seriously
this is a social situation that i am entirely unfamiliar with. whenever i talk to girls about their experience talking to guys in bars they're always like yeah this guy tried to buy me a drink it was so creepy akudood;
but then i hear about people fucking people from bars which sounds like an impossible feat
wat
[spoiler]maybe i should start by going to bars lol[/spoiler]
Don't.
Quote from: Khadafi on July 28, 2013, 12:28:02 PM
Don't.
idk maybe it's because everyone i know is all hyped about being 21 but all the girls that i used to hang with just go to bars now which sounds very unappealing
so i think there is something to be said about that
Going to a bar to pick up chicks gives me (and I'm sure plenty of girls) a creepy rapist vibe.
It's usually done by guys who are hunting for and preying on girls who've had a bit too much to drink and taking them home and fucking them.
Occasionally there be some mutual sober consent but I usually don't have a lot of interest in girls who go to bars to bang random guys.
The girls banging random guys itself isn't a problem, just the bar (or club) factor seems weird to me. If it happened at a gym or in a park it doesn't seem off.
I think bars just seem gross. I go for drinks with friends. Not some putang.
Quote from: Khadafi on July 28, 2013, 12:34:57 PM
The girls banging random guys itself isn't a problem, just the bar (or club) factor seems weird to me. If it happened at a gym or in a park it doesn't seem off.
i think it's probably because many people go there mainly for that reason, so it just has a weird desperate vibe, instead of at a gym where people typically go to work out and not just find sex
Don't Goto Bars, Don't Socialize With Friends, Stay Home and Make Computers
Whenever I've witnessed a girl go home with a guy at a bar, the girl was sufficiently drunk before the encounter happened.
Usually it ends the following morning. In fact, I've never seen a long term relationship blossom from a bar pick-up.
Quote from: Hippopo on July 28, 2013, 01:16:41 PM
Whenever I've witnessed a girl go home with a guy at a bar, the girl was sufficiently drunk before the encounter happened.
Usually it ends the following morning. In fact, I've never seen a long term relationship blossom from a bar pick-up.
probably because no one wants to date a creepy rapist
Find a Sorostitute.
Go on with all the generalizations that you want, but good bars are always great places to meet people, because that's what the majority of people are there for. If not for that reason specifically, they're at least open to the idea of conversing with a stranger.
Yeah, you get the higher concentration of shithead guys in the college-type pits who are all eyes around closing time, looking for stumblers, but in those places, the girls really aren't any better. It sounds like that's what everyone's describing here........
Bars are like any other place where you would potentially meet someone. It's even easier there because the whole pretense is already stripped away. I'd have a harder time walking up and introducing myself randomly to someone in the library than in a pub...
What was the question?
Well if they're in a library they're probably studying or reading and you should leave them alone and not introduce yourself akudood;
that may be why doing such there is harder than at a pub.
Quote from: Khadafi on July 28, 2013, 02:36:18 PM
Well if they're in a library they're probably studying or reading and you should leave them alone and not introduce yourself akudood;
that may be why doing such there is harder than at a pub.
You know what I mean, bastardo.
Quote from: Khadafi on July 28, 2013, 12:34:57 PM
Going to a bar to pick up chicks gives me (and I'm sure plenty of girls) a creepy rapist vibe.
lol what
the only purpose of bars/clubs in america is to meet people to have sex with or wallow in your own depression and try to drown it in alcohol. if you want to just chill and have a drink with friends and have a good time, you go to a pub
but picking people up from bars is a bad idea anyways because anybody who's hoping to find the love of their life while drunk is probably hasn't had good luck finding partners for a good reason
you'll always find the best people when you're not actively trying to find somebody
i dont like sports but sports bars got some nice wings usually
i go with friends for dem wings
the problem with bars is that everyone wants to drink alcohol at them for some reason ... how are you supposed to initiate human contact when there is a pretense of artificial contamination confuseddood;
Quote from: Khadafi on July 28, 2013, 02:53:47 PM
i dont like sports but sports bars got some nice wings usually
i go with friends for dem wings
not the breasts and thighs? kewndood;
Quote from: lifetrneds on July 28, 2013, 02:55:44 PM
the problem with bars is that everyone wants to drink alcohol at them for some reason ... how are you supposed to initiate human contact when there is a pretense of artificial contamination confuseddood;
i don't know any other way
the problem is not the bar...but the idea of a bar....
we must set a bar on how a bar can be a place of Social Interaction
Quote from: Khadafi on July 28, 2013, 02:53:47 PM
i dont like sports but sports bars got some nice wings usually
i go with friends for dem wings
i think sports bars are more comparable to pubs because the point is to go there with friends
if a bar's main purpose is to get drunk instead of eating/relaxing, then the point is also to meet people with whom you'll have sex
Quote from: silvertone on July 28, 2013, 02:59:23 PM
we must set a bar on how a bar can be a place of Social Interaction
Raise the bar
to new heights.
different Ores for Different Bar Types
iron -low class bar filled with low class degenerates in sports bars...
Plated Silver- bars where social interaction is, but it is unfocused and mostly a corporate location...
Solid Silver- PBR Vegan Bar, the nations futures get wasted here..... if we were in the 1800s we would see karl marx as a college student drinking here
Idk I usually just try to hang out and every once in a while a girl comes to our group
Quote from: Pancake Persona on July 28, 2013, 03:00:20 PM
i think sports bars are more comparable to pubs because the point is to go there with friends
if a bar's main purpose is to get drunk instead of eating/relaxing, then the point is also to meet people with whom you'll have sex
what about playing pinball and doing banda karaoke
Quote from: silvertone on July 28, 2013, 03:02:42 PM
different Ores for Different Bar Types
iron -low class bar filled with low class degenerates in sports bars...
Plated Silver- bars where social interaction is, but it is unfocused and mostly a corporate location...
Solid Silver- PBR Vegan Bar, the nations futures get wasted here..... if we were in the 1800s we would see karl marx as a college student drinking here
wouldn't vegan hipsters prefer cider though
i know i do
Quote from: Pancake Persona on July 28, 2013, 03:04:44 PM
wouldn't vegan hipsters prefer cider though
i know i do
you're right . but we aren't tlaking about hipsters...we are talking about the Elite.
Quote from: silvertone on July 28, 2013, 03:02:42 PM
different Ores for Different Bar Types
iron -low class bar filled with low class degenerates in sports bars...
Plated Silver- bars where social interaction is, but it is unfocused and mostly a corporate location...
Solid Silver- PBR Vegan Bar, the nations futures get wasted here..... if we were in the 1800s we would see karl marx as a college student drinking here
Cinnabar-Loose hookups in ratty red-fabric booths where you take a number and get randomly paired with another willing stranger and a bottle of cheap gin.
I only drink at bauxite bars
Hidden Bismuth-alcohol delivery trucks
Quote from: Pancake Persona on July 28, 2013, 02:51:51 PM
bars
pub
wait is there actually a difference between these two aside from decorative styles
Pool and darts are rad, though. I have a really cool pool hall in my shitty burg that is also a bitchin' whiskey bar.
swimming pool and lawn darts are better B)
Quote from: Boogus Epirus Aurelius on July 28, 2013, 02:30:50 PM
Go on with all the generalizations that you want, but good bars are always great places to meet people, because that's what the majority of people are there for. If not for that reason specifically, they're at least open to the idea of conversing with a stranger.
Yeah, you get the higher concentration of shithead guys in the college-type pits who are all eyes around closing time, looking for stumblers, but in those places, the girls really aren't any better. It sounds like that's what everyone's describing here........
Bars are like any other place where you would potentially meet someone. It's even easier there because the whole pretense is already stripped away. I'd have a harder time walking up and introducing myself randomly to someone in the library than in a pub...
What was the question?
yeah, i feel that
the downtown area of the town that i reside in is pretty saturated with the college party crowd on weekends, which i'm fine with otherwise, but i just don't like bars for that kind of venue because they are so expensive and impersonal
i should explore to the bars that real people go to
Quote from: udderfailure on July 28, 2013, 03:26:14 PM
yeah, i feel that
the downtown area of the town that i reside in is pretty saturated with the college party crowd on weekends, which i'm fine with otherwise, but i just don't like bars for that kind of venue because they are so expensive and impersonal
i should explore to the bars that real people go to
are you implying people at the popular bars aren't real? they have feelings and personalities just like everyone else.elitist prick. t(-_-t)
Quote from: Snack Dad on July 28, 2013, 03:28:31 PM
are you implying people at the popular bars aren't real? they have feelings and personalities just like everyone else.elitist prick. t(-_-t)
yeah, but they don't deserve those feelings or personalities.
Quote from: Snack Dad on July 28, 2013, 03:28:31 PM
are you implying people at the popular bars aren't real? they have feelings and personalities just like everyone else.elitist prick. t(-_-t)
They are automatons, sheeple, the low quotient, the walking dread, the eyes-half-open bloggers and stumblers who take pictures of their drinks and nacho platters to send to their friends and mothers.
-Hunter T Thompson
Quote from: Snack Dad on July 28, 2013, 03:28:31 PM
are you implying people at the popular bars aren't real? they have feelings and personalities just like everyone else.elitist prick. t(-_-t)
nobody in college is real yet
we're pseudo-beings