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Title: how do u make friends
Post by: C.Mongler on April 18, 2016, 09:25:48 AM
help i'm 24 and i have 1 friend i would like at least 1 more where do i go, do i just stand on the corner and ask everyone, do i start an ok cupid HELPP!
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: squirrelfriend on April 18, 2016, 09:26:23 AM
connect to the internet
i'd think you are mocking me but my only friend is my right hand
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: C.Mongler on April 18, 2016, 09:31:38 AM
i'm not mocking anyone i just want someone to play catch with  saddood;
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: strongbad on April 18, 2016, 09:47:17 AM
break up with your girlfriend
this is the only solution i can muster up
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: C.Mongler on April 18, 2016, 09:50:15 AM
to be fair you probably aren't wrong  cuddledoods;
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: ME## on April 18, 2016, 09:51:47 AM
My only friend left me to live in Thailand lmao
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: strongbad on April 18, 2016, 09:52:09 AM
Quote from: David on April 18, 2016, 09:51:47 AM
My only friend left me to live in Thailand lmao

baddood;

i went from "gotta work on my friendships real hard now that i'm in a relationship" to "this is just what happens when you're in a relationship"

n_u
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: YPrrrr on April 18, 2016, 10:18:57 AM
Idk I only make friends when outgoing people find an interest in me. One of these days I'll move and no one will do it for me and I'll be screwed.

But also having a gf absolutely kills your chances at making friends and often kills much of your relationship with old friends. Or your friends destroy your relationship with your gf. A vicious cycle n_u
Quote from: David on April 18, 2016, 09:51:47 AM
My only friend left me to live in Thailand lmao
Hiro is your friend now

His gf is  cool too
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: strongbad on April 18, 2016, 10:23:31 AM
Quote from: YPR Classic on April 18, 2016, 10:18:57 AM
Idk I only make friends when outgoing people find an interest in me. One of these days I'll move and no one will do it for me and I'll be screwed.

i realized that was too many of my friendships. i often wonder if i was more forward if i would have more friends
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: C.Mongler on April 18, 2016, 10:50:26 AM
Quote from: YPR Classic on April 18, 2016, 10:18:57 AM
Idk I only make friends when outgoing people find an interest in me. One of these days I'll move and no one will do it for me and I'll be screwed.

But also having a gf absolutely kills your chances at making friends and often kills much of your relationship with old friends. Or your friends destroy your relationship with your gf. A vicious cycle n_u
Quote from: David on April 18, 2016, 09:51:47 AM
My only friend left me to live in Thailand lmao
Hiro is your friend now

His gf is  cool too


yeah the former plan was going pretty well for me for a bit AND THEN IVE BEEN DATING THIS GIRL FOR LIKE TWO YEARS. it kidna sux cuz she has a lot of friends, and i haven't been able to be friends with any of them. like not like i dont like them, but at the beginning of our relationship the whole thing seemed kind of disposable, and DC isn't that big of a city, so i didn't want to try and become tight homies with some of the people she's friends with in the chance that she decided "hey fuck ya i never want to bang again YA LOSER", so i just kinda kept it cool n casual with her friends so they would always just be people that i only kinda knew and would say "hey dude" to when i walked by at the local MUSIC ESTABLISHMENT, and not people that i grew attachment to who would never talk to me again if my ladyfriend decided she wasn't going to either

in retrospect that was kind of a retarded decision on my part because now i would love to like hang on the reg with some of her homies, but i've always been so aloof and casual that its hard for me to just be like "HEY SO LET ME KNOW MORE ABOTU YOU AND ILL SHARE MORE ABOUT MYSELF, LETS GO SEE A MOVIE THIS SATURDAY FRIENDO" this far afterthefact, i just feel like i'd seem like a big fuckign weirdo

someone make tinder for friends please
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: strongbad on April 18, 2016, 11:06:19 AM
i was kind of in the opposite situation with my gf and she has similar regrets but now we're in thailand so neither of us has friends lol

maybe try out the craigslist platonic section

Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: C.Mongler on April 18, 2016, 11:15:41 AM
i just don't want to be raped by a bear  saddood;
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: Daddy on April 18, 2016, 11:47:31 AM
by being like 8/10
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: YPrrrr on April 18, 2016, 12:13:56 PM
Quote from: C.Mongler on April 18, 2016, 10:50:26 AM
Quote from: YPR Classic on April 18, 2016, 10:18:57 AM
Idk I only make friends when outgoing people find an interest in me. One of these days I'll move and no one will do it for me and I'll be screwed.

But also having a gf absolutely kills your chances at making friends and often kills much of your relationship with old friends. Or your friends destroy your relationship with your gf. A vicious cycle n_u
Quote from: David on April 18, 2016, 09:51:47 AM
My only friend left me to live in Thailand lmao
Hiro is your friend now

His gf is  cool too


yeah the former plan was going pretty well for me for a bit AND THEN IVE BEEN DATING THIS GIRL FOR LIKE TWO YEARS. it kidna sux cuz she has a lot of friends, and i haven't been able to be friends with any of them. like not like i dont like them, but at the beginning of our relationship the whole thing seemed kind of disposable, and DC isn't that big of a city, so i didn't want to try and become tight homies with some of the people she's friends with in the chance that she decided "hey fuck ya i never want to bang again YA LOSER", so i just kinda kept it cool n casual with her friends so they would always just be people that i only kinda knew and would say "hey dude" to when i walked by at the local MUSIC ESTABLISHMENT, and not people that i grew attachment to who would never talk to me again if my ladyfriend decided she wasn't going to either

in retrospect that was kind of a retarded decision on my part because now i would love to like hang on the reg with some of her homies, but i've always been so aloof and casual that its hard for me to just be like "HEY SO LET ME KNOW MORE ABOTU YOU AND ILL SHARE MORE ABOUT MYSELF, LETS GO SEE A MOVIE THIS SATURDAY FRIENDO" this far afterthefact, i just feel like i'd seem like a big fuckign weirdo

someone make tinder for friends please
Ya I've been kind of doing the same thing in my last two cities. I didn't plan to stay in Milwaukee or Yuma long so I've avoided really being too tight with anyone. And then sometimes I wonder why I don't have any good friends here and they're all back at home or in my college town lol. I guess temporary friends wouldn't be so horrible. I guess it would be more awk with a gf who's a potential ex though
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: C.Mongler on April 18, 2016, 12:51:39 PM
yeah it's silly; ya avoid opening up to people and then one day you're like huh i dont have any close friends, weird

i think it was more my gut reaction of how to deal with platonic relationships after my ex who split with me out of the blue one day (while i was on the other side of the country no less, WHAT A CUNT); one of her close friends i took a liking to and we had hung out solo once and it seemed like we were gonna be good m8s, watch the tele together, GO TO THE PUB FOR A FISH N CHIP, go to the nandos and all that, and then she dumped me and the week after i saw him on the street and he looked past me like i didn't exist and then the next week he unfriended me on facebook

i mean yeah i guess that dude was just a cock in retrospect, BUT IT HURT MY FEELINGS  awdood;
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: YPrrrr on April 18, 2016, 01:14:27 PM
Quote from: C.Mongler on April 18, 2016, 12:51:39 PM
yeah it's silly; ya avoid opening up to people and then one day you're like huh i dont have any close friends, weird

i think it was more my gut reaction of how to deal with platonic relationships after my ex who split with me out of the blue one day (while i was on the other side of the country no less, WHAT A CUNT); one of her close friends i took a liking to and we had hung out solo once and it seemed like we were gonna be good m8s, watch the tele together, GO TO THE PUB FOR A FISH N CHIP, go to the nandos and all that, and then she dumped me and the week after i saw him on the street and he looked past me like i didn't exist and then the next week he unfriended me on facebook

i mean yeah i guess that dude was just a cock in retrospect, BUT IT HURT MY FEELINGS  awdood;
All we are in the grand scheme of things are cocks and vagoos :(
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: snoorkel on April 18, 2016, 01:51:00 PM
Make friends on forums, move to their city and join their grupo
hint
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: C.Mongler on April 18, 2016, 01:53:54 PM
god dammit i'm not moving to flagstaff!!!
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: snoorkel on April 18, 2016, 02:06:15 PM
We could start a boyah enclave in NYC maybe?

like a Y but for young boyars to come and get their feet on the ground
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: C.Mongler on April 18, 2016, 02:09:02 PM
i'd consider moving to nyc with u cucks but only if we can live in a recently renovated warehouse "art collective" in bushwick or some shit
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: silvertone on April 18, 2016, 03:10:02 PM
making friendships rae easier, maintaining them is impossible for me because i suock!!!
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: C.Mongler on April 19, 2016, 10:20:32 AM
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Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: silvertone on April 19, 2016, 07:25:30 PM
:(
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: Hiro on April 28, 2016, 09:57:59 AM
I'm 24
I'm 24 I'm 24
I'm 24
I'm 24
I'm 24 I'm 24 im 24 im 24 I'm 24
I'm 24 I'm 24 I'm 24
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Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: ?????? on April 29, 2016, 12:55:21 AM
Quote from: ʜiro҈ on April 28, 2016, 09:57:59 AM
I'm 24
I'm 24 I'm 24
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m 24
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CUTE

also i make friends really easily but its pretty hard to maintain them because i like lots of days to myself
Quote from: C.Mongler on April 18, 2016, 02:09:02 PM
i'd consider moving to nyc with u cucks but only if we can live in a recently renovated warehouse "art collective" in bushwick or some shit
i almost lived like that
my friend moved to a cozy large apartment in Williamsburg and it was really communal and warm and dirty ( the living room was soooo large) but he got evicted along with another girl because some guy got drunk during a party and pissed outside the window almost hitting the landlords son lol
Before that i pissed on my friend's clothes by accident lol
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: strongbad on April 29, 2016, 02:29:47 AM
gross
when i was a freshman in college my friend was peeing out the the window of his 5th floor dorm and by some freak chance some girl 2 floors down stuck her head out and was covered in pee lol
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: famy on April 29, 2016, 02:42:20 AM
Quote from: David on April 18, 2016, 09:51:47 AM
My only friend left me to live in Thailand lmao
ur just an internet

also i was already like 30k miles from u
god ur such a baby
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: ME## on April 29, 2016, 08:01:24 AM
Quote from: famy on April 29, 2016, 02:42:20 AM
Quote from: David on April 18, 2016, 09:51:47 AM
My only friend left me to live in Thailand lmao
ur just an internet

also i was already like 30k miles from u
god ur such a baby
u were only 2300km away
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: FAMY2 on April 29, 2016, 01:54:50 PM
Quote from: SVT on April 18, 2016, 03:10:02 PM
making friendships rae easier, maintaining them is impossible for me because i suock!!!


n_n lol.
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: FAMY2 on April 29, 2016, 02:00:08 PM
Quote from: famy on April 29, 2016, 02:42:20 AM
Quote from: David on April 18, 2016, 09:51:47 AM
My only friend left me to live in Thailand lmao
ur just an internet

also i was already like 30k miles from u
god ur such a baby


That's all I am to you too?  baddood; After all the deep meaningful talks?  lmao. I would come find you before two weeks.

Luv you.
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: Daddy on April 29, 2016, 09:53:23 PM
idk i just threaten to fire them
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: Hippopo on April 29, 2016, 10:26:19 PM
I just lost literally all my friends due to the military forcing us to move to different places.

....

:(
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: silvertone on April 29, 2016, 11:13:51 PM
damn. rip
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: silvertone on April 29, 2016, 11:14:50 PM
unsticky this thread
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: famy on April 30, 2016, 01:08:38 AM
Quote from: FAMY2 on April 29, 2016, 02:00:08 PM
That's all I am to you too?  baddood; After all the deep meaningful talks?  lmao. I would come find you before two weeks.

Luv you.
how do we know ur not a robot or a series of tubes
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: FAMY2 on April 30, 2016, 07:20:01 AM
Quote from: famy on April 30, 2016, 01:08:38 AM
Quote from: FAMY2 on April 29, 2016, 02:00:08 PM
That's all I am to you too?  baddood; After all the deep meaningful talks?  lmao. I would come find you before two weeks.

Luv you.
how do we know ur not a robot or a series of tubes


You know. They don't have compassion and help you out. Wish I could do that more. The others maybe not so much. lmao
Title: Re: how do u make friends
Post by: strongbad on April 30, 2016, 11:50:09 PM
Quote from: Hippopo on April 29, 2016, 10:26:19 PM
I just lost literally all my friends due to the military forcing us to move to different places.

....

:(

shit that sucks
in the long term i guess it'll be cool to have friends in all sorts of different places