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nostalgia blows man

Started by Samus Aran, December 18, 2019, 04:25:52 AM

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Samus Aran

like it's fun at first to talk about old shit with ur buds but for me it just ends up turning into this little voice in my head going "you're always stuck in the past man that's why you have no future lmao"

fuck that little voice but like i cant even argue really u know?

YPrrrr

I guess that's why it was originally classified as a psychological disorder; it can produce a lot of anxiety.

silvertone

damn dog. dont let your memories of shit bring you down. just do other shit

C.Mongler

hate getting nostalgia about getting blowed

tommy_no_ice

why not make a better future for yourself. get off your behind and do something brother.

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silvertone

Please, OP, expand on how your feelings towards the past contributes to the conclusion that you have no future.

silvertone

Quote from: YPrrrr on December 18, 2019, 04:31:07 AMI guess that's why it was originally classified as a psychological disorder; it can produce a lot of anxiety.
proofs?

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Samus Aran

Quote from: silvertone on December 18, 2019, 05:30:16 PMPlease, OP, expand on how your feelings towards the past contributes to the conclusion that you have no future.

well it's less a conclusion and more like a nagging feeling that keeps me up at night, you know? like, i was just vibing with some discord buddies the other night, we were talking about old anime forum bullshit and people we used to know, shows we used to really be into, etc. and it was a lot of fun but i feel like i think about stuff like that WAY too often and it ends up being a defense mechanism, just pure escapism

Samus Aran

Quote from: tommy_no_ice on December 18, 2019, 02:18:11 PMwhy not make a better future for yourself. get off your behind and do something brother.

im tryin bro like im doin a bad job of it but im tryin

silvertone

Quote from: Samus Aran on December 18, 2019, 08:31:15 PM
Quote from: silvertone on December 18, 2019, 05:30:16 PMPlease, OP, expand on how your feelings towards the past contributes to the conclusion that you have no future.

well it's less a conclusion and more like a nagging feeling that keeps me up at night, you know? like, i was just vibing with some discord buddies the other night, we were talking about old anime forum bullshit and people we used to know, shows we used to really be into, etc. and it was a lot of fun but i feel like i think about stuff like that WAY too often and it ends up being a defense mechanism, just pure escapism


lately ive been doing the samething with old forum buddies from 2003-2004 except were talking about halo ut and other mp fpses and retarded forum shit we did. Talking about old internet shit just makes me wanna log tf off because i feel like i maxxed out all the fun i could have online. but yr right all of these tubes is just escapism.



and what do you mean by defense mechanism.

don't let's

When Reach hit pc I was thinking about all my old halo 3 and cod4 buddies who I almost completely forgot about

YPrrrr

Quote from: silvertone on December 18, 2019, 05:37:14 PM
Quote from: YPrrrr on December 18, 2019, 04:31:07 AMI guess that's why it was originally classified as a psychological disorder; it can produce a lot of anxiety.
fs?
s://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nostalgia

Basically just homesickness causing anxiety and lower performance in Swiss soldiers at first ig

strongbad

Quote from: YPrrrr on December 18, 2019, 04:31:07 AMI guess that's why it was originally classified as a psychological disorder; it can produce a lot of anxiety.
i didn't know this- that's kind of crazy

@kaz
i think there is a healthy amount of nostalgia, but yeah i know what you mean with certain relationships. when i've found myself in situations where i am overly nostalgic about friends, hobbies, etc, then i think the larger issue to address is why you aren't as happy in the present.

??????

fought with my fiancé about his nostalgia about how great his early twenties were cos he wasn't a loser and had a brilliant social life before the Venezuelan crises forced him out and made him fall into poverty

told him he was still pretty miserable at that time

Pissed me off, the past is dead; it's an image that gets distorted each time you 'remember'
you can recreate the past, live in fantasy


the future is unpredictable and exciting
you'd never know what fortune grants you; riches or poverty





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