I think I'm having an identy crisis

[Hippopo]

No it's not that. I just don't feel myself, but then again I can't figure out what myself is anyways. It's really weird.

lolololololol

No, seriously though, I think we all go through this.  It's hard to discover yourself, but it can be done.  First you have to start doing things for you.  Simple way to begin, learn to say "no" to others without excuse. 

[strongbad]

The problem is basing who you are on how you want people to view you.



It's all fine and dandy for a while until the idea that you don't know how people view you enters your mind. Then you don't know who you are since you don't know how those people perceive you and that was your identity!

This is exactly it! It's fucked up
College changes things a lot. Back in high school, i felt like everybody knew who I was and I knew who everyone else was. I never met new people, and everybody accepted each other. Now, I'm constantly meeting new people and trying to figure out who they are while trying to figure out who they think I am and it's just a constant mind fuck that I can't stand.

lolololololol

No, seriously though, I think we all go through this.  It's hard to discover yourself, but it can be done.  First you have to start doing things for you.  Simple way to begin, learn to say "no" to others without excuse. 

I've actually been doing this for the last couple weeks, but not without the excuse part. I used to do anything that my friends suggested, just because it meant being around people that I liked, which is okay I guess, but I've started to realize that I really don't like doing certain things.

Life is such a mindfuck

[Travis]

Suck it up pussy

[strongbad]

Suck it up pussy

ur gay

[Nyerp]

the obvious solution is to stop meeting new people

[Boogus Epirus Aurelius]

This is exactly it! It's fucked up
College changes things a lot. back IN POG FORM in high school, i felt like everybody knew who I was and I knew who everyone else was. I never met new people, and everybody accepted each other. Now, I'm constantly meeting new people and trying to figure out who they are while trying to figure out who they think I am and it's just a constant mind fuck that I can't stand. I've actually been doing this for the last couple weeks, but not without the excuse part. I used to do anything that my friends suggested, just because it meant being around people that I liked, which is okay I guess, but I've started to realize that I really don't like doing certain things.

That's your problem. It's not even a problem, just a kink in your perception.
The moment you start to twist your own personality around to conform to how you think other people maybe might think of you is the moment you need to step back and reexamine what you want out of any relationship.

This really isn't an issue though, even though it feels like one. Everybody at some point feels depleted and wary and unsure how they fit in and fsjhfjsdnfksjdfkjsbrkbes.

Take up a new hobby or three.
If you want to.

This time's for living and enjoying and discovering, not fretting over a few sour thoughts that pass through.

[C.Mongler]

just stop giving a fuck what other people think and do what you want 

this,

dood u need 2 git laid

and this.