My therapist said I should write down my thoughts on paper, and I know writing it on a public venue where people don't know the particulars is a bad idea but I'm going to keep it 100% factual because I don't slander my relatives.
So like my aunt was like 'hey sup i heard you've been having problems' and I 'say I have been'. Then she says i need to de-stress, and I say yes I agree. Then she started fired up all of a sudden about how 1) my dad wrote a total facebook rant about my cousins that i have yet to see because it likely doesn't exist and she wouldn't give me any specifics, 2) how i'm stupid for not completing college and that I likely made my rape story up for attention and how that I'm not really gay over the phone, and 3) HOW DARE I MAKE UP LIES ABOUT HOW SHE ALWAYS MAKES ME FEEL LIKE TOTAL SHIT to my mom. Because obviously I'm the reason why her mom (my grandmother) doesn't speak to her. It's not her ugly attitude. She was so belligerent over the phone that I felt legitimately uncomfortable. I had to cancel a trip over it because I didn't want to see her IRL.
what does it mean to be a felt to you? do you mean to be repulsive and warped??
Quote from: SVT on May 21, 2016, 06:10:26 AM
what does it mean to be a felt to you? do you mean to be repulsive and warped??
just someone that is annoying
me felt is just someone that nags and is just a trivial disturbance
aunt felt is actionable harassment
i've always been harassed to this degree by my family and i was told that it was nagging by my parents
but i know now they've been a bad judge of that when the therapist heard my entire extended family over the phone that no wonder i turned out this way
also we don't use slurs like "warped" here
this is a safe space for children of dysfunctional families
God no wonder I can relate to you. One side of my family treats me badly too. One piece of advice that you will get shit for (I know) is to break all contact with the person who hurts or brings you stress the most. It brought a sense of peace to my life
even with the shit everyone else gives me about it.
Quote from: squirrelfriend on May 21, 2016, 06:22:38 AM
Quote from: SVT on May 21, 2016, 06:10:26 AM
what does it mean to be a felt to you? do you mean to be repulsive and warped??
just someone that is annoying
me felt is just someone that nags and is just a trivial disturbance
aunt felt is actionable harassment
i wouldn't call her felt....doesnt seem healthy to identify with a rude dude
Quote from: SVT on May 21, 2016, 12:22:26 PM
Quote from: squirrelfriend on May 21, 2016, 06:22:38 AM
Quote from: SVT on May 21, 2016, 06:10:26 AM
what does it mean to be a felt to you? do you mean to be repulsive and warped??
just someone that is annoying
me felt is just someone that nags and is just a trivial disturbance
aunt felt is actionable harassment
i wouldn't call her felt....doesnt seem healthy to identify with a rude dude
this post is rated i for inhumane and lacking empathy
you have the right to question but like namecalling? nah
sry i meant dudette***
idk what i would label it
she's done this to other members of my family and i don't get why she is alienating others if she wants to complain they're not talking to her
Quote from: Boogus Epirus Aurelius on May 21, 2016, 01:20:44 PM
This sounds like shit that should stay in the therapist's office.
true but like she told other people not involved wild stuff about me that i have yet to detail
so i don't really care about confidentiality
i just need to find a way to break out of the toxicity
i know what ur aunt felt
she felt my dick OWNED
if your aunt thinks you're not gay what does she think you are
Quote from: Khadafi on May 21, 2016, 04:28:36 PM
if your aunt thinks you're not gay what does she think you are
she thinks i'm a straight person in the inside waiting to be converted to enter into a straight loving marriage
as if lmfao
you should start a rumor that her husband is gay
she felt his manhood rising into a pulsating frenzy
Quote from: Khadafi on May 21, 2016, 04:31:15 PM
you should start a rumor that her husband is gay
she's in an unhappy marriage apparently idk from what i've gathered but like i think i should just let her self-destruct tbh and i'll just record anything she says on my voicemail or with my google voice number
just let her ugliness show itself
Is her marriage unhappy cause her husband is gay? Maybe that is why she treats you bad.
Quote from: squirrelfriend on May 21, 2016, 04:51:48 PM
Quote from: Khadafi on May 21, 2016, 04:31:15 PM
you should start a rumor that her husband is gay
she's in an unhappy marriage apparently idk from what i've gathered but like i think i should just let her self-destruct tbh and i'll just record anything she says on my voicemail or with my google voice number
just let her ugliness show itself
is va a 2 party consent state
dont want a felony
Quote from: Khadafi on May 21, 2016, 05:11:17 PM
Quote from: squirrelfriend on May 21, 2016, 04:51:48 PM
Quote from: Khadafi on May 21, 2016, 04:31:15 PM
you should start a rumor that her husband is gay
she's in an unhappy marriage apparently idk from what i've gathered but like i think i should just let her self-destruct tbh and i'll just record anything she says on my voicemail or with my google voice number
just let her ugliness show itself
is va a 2 party consent state
dont want a felony
aunt calls a number that forwards via a california redirect to a virginia number
so like it's three party
also virginia isn't nice
(http://i.imgur.com/kduTUqV.gif)
Quote from: squirrelfriend on May 21, 2016, 05:13:06 PM
Quote from: Khadafi on May 21, 2016, 05:11:17 PM
Quote from: squirrelfriend on May 21, 2016, 04:51:48 PM
Quote from: Khadafi on May 21, 2016, 04:31:15 PM
you should start a rumor that her husband is gay
she's in an unhappy marriage apparently idk from what i've gathered but like i think i should just let her self-destruct tbh and i'll just record anything she says on my voicemail or with my google voice number
just let her ugliness show itself
is va a 2 party consent state
dont want a felony
aunt calls a number that forwards via a california redirect to a virginia number
so like it's three party
federal law defaults to two party if either state is a two party state
not being a dick
dont want you to do something illegal lol
Quote from: Boogus Epirus Aurelius on May 21, 2016, 11:57:22 PM
Felt: Where every post is about himself, even when he's trying to buy himself.
sorry i believe in narrative-driven shitposts and that's a gross mischaracterization