Poll
Question:
Should Clucky discuss issues with JMV instead of avoiding them, regardless of whether they are bad or good? As well as stop being afraid of having feelings, trust, etc.
Option 1: Yes
votes: 27
Option 2: No
votes: 1
Apparently Clucky is listening to some unnamed individual for advice concerning JMV. They don't want her to act like she likes him, or play around with him. They make false assumptions about his "needs" and such. For example, they claim that he is "dependent on her" because he is lonely and just wants love, when it's not the case. The pseudo-psychoanalysis doesn't realize that it would just be easier to find someone closer if that is what JMV wanted.
I guess Clucky is discussing things more with this person than she is with JMV. I think she should discuss things with JMV and ignore what this person says since their advice isn't really what either really wants, as far as I know. I don't things should work like that, and JMV should be the one she talks to about her feelings and "relationship" with him. Not a third party who isn't experiencing the same feelings of both parties.
Do you agree that Clucky should ignore this person's "advice" and discuss it with JMV, open up to the option that maybe he can be trusted, and not avoiding things? She thinks JMV should care that you guys care about him; let's see if she'll hold up to the same standard to the opinion on this poll. If she expects JMV to accept what you guys say, she should do the same, no?
If you think it would be easier and better for those two to discuss things, try to trust one another, and not avoid possibly "getting hurt" just because that's possible, then vote yes.
If you don't think talking about it, and trying to work out issues, and trusting each other vote no.
I'll spare you this time, Cam.
Yes, I do agree that Clucky should ignore the other person and talk to JMV directly. Obviously the advice the other person is giving Clucky is only making things worse, making their relationship more strenuous than it should be when a relationship should be something that the people involved can enjoy. From the looks of it, you two aren't enjoying your relationship as much as you should be, probably because of this third person.
clucky talk to him ;___;
Stop being so afraid of him, Clucky.
I think it's complete bullshit that Clucky's talking to anyone, honestly, and I find it more likely that she's just searching for someone to pin the blame on while she continues to tug at JMV's heartstrings.
She doesn't like him romantically, doesn't care about him at all, and doesn't give a shit if he ever felt anything for her. That's the way it is and she should just set that straight with JMV for one.
Here's an interesting point too.
If this person thinks they are so right, why not just tell me who they are instead of manipulating her?
Quote from: Khadafi on October 12, 2008, 09:54:41 PM
Here's an interesting point too.
If this person thinks they are so right, why not just tell me who they are instead of manipulating her?
all the more reason to believe this unnamed person doesn't even exist
Life is too short and painful to play games with peoples lives and affections. :( Start talking to each other and trust the other one.
maybe
Quote from: Bassir on October 12, 2008, 09:30:56 PM
I'll spare you this time, Cam.
ok now this is getting old
Clucky just needs to stop being a complicated bitch and realize that there are possibilities. Why not at least try.
It seems that person she blamed never told her not to talk to me and agrees she should discuss it with me.
This leaves her alone in thinking she should avoid everything.
I think she should discuss things with him. befuddlement
Quote from: Boyager on October 13, 2008, 04:15:09 PM
I think she should discuss things with him. befuddlement
She really should, instead of forcing him to worry all the time. :(
Yes, but Boyah would not be the appropriate forum. You can talk about "yr problems XD XD XD XD" on AIM.
the unanimity of the poll is trying to send someone a message
bzzzzzz
Quote from: Boyager on October 13, 2008, 06:13:50 PM
i kill u 1st >:(
no i hav a fly swatur specifikali made 4 kil u >:(
Quote from: Boyager on October 13, 2008, 06:02:47 PM
the unanimity of the poll is trying to send someone a message
bzzzzzz
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culcky should go out and get a pizza, pizza makes everything better
Quote from: Boyager on October 13, 2008, 07:30:48 PM
culcky should go out and get a pizza, pizza makes everything better
clucky should get me some pizza
Both need help.
They obviously have psychological problems.
I'm pretty sure Clucky doesn't choose to not trust people, something must have happened to her to make her that way.
I'm not sure exactly what's wrong with JMV.
also
i'm basing this off information i got from a radio show
You guys should listen to it. You'll learn a lot.
Find a station that airs it here: http://www.lovelineshow.com/stationfinder
Quote from: Boyager on October 13, 2008, 07:47:30 PM
Both need help.
They obviously have psychological problems.
I'm pretty sure Clucky doesn't choose to not trust people, something must have happened to her to make her that way.
I'm not sure exactly what's wrong with JMV.
also
i'm basing this off information i got from a radio show
You guys should listen to it. You'll learn a lot.
Find a station that airs it here: http://www.lovelineshow.com/stationfinder
jmv said i can't blame anything on my disorders considering it makes me shiver like a maniac and i get sick from talking about things that made me who i am :O
Quote from: Boyager on October 13, 2008, 07:47:30 PM
Both need help.
They obviously have psychological problems.
I'm pretty sure Clucky doesn't choose to not trust people, something must have happened to her to make her that way.
I'm not sure exactly what's wrong with JMV.
also
i'm basing this off information i got from a radio show
You guys should listen to it. You'll learn a lot.
Find a station that airs it here: http://www.lovelineshow.com/stationfinder
yeah i think its pretty clear that both of them need psychiatric help, emotional counseling, hugz, etc. this ties in with my earlier statement that clucky should get a pizza
i am thoroughly confused
Quote from: Boyager on October 13, 2008, 07:47:30 PM
Both need help.
They obviously have psychological problems.
I'm pretty sure Clucky doesn't choose to not trust people, something must have happened to her to make her that way.
I'm not sure exactly what's wrong with JMV.
also
i'm basing this off information i got from a radio show
You guys should listen to it. You'll learn a lot.
Find a station that airs it here: http://www.lovelineshow.com/stationfinder
i have personality disorders. ;)
maybe clucky and jmv should discuss it over a pizza
Quote from: Boyager on October 13, 2008, 08:11:43 PM
i have personality disorders. ;)
i think i have personality problems
Quote from: Boyager on October 13, 2008, 08:11:43 PM
i have personality disorders. ;)
I get random urges to hurt something.
Quote from: Boyager on October 14, 2008, 07:26:16 PM
I get random urges to hurt something.
I get random urges to hurt myself.
I get random urges to hurt myself too.
I get random urges to eat pizza
Clucky, do it.
this thread makes me go "what?"
Why are you looking for something more than simple conversation on AIM.
Whenever I'm on aim, I say whats up and you want pizza? Cuz I'm havin pizza tonight. Joke around a bit, but don't get all fucking cutesy with, "Okayz baiz i luv you talk to me more maybe one day I'll move in with you.....cuz I knows where you lives.<3<3<3"
If you wouldn't talk to someone you know IRL in that manner, then why online with a stranger?
But we're only people so sometimes I slip up when I'm lonely or want to talk to someone, and start saying NO DONT GO I NEED YOUS.
i don't even know if im on topic anymore.
Quote from: Boyager on October 20, 2008, 02:35:00 PM
this thread makes me go "what?"
Why are you looking for something more than simple conversation on AIM.
Whenever I'm on aim, I say whats up and you want pizza? Cuz I'm havin pizza tonight. Joke around a bit, but don't get all fucking cutesy with, "Okayz baiz i luv you talk to me more maybe one day I'll move in with you.....cuz I knows where you lives.<3<3<3"
If you wouldn't talk to someone you know IRL in that manner, then why online with a stranger?
But we're only people so sometimes I slip up when I'm lonely or want to talk to someone, and start saying NO DONT GO I NEED YOUS.
i don't even know if im on topic anymore.
Who are you? psyduck;
I'm guessing you listened to her incessant twisting bitchiness rather than what I actually said. psyduck;