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Drama: To Break Up or Nah

Started by YPrrrr, May 01, 2017, 07:43:44 PM

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Thyme

Quote from: FAMY2 on May 16, 2017, 03:33:49 PM
But if you talk about me behind my back or mean I remember. And some day it will come up in a conversation and I will remind you how cruel it was and how I was hurt. And this will be you.  smth; smth;

lol


same

but i'm vindicative as fuck so

YPrrrr

Quote from: Majorana's Mask on May 16, 2017, 04:12:58 PM
rofl

why in god's name are you still talking to her
idk she's nice and willing to do stuff I want to do

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Quote from: YPargh on May 16, 2017, 04:15:41 PM
Quote from: Majorana's Mask on May 16, 2017, 04:12:58 PM
rofl

why in god's name are you still talking to her
idk she's nice and willing to do stuff I want to do


welcome to the cycle of abuse

silvertone

AHHHHHHHHHHHH NO SHE IS LATINA... U MUST REALIZE THIS IS NATURAL. I HAVE READ VERY MUCH UP ON THIS FROM OTHER FRIEND. LOW TRUST IS NATURAL, GENETICS, IT"S ALL GENETICS. U HIT JACK PAOT AND UR GONNA BREAK UP W? HER BECAUSE OF SOME TEXTS SHE READ? FORGET IT!!! IT"S JUST WORDS  !!!

silvertone

BREACH OF TRUST? WAT IS THIS ?? CIA??  FBI? YIPPERLEAKS?   WTF? 2 BECOME ONE FLESH ALREADY, THE TEXTS BELONG TO HER

YPrrrr

Quote from: Majorana's Mask on May 16, 2017, 04:18:52 PM
Quote from: YPargh on May 16, 2017, 04:15:41 PM
Quote from: Majorana's Mask on May 16, 2017, 04:12:58 PM
rofl

why in god's name are you still talking to her
idk she's nice and willing to do stuff I want to do


welcome to the cycle of abuse
ehhhh idk about that. If it was abusive she wouldn't be so submissive about stuff methinks
Quote from: SVT on May 16, 2017, 05:12:43 PM
BREACH OF TRUST? WAT IS THIS ?? CIA??  FBI? YIPPERLEAKS?   WTF? 2 BECOME ONE FLESH ALREADY, THE TEXTS BELONG TO HER
you right you right

Kalahari Inkantation

Quote from: YPargh on May 16, 2017, 05:42:08 PM
Quote from: Majorana's Mask on May 16, 2017, 04:18:52 PM
Quote from: YPargh on May 16, 2017, 04:15:41 PM
Quote from: Majorana's Mask on May 16, 2017, 04:12:58 PM
rofl

why in god's name are you still talking to her
idk she's nice and willing to do stuff I want to do


welcome to the cycle of abuse
ehhhh idk about that. If it was abusive she wouldn't be so submissive about stuff methinks


ah, the denial phase

i'm not going to try to convince you that it's now looking like a classic early-stage abusive relationship because:

1. it's not really my place
2. i have no relationship experience (wtf am i even doing in this thread)
3. i only have access to the few details you've provided on boyah

but i will say that, judging strictly by your comments here, her "submission" is probably learned psychological manipulation, whether she's deliberate about it or not

and the strategy has worked on you several times now, meaning you've positively reinforced her behavior

i will leave you with these and then drop the subject

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cycle_of_abuse
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Outline_of_domestic_violence
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Traumatic_bonding#In_abusive_relationships
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Power_and_control_in_abusive_relationships#Psychological_manipulation

YPrrrr

Lol yeah I think you're kinda out of your element. She's definitely not in the emotional manipulation category. I've dealt with girls like that, this is different. She just legitimately doesn't want to lose me because I'm pretty sure every other man in her life has treated her like garbage due to her weight and derived insecurities

Thyme


Mando Pandango

Quote from: YPargh on May 12, 2017, 10:50:58 AM
Quote from: David on May 12, 2017, 10:47:26 AM
>current year
>aubrey still doesn't vape
I hit a volcano back in 2008 baddood;

But I don't want to be involved in that vape scene it's so pretentious
i hit a volcano like 6 months ago and got so fucked up that i ended up pissing all over the floor of my friend's bathroom

oops
Quote from: Magyarorszag on August 22, 2018, 10:27:46 PMjesus absolute shitdicking christ, nu-boyah

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Thyme


Mando Pandango

Quote from: Magyarorszag on August 22, 2018, 10:27:46 PMjesus absolute shitdicking christ, nu-boyah

YPrrrr

Quote from: Pop"icl...!Pop"icl...!Pop"icl...! on May 17, 2017, 01:09:49 PM
Quote from: YPargh on May 12, 2017, 10:50:58 AM
Quote from: David on May 12, 2017, 10:47:26 AM
>current year
>aubrey still doesn't vape
I hit a volcano back in 2008 baddood;

But I don't want to be involved in that vape scene it's so pretentious
i hit a volcano like 6 months ago and got so fucked up that i ended up pissing all over the floor of my friend's bathroom

oops
lol n_u

Dats me and water bongs no thank you I don't wanna die

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