with my friends if it means hanging out with her.
Quote from: YPR on February 16, 2009, 07:48:30 AM
Advice: Don't overthink it. I myself fall into that trap, but you end up coming off as awkward if you're trying to make it all go according to plan. Just hang out with her and take it as it comes, don't worry about her liking you the same way or not.
This is the best advice you can listen to.
Quote from: Classic on February 16, 2009, 09:12:44 AM
She wasn't interested the first time, so what makes you think she'll be interested now?
You're only setting yourself up for disaster. A very foolish plan, if you ask me.
People do change and they'll fall in love/like with someone they wouldn't have even a few weeks ago. BUT usually it's from being around them a lot and slowly coming to like them more, especially if the other person doesn't really act interested in you romantically but talks to you.
Point being, this might not work, but as long as you actually try to learn something from it even if it doesn't work, you'll be okay.
Quote from: Veal on February 16, 2009, 02:39:56 PM
This is the best advice you can listen to.
People do change and they'll fall in love/like with someone they wouldn't have even a few weeks ago. BUT usually it's from being around them a lot and slowly coming to like them more, especially if the other person doesn't really act interested in you romantically but talks to you.
Point being, this might not work, but as long as you actually try to learn something from it even if it doesn't work, you'll be okay.
Oh yeah. That's true. I have definitely learned more about starting relationships as a result of all this.
ok someone fill me in I don't feel like reading the whole thread
Quote from: Geno on February 16, 2009, 10:27:56 PM
ok someone fill me in I don't feel like reading the whole thread
Young man asks girl to do seemingly meaningless activities along side him
Young lady denies.
Young man asks again to larger occasions.
Young lady denies again- possibly lied.
5 weeks pass
Young man plans to go for it again.
This is where we are now.
Whatever you do, don't tell her "hey, wanna hang out in a week?" when you are dying to see her, like, yesterday. It's pointless to try to play that type of game.
So do i say "HAY WANNA MAKE OUT TONIGHT?" akudood;
Quote from: A Hiro. on February 17, 2009, 01:24:57 AM
So do i say "HAY WANNA MAKE OUT TONIGHT?" akudood;
No, you ask her over to watch a movie if you wanna do that. Make sure it's a movie you don't want her to actually pay attention to.
Quote from: Shannon on February 17, 2009, 01:25:40 AM
No, you ask her over to watch a movie if you wanna do that. Make sure it's a movie you don't want her to actually pay attention to.
What if she but goes from talking to you 24/7 to absolutely nothing overnight?
Quote from: Mettalik on February 17, 2009, 01:28:17 AM
What if she but goes from talking to you 24/7 to absolutely nothing overnight?
She's busy.
Besides, do you want a girl that's up your ass 24/7?
When you can think of someone, and you can see yourself not being bothered by spending every waking moment with them, being comfortable with them living with you, using your shower, farting in front of you, and if you can stand each other's cooking, then you should get married or some shit.
Then later on you can divorce when you realize that you were wrong. =)
Then She's a dumb bitch and She's not worth it
I want a girl up my ass 25/7 :>
Quote from: A Hiro. on February 17, 2009, 01:31:00 AM
Then She's a dumb bitch and She's not worth it
You need to find someone who you're crazy about. Not some girl that you don't feel like calling, or that you'd rather play video games than hang out with. And you should expect the same from her.
Wait what
Quote from: A Hiro. on February 17, 2009, 01:34:57 AM
Wait what
?
What's so confusing about "you need to find someone who you are crazy about, and who is crazy about you"?
No I mean what prompted you to say this and are you being sarcastic
Quote from: A Hiro. on February 17, 2009, 01:40:07 AM
No I mean what prompted you to say this and are you being sarcastic
I said it because if she's not talking to him anymore, she's either dead or not interested.
I was being serious.
Oh okay yeah cool. yeah i don't try to go after girls that don't want me
Quote from: Dean Martin on January 08, 2009, 01:10:25 PM
But wouldn't knowledge of such bracelet's existence suggest that I have read the books or watched the movie? (Which I haven't.) Then I would be up a creek with no paddle.
Read the article about it on Encyclopedia Dramatica
Quote from: Shannon on February 17, 2009, 01:41:20 AM
I said it because if she's not talking to him anymore, she's either dead or not interested.
I was being serious.
Actually, I asked her why I haven't seen her very much lately, and it turns out she's been sick a lot.