Dear Diary, I think my aunt is more of a Felt than I could ever be.

Started by squirrelfriend, May 21, 2016, 05:35:06 AM

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squirrelfriend

My therapist said I should write down my thoughts on paper, and I know writing it on a public venue where people don't know the particulars is a bad idea but I'm going to keep it 100% factual because I don't slander my relatives.

So like my aunt was like 'hey sup i heard you've been having problems' and I 'say I have been'. Then she says i need to de-stress, and I say yes I agree. Then she started fired up all of a sudden about how 1) my dad wrote a total facebook rant about my cousins that i have yet to see because it likely doesn't exist and she wouldn't give me any specifics, 2) how i'm stupid for not completing college and that I likely made my rape story up for attention and how that I'm not really gay over the phone, and 3) HOW DARE I MAKE UP LIES ABOUT HOW SHE ALWAYS MAKES ME FEEL LIKE TOTAL SHIT to my mom. Because obviously I'm the reason why her mom (my grandmother) doesn't speak to her. It's not her ugly attitude. She was so belligerent over the phone that I felt legitimately uncomfortable. I had to cancel a trip over it because I didn't want to see her IRL.

silvertone

what does it mean to be a felt to you? do you mean to be repulsive and warped??

squirrelfriend

Quote from: SVT on May 21, 2016, 06:10:26 AM
what does it mean to be a felt to you? do you mean to be repulsive and warped??
just someone that is annoying
me felt is just someone that nags and is just a trivial disturbance
aunt felt is actionable harassment

squirrelfriend

i've always been harassed to this degree by my family and i was told that it was nagging by my parents

but i know now they've been a bad judge of that when the therapist heard my entire extended family over the phone that no wonder i turned out this way

squirrelfriend

also we don't use slurs like "warped" here
this is a safe space for children of dysfunctional families

FAMY2

God no wonder I can relate to you. One side of my family treats me badly too. One piece of advice that you will get shit for (I know) is to break all contact with the person who hurts or brings you stress the most. It brought a sense of peace to my life
even with the shit everyone else gives me about it.

silvertone

Quote from: squirrelfriend on May 21, 2016, 06:22:38 AM
Quote from: SVT on May 21, 2016, 06:10:26 AM
what does it mean to be a felt to you? do you mean to be repulsive and warped??
just someone that is annoying
me felt is just someone that nags and is just a trivial disturbance
aunt felt is actionable harassment
i wouldn't call her felt....doesnt seem healthy to identify with a rude dude

squirrelfriend

Quote from: SVT on May 21, 2016, 12:22:26 PM
Quote from: squirrelfriend on May 21, 2016, 06:22:38 AM
Quote from: SVT on May 21, 2016, 06:10:26 AM
what does it mean to be a felt to you? do you mean to be repulsive and warped??
just someone that is annoying
me felt is just someone that nags and is just a trivial disturbance
aunt felt is actionable harassment
i wouldn't call her felt....doesnt seem healthy to identify with a rude dude
this post is rated i for inhumane and lacking empathy
you have the right to question but like namecalling? nah

silvertone


squirrelfriend

idk what i would label it
she's done this to other members of my family and i don't get why she is alienating others if she wants to complain they're not talking to her

squirrelfriend

Quote from: Boogus Epirus Aurelius on May 21, 2016, 01:20:44 PM
This sounds like shit that should stay in the therapist's office.
true but like she told other people not involved wild stuff about me that i have yet to detail
so i don't really care about confidentiality
i just need to find a way to break out of the toxicity

the_lost_millenial



Daddy

if your aunt thinks you're not gay what does she think you are

squirrelfriend

Quote from: Khadafi on May 21, 2016, 04:28:36 PM
if your aunt thinks you're not gay what does she think you are
she thinks i'm a straight person in the inside waiting to be converted to enter into a straight loving marriage
as if lmfao

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