I was going to make this thread, "does it bug you not going to parties" or something similar to that, but i feel that this title reflects the population of boyah much more.
But yeah after watching superbad for the 5th time during lifeguard training yesterday, i was thinking about how the last non-birthday/event party that i went to was in 8th grade. It bugs me a little, knowing that a lot of the people that i talk to go partying and even a lot of my friends. I never know the formality, like if I'm supposed to be invited or not, and i really dont want to show up at one and everybody will be like, "ew david is here wtf". I also feel like i'm missing out a lot, since I'm always hearing about stuff from my friends or eavesdropping at school. I need to get out more :(
But yeah antisocial how does it feel
Obligatory pointing out of the bad use of the word "antisocial". hocuspocus;
It started to hit me a lot harder recently :( Now I'm starting to dislike it.
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......... :'(
Quote from: Thyme on March 01, 2009, 10:12:42 PM
Obligatory pointing out of the bad use of the word "antisocial". hocuspocus;
Reported |:
AVOIDANT
Anyway, I suppose I've grown accustomed to it by now. Every once in a while I'll think of how I'm a lonely loser and wish I had any social skills whatsoever, but for the most part I think I've learned to live with it.
i still wish i was less socially retarded though befuddlement
I'm mostly socially fine at school, but if it involves anything outside that i don't know what to do
Are Boyagers capable of discussing anything besides their loneliness and isolation?
Yeah Idk about that slim
I'm not very and also I'm as interested in high school parties as hanging myself
huh
i'm not anti-social
I don't go to parties because I don't drink or like girls grinding on me and then when i avoid both of those things people get really mad about it later.
oh my god i'm pathetic someone please put a bullet in my brain
but then i realize that just about everyone around me is a dumbfuck and i stop caring
yeah
Idk, I'm generally at parties. Also, if you're confused about going, they're generally invite only, but if you, have a friend thats going, you could try asking him if he/she could bring you. If they say they can't, don't get mad, it isn't his/her fault, it's just that the person throwing the party can only have a certain amount of people, or is really picky about who comes. If they say yes, well then, enjoy yourself.
You're only antisocial if you say you are.
I have been to a good amount of ridiculous 40-person high school parties and I can honestly say I am not a fan of the atmosphere. pot heads lighting up and filling the room with a suffocating smoke and weed smell, idiots running around shirtless and falling over each other, people spilling beer everywhere. Plus the beer is always cheap shit that makes me want to vomit. The only good thing is the selection of girls.
I am much happier with a small group of friends, like 5 or 10 people, even just 3 close friends. And we don't even have to drink to have a good time. A night at my friend's with my 3 closest buddies watching a movie, then playing some pool is my ideal saturday night. And I am fine with it.
I'm not antisocial.
Let's all cry together.
I'm selectively anti-social. So I guess I'm not really anti-social. i hang out with my small group of friends when we decide to have parties, but I don't really enjoy being around more people than that. So I just make sure I never am.
I'm not antisocial in the least.
Also, I've found that at parties thrown by white people, the main focus is drinking and drinking games and/or sex. Parties thrown by nearly any minority (I've been to ones thrown by Black, Hispanic, Indian, & West Indian) the main focus is dancing and music. Everything else such as drinking and smoking is completely secondary. And I don't know anybody that would sit idly by and watch people spark up IN their house; people at least have the decency to go outside.
I should also add that very few times have I had fun at the former type of party while I tend to enjoy myself much more when attending the latter.
The only times it really bothers me is when other people think of me as "rude" for being anti-social.
Other than that, I value my privacy.
i like going to parties and being social.
it's fun.
I don't really like going to parties because people would always take an interest in me and I dislike them due to generalization (lol) nor do I like going to places with people that often because they're boring.
Though I would like to find someone to walk with me through the pine barrens <3 Like that'll ever happen. :'(
I have Severe Social Anxiety Disorder and Avoidant Personality disorder. hocuspocus;
I am in no way anti-social. Antisocial people are people who have no social cues. baddood;
"...with a suffocating smoke and weed smell..."
They should go outside. However the smoke itself is not suffocating, but liberating. And the smell is rather,... pleasurable.
Quote from: TECTRINKET on March 01, 2009, 10:29:17 PM
AVOIDANT
Anyway, I suppose I've grown accustomed to it by now. Every once in a while I'll think of how I'm a lonely loser and wish I had any social skills whatsoever, but for the most part I think I've learned to live with it.
i still wish i was less socially retarded though befuddlement
Same here...
I generally don't get invited to places besides the mall on Fridays. I don't mind, though; I'm more of a loner. I'd rather blast my prog and write than end up having sex with some ugly bastard and waking up pregnant.
Hey, when I do talk to kids, I always go for the antisocial suicidal ones. That way, I get friends, and they're not going to kill themselves because they don't have friends.
Downside is that sometimes, I get these people madly in love with me and it's awkward being friends afterward.
I've never been antisocial, so you tell me how does it feel. doodella;
Uh I'm not anti social at all.
And I went to a party on Saturday lol. Although it was the first in like 2 months
Quote from: PARROTHEAD on March 02, 2009, 01:05:53 PM
I've never been antisocial, so you tell me how does it feel. doodella;
They never feel remorse for their actions. <3
Quote from: Socks on March 02, 2009, 11:41:43 AM
And the smell is rather,... pleasurable.
This this this
I don't know how people can say that it's a horrible smell. I think it smells pretty damn good. In the way gas smells good. doodhuh;
I hate that smell, but probably because it reminds me of things I don't want to be reminded of.
ie my little brother reselling my games to buy some doodhuh;
His clothes reek of it every night he comes home.
I'd rather sit at home and watch TV, play some games and use the computer. Doesn't bother me, I don't like feeling uncomfortable, like at a hang out spot or a friends house.
Quote from: Mettalik on March 02, 2009, 01:24:23 PM
I'd rather sit at home and watch TV, play some games and use the computer. Doesn't bother me, I don't like feeling uncomfortable, like at a hang out spot or a friends house.
How would that be uncomfortable?
Quote from: Socks on March 02, 2009, 11:41:43 AM
"...with a suffocating smoke and weed smell..."
They should go outside. However the smoke itself is not suffocating, but liberating. And the smell is rather,... pleasurable.
I have to say after 6 months of waking up to it, I'm pretty sick of the smell of weed... Which I never really enjoyed in the first place
Quote from: Geno on March 02, 2009, 01:25:33 PM
How would that be uncomfortable?
I don't like it. Can you wrap up in a blanket at a friends house and crash on the couch? I would feel to awkward. :(
Quote from: Mettalik on March 02, 2009, 01:28:04 PM
I don't like it. Can you wrap up in a blanket at a friends house and crash on the couch? I would feel to awkward. :(
I do sometimes doodhuh;
Quote from: Mettalik on March 02, 2009, 01:28:04 PM
I don't like it. Can you wrap up in a blanket at a friends house and crash on the couch? I would feel to awkward. :(
Yes, I can and do... It's fun n_u
I wouldn't say that I'm 'antisocial/asocial/avoidant', I just lack the ability to actually get on the subject of doing something outside of school with people, which I used to be able to do, but I don't know. n_u
Quote from: Mettalik on March 02, 2009, 01:28:04 PM
I don't like it. Can you wrap up in a blanket at a friends house and crash on the couch? I would feel to awkward. :(
That is when you ask yourself; are they really your friends?
Quote from: Selkie on March 02, 2009, 01:57:13 PM
That is when you ask yourself; are they really your friends?
Yeah seriously doodhuh;
i don't go anywhere except with family
Quote from: Fredo on March 02, 2009, 09:37:11 AM
I'm not antisocial in the least.
Also, I've found that at parties thrown by white people, the main focus is drinking and drinking games and/or sex. Parties thrown by nearly any minority (I've been to ones thrown by Black, Hispanic, Indian, & West Indian) the main focus is dancing and music. Everything else such as drinking and smoking is completely secondary. And I don't know anybody that would sit idly by and watch people spark up IN their house; people at least have the decency to go outside.
I should also add that very few times have I had fun at the former type of party while I tend to enjoy myself much more when attending the latter.
fredo be grinding with the naughty bitches y/n
well this thread is depressing.
Quote from: Veal on March 02, 2009, 02:09:29 PM
well this thread is depressing.
so it wasting your life in art school
Quote from: Bassir on March 02, 2009, 02:10:10 PM
so it wasting your life in art school
yeah, i guess it's a good thing i'm not wasting it.
wait, my
life? how long do
you plan on being at college?
i'm pretty positive i have avoidant personality disorder, but i don't think it needs to be prefessionally diagnosed befuddlement
Quote from: TECTRINKET on March 02, 2009, 02:25:55 PM
i'm pretty positive i have avoidant personality disorder, but i don't think it needs to be prefessionally diagnosed befuddlement
i want to be your friend..
Quote from: lacette on March 02, 2009, 02:29:27 PM
i want to be your friend..
you already are my friend cjlubdoods;
What is with all this 'you're antisocial if you don't hang out with approximately 20 people at a time'? That's retarded.
What does that say about your close friends, if you need to hang out with these people you barely know?
Quote from: TECTRINKET on March 02, 2009, 02:43:06 PM
you already are my friend cjlubdoods;
YAY.
we should go on an adventure sometime in this life of ours.
even if it's just pretend.
giggle;
Well I guess what I meant was not partying, but yeah...
I hang out with my friends a lot. Atleast 3 nights a week, I've over at a friend's house, whether we're playing vidya or playing pool or something. I just hate hearing about all this stuff that I'm missing.
I kinda figured something out. I'm really not anti-social, just private. I do find a difference.
Like, I'll go to parties and stuff, but I also like being a bit private too. No offense, but some of you make it sound as if you don't have any friends. doodella;
Quote from: lacette on March 02, 2009, 02:50:46 PM
YAY.
we should go on an adventure sometime in this life of ours.
even if it's just pretend.
giggle;
get you ass to new york baddood;
[spoiler]and then you'll see firsthand how much i suck at socializing akudood;[/spoiler]
Quote from: TECTRINKET on March 02, 2009, 03:08:34 PM
get you ass to new york baddood;
[spoiler]and then you'll see firsthand how much i suck at socializing akudood;[/spoiler]
or you could go up north to the strange land of ontario baddood;
Quote from: Emperor LXXXVI on March 02, 2009, 03:09:53 PM
or you could go up north to the strange land of ontario baddood;
actually that would be better because i'd be closer to thyme baddood;
Quote from: TECTRINKET on March 02, 2009, 03:08:34 PM
get you ass to new york baddood;
[spoiler]and then you'll see firsthand how much i suck at socializing akudood;[/spoiler]
MIKE I TOLD YOU HE DOESN'T LIVE IN CANADA YOU ASSRAPE.
and lololol you come to canada.
Quote from: David on March 02, 2009, 02:54:36 PM
Well I guess what I meant was not partying, but yeah...
I hang out with my friends a lot. Atleast 3 nights a week, I've over at a friend's house, whether we're playing vidya or playing pool or something. I just hate hearing about all this stuff that I'm missing.
I had that feeling too, I always felt I was missing out on some sort of life experience, but then I started going to parties, and I realized how little I was missing.
Aside from the hooking up part, of course. But even then, the idea of getting a girl while sober, and not in a disgusting teenage-party climate seems like it would be much more enjoyable.
Quote from: TECTRINKET on March 02, 2009, 02:25:55 PM
prefessionally
n_u
No but yeah, I don't know what it is about me, I guess I'm somehow awkward. awdood;
Quote from: Selkie on March 02, 2009, 03:19:50 PM
I had that feeling too, I always felt I was missing out on some sort of life experience, but then I started going to parties, and I realized how little I was missing.
Aside from the hooking up part, of course. But even then, the idea of getting a girl while sober, and not in a disgusting teenage-party climate seems like it would be much more enjoyable.
I guess that this sudden wave of depression from being antisocial was from getting rejected by this girl who liked me a lot like a week earlier. I felt so shitty after that.
I think that this summer has a lot of potential for getting out. I'm trying not to worry about getting out until then, so I can focus on keeping my friendships going strong and keep my grades up.
Quote from: David on March 02, 2009, 03:24:19 PM
I guess that this sudden wave of depression from being antisocial was from getting rejected by this girl who liked me a lot like a week earlier. I felt so shitty after that.
I think that this summer has a lot of potential for getting out. I'm trying not to worry about getting out until then, so I can focus on keeping my friendships going strong and keep my grades up.
I have basically given up on girls now and am just going to wait for college this august.
There is a girl I have my eye on and if by some miracle we get together, I will be very happy, but if not, whatever. I've gone this long, I can wait 6 more months.
Quote from: A Hiro. on March 02, 2009, 03:20:41 PM
n_u
No but yeah, I don't know what it is about me, I guess I'm somehow awkward. awdood;
oh god damnit befuddlement
Quote from: lacette on March 02, 2009, 03:16:12 PM
MIKE I TOLD YOU HE DOESN'T LIVE IN CANADA YOU ASSRAPE.
and lololol you come to canada.
maybe the next time i visit my aunt/uncle and cousins n_u
This makes me wonder exactly what it'd be like if we ever had one big Boyah meeting. scarecrowdood;
Quote from: TECTRINKET on March 02, 2009, 03:28:45 PM
This makes me wonder exactly what it'd be like if we ever had one big Boyah meeting. scarecrowdood;
Many many people would be raped
But atleast we'd probably be on the news
Quote from: TECTRINKET on March 02, 2009, 03:28:45 PM
oh god damnit befuddlementmaybe the next time i visit my aunt/uncle and cousins n_u
This makes me wonder exactly what it'd be like if we ever had one big Boyah meeting. scarecrowdood;
i'm thinking that there would be some fights..
and like some hook ups maybe..
and some intense arguments..
probably a good amount of drunk/high people..
who knows..
Quote from: Selkie on March 02, 2009, 03:28:09 PM
I have basically given up on girls now and am just going to wait for college this august.
There is a girl I have my eye on and if by some miracle we get together, I will be very happy, but if not, whatever. I've gone this long, I can wait 6 more months.
Girls are stupid ;-;
Quote from: David on March 02, 2009, 03:36:34 PM
Girls are stupid ;-;
They are extremely shallow, and the only thing that matters to them is looks.
I am good looking, but I guess not enough to make up for my terrible personality
Also I have a habit of setting my sights very high. I can't settle for something if it's not what I want.
Quote from: lacette on March 02, 2009, 03:33:27 PM
i'm thinking that there would be some fights..
and like some hook ups maybe..
and some intense arguments..
probably a good amount of drunk/high people..
who knows..
i think it'd just be very quiet and awkward n_u
i still want it to happen some day though baddood;
bitch i'm not antisocial |:
Quote from: Selkie on March 02, 2009, 03:41:14 PM
They are extremely shallow, and the only thing that matters to them is looks.
I am good looking, but I guess not enough to make up for my terrible personality
Also I have a habit of setting my sights very high. I can't settle for something if it's not what I want.
It kind of works both ways, though. I find the unattractive girls to be the ones with really nice personalties, but of course, I'm too shallow to go for that.
I also set my sights pretty high. I just hate being friends with girls who you really like, but knowing that there's no chance of anything more.
I'm not anti-social, but I usually hang around with my family and close friends. That's really it.
Quote from: TECTRINKET on March 02, 2009, 03:59:28 PM
i think it'd just be very quiet and awkward n_u
i still want it to happen some day though baddood;
why would it be quiet and awkward.
Quote from: Selkie on March 02, 2009, 03:41:14 PM
They are extremely shallow, and the only thing that matters to them is looks.
this is true
espically his crooked smile :'(
Quote from: David on March 01, 2009, 10:10:25 PM
But yeah antisocial how does it feel
wouldn't know
I have a social life, and lately I have been invited to a party nearly every weekend. But, I don't go because I don't like any of the people who invite me.
"Boyah: The site for anti-social people"
also while reading this thead I happen to be listning to "Dateless losers" by Reel Big Fish happydood;
Know what does bug me? the title of this thread.
Shouldn't it be "Does being anti-social bug you?"
Quote from: Sam on March 02, 2009, 07:49:33 PM
Know what does bug me? the title of this thread.
Shouldn't it be "Does being anti-social bug you?"
I was really tired and depressed when i made it leave me alone :(
Quote from: David on March 02, 2009, 08:28:56 PM
I was really tired and depressed when i made it leave me alone :(
But I thought the problem was that yu
didn't want to be left alone. :(
Yes, isolation makes me suicidal. giggle;
i'm not really antisocial
my teacher actually says I am a distraction. i am pretty social and i try to say hi people when i see them but i'm also really bashful, so it depends. Not antisocial though.
Quote from: Sam on March 03, 2009, 07:13:29 PM
But I thought the problem was that yu didn't want to be left alone. :(
Shut up akudood;
Quote from: David on March 03, 2009, 08:28:31 PM
Shut up akudood;
You're never going to get good friends if you're gonna be a jerk all the time. baddood;
Quote from: Sam on March 03, 2009, 08:31:29 PM
You're never going to get good friends if you're gonna be a jerk all the time. baddood;
But that will probably land him a girlfriend doodella;
Quote from: Sam on March 03, 2009, 08:31:29 PM
You're never going to get good friends if you're gonna be a jerk all the time. baddood;
I have good friends I just want to par-tay, and from what I've seen, most party fags at my school are huge jerks, so I must be doing something right.
what happened to me :(
you went to college
you got bodied
i favor in using obscene hand gestures rather than actual language
Quote from: Alicia Melchiott on February 16, 2011, 05:48:12 AM
you went to college
lol like months after i made this thread i stopped being such a loser
senior year of high school kicked ass
You discovered alcohol?
I unintentionally have avoided being anti-social in the past few years.
But I do value my privacy.
No, not really.
however, it is hard to get some ass when you don't like talking to people.
This shits older than Tom Sawyer dawg
ewewee.D.