girl predicament

[just1more]

or rich people who buy their way into college

im going to college using student loans.

[YPrrrr]

So should I call her then?

Still, 70 miles is kind of far to go and hang out.

Well if it's going to be weird, then don't go and just wait out the month. I don't know about calling her, but since you two seem to get along well it probably wouldn't be weird so I suppose you could if you wanted.

[just1more]

Well if it's going to be weird, then don't go and just wait out the month. I don't know about calling her, but since you two seem to get along well it probably wouldn't be weird so I suppose you could if you wanted.

Well right now she's skiing up in the catskills, so the only way I'll really be able to contact her is if I called. I think I might tonight, actually.

[Lotos]

Holy fuck you're close. I live in East Islip.

 

[Meyer Lansky]

So there is this girl I've been hanging out with at college for about a month or two now.

o

Amanda and I have been getting really close, and now I think I might be in love with her.

o lawd

I think she might like me too, but I'm not sure.

O LAWD

To answer your question, don't commit yourself to anyone AFTER you've gone on break.  That's just stupid.  Wait until school starts back up before you TELL HER that you LIKE HER.

[just1more]

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o lawd
O LAWD

To answer your question, don't commit yourself to anyone AFTER you've gone on break.  That's just stupid.  Wait until school starts back up before you TELL HER that you LIKE HER.

Okay got it. Until then, should I just speak to her over facebook, aim, the phone, etc. or should I try to hang out with her, even though we live 70 miles away from each other?

It's just that she seems like the kind of girl I would want to spend the rest of my life with. I don't know. Maybe I'm rushing things...

[Meyer Lansky]

Okay got it. Until then, should I just speak to her over facebook, aim, the phone, etc. or should I try to hang out with her, even though we live 70 miles away from each other?

It's just that she seems like the kind of girl I would want to spend the rest of my life with. I don't know. Maybe I'm rushing things...

You don't want to come off as clingy, so the occasional Facebook message or AIM convo should me more than suffice to let her know that communication between the two of you is important to you.  If you can schedule a weekend or whatever to chill with each other, then by all means.  But bring it up early (which would be NOW) and then mention it again when vacation is more in full swing.  THEN you should probe more in depth to what she thinks about it.  If she's down with the idea then work something convenient out for both of you.  BUT, when you hang out with her, you must make out with her at some point in time.  That way, she'll know you think of her more than just as a friend.  That will work wonderfully, if either one of you or the both of you have been drinking.

Resume activities when school is back in session.

Maybe I'm rushing things...

Yeah, you are.  You're in college.  You're supposed to enjoy yourself, not lock yourself down forever.  Explore your options before making any kind of serious commitment.  People grow, sometimes the relationship between two people don't.

[just1more]

You don't want to come off as clingy, so the occasional Facebook message or AIM convo should me more than suffice to let her know that communication between the two of you is important to you.  If you can schedule a weekend or whatever to chill with each other, then by all means.  But bring it up early (which would be NOW) and then mention it again when vacation is more in full swing.  THEN you should probe more in depth to what she thinks about it.  If she's down with the idea then work something convenient out for both of you.  BUT, when you hang out with her, you must make out with her at some point in time.  That way, she'll know you think of her more than just as a friend.  That will work wonderfully, if either one of you or the both of you have been drinking.

Resume activities when school is back in session.
Yeah, you are.  You're in college.  You're supposed to enjoy yourself, not lock yourself down forever.  Explore your options before making any kind of serious commitment.  People grow, sometimes the relationship between two people don't.

Well the thing is, I'm already going into Manhattan with my dad and my uncle from Virginia next week. I doubt she would want to hang out with me then. But then I would have to go into the city alone to hang out on another day.

The fact that I'm low on money right now further complicates things.

Also, I doubt we would be drinking. I don't have a fake ID, and I doubt she does. Plus we probably wouldn't be going to each other's houses.

[Kalahari Inkantation]

I'd wait until you two were back together at school. If you guys are watching movies together at night I think that would be the perfect time to make a move... Worked for me at least
Why does it seem like half the country's college students are from Long Island

I'm next.
Also, I'd think it would be better to wait for when you guys are together again.

[just1more]

I'm calling her to ask her if she wants to hang out in nyc later tonight, possibly an hour from now. Any objections?

[strongbad]

Since I don't feel like making a thread that nobody will care about:
So I've been hanging out with this girl for the past week and a half and I've known that she likes me, and I suddenly realized that the only reason that I was hanging out with her was because both of my two best friends have girlfriends who are good friends with the girl that I'm hanging out with... If that makes sense.
So we were at a dance last night and I was having a decent time, and that suddenly hit me. I felt like shit, since she's really nice but I don't want to go out with her. So I decided to just have a fun night and then stop seeing her, and when I drove her home, she tried to kiss me and I just moved my head aside and hugged her. I feel really bad now.

sup buyeh

[me003]

Since I don't feel like making a thread that nobody will care about:
So I've been hanging out with this girl for the past week and a half and I've known that she likes me, and I suddenly realized that the only reason that I was hanging out with her was because both of my two best friends have girlfriends who are good friends with the girl that I'm hanging out with... If that makes sense.
So we were at a dance last night and I was having a decent time, and that suddenly hit me. I felt like shit, since she's really nice but I don't want to go out with her. So I decided to just have a fun night and then stop seeing her, and when I drove her home, she tried to kiss me and I just moved my head aside and hugged her. I feel really bad now.

sup buyeh

your the man now dawg
but really dont do anything you dont want to.
You did what I would have done. Sounds like you were put in an awkward position.

[Feynman]

Don't talk to her at all during the break. Make her wonder what you're doing, and want to reach out to you herself. After a long time apart, she may want to do when school starts, and then during that get-together you can ask her if she may want to formally escort you on a night in town.

You don't want to blog to her your every move through electronic communication—that way you'll have more to talk about during your next session, which'll make it more comfortable and easier for you to ask.

also, picture of said girl so i can further assist you and form a consensus on the rationalities of the situation

[Daddy]

Ok here's my advice.

Don't talk to her at all during the break. Make her wonder what you're doing, and want to reach out to you herself. After a long time apart, she may want to do when school starts, and then during that get-together you can ask her if she may want to formally escort you on a night in town.

You don't want to blog to her your every move through electronic communicationââ,¬â€�that way you'll have more to talk about during your next session, which'll make it more comfortable and easier for you to ask.

also, picture of said girl so i can further assist you and form a consensus on the rationalities of the situation

Do the exact opposite of this.

[Feynman]

Ok here's my advice.Do the exact opposite of this.

Your ill-minded advice will get this Agent killed.

It's not like she's gonna fuck someone during the break and forget all about him—because if that happens, she really doesn't like him in the first place.