how do u meet girls in bars

[strongbad]

seriously
this is a social situation that i am entirely unfamiliar with. whenever i talk to girls about their experience talking to guys in bars they're always like yeah this guy tried to buy me a drink it was so creepy 

but then i hear about people fucking people from bars which sounds like an impossible feat
wat

[spoiler]maybe i should start by going to bars lol[/spoiler]

[Daddy]

Don't.

[strongbad]

Don't.

idk maybe it's because everyone i know is all hyped about being 21 but all the girls that i used to hang with just go to bars now which sounds very unappealing
so i think there is something to be said about that

[Daddy]

Going to a bar to pick up chicks gives me (and I'm sure plenty of girls) a creepy rapist vibe.

It's usually done by guys who are hunting for and preying on girls who've had a bit too much to drink and taking them home and fucking them.

Occasionally there be some mutual sober consent but I usually don't have a lot of interest in girls who go to bars to bang random guys.

The girls banging random guys itself isn't a problem, just the bar (or club) factor seems weird to me.  If it happened at a gym or in a park it doesn't seem off. 

I think bars just seem gross. I go for drinks with friends. Not some putang.

[Classic]

Don't.

[Hiro]

The girls banging random guys itself isn't a problem, just the bar (or club) factor seems weird to me.  If it happened at a gym or in a park it doesn't seem off.   

i think it's probably because many people go there mainly for that reason, so it just has a weird desperate vibe, instead of at a gym where people typically go to work out and not just find sex

[silvertone]

Don't Goto Bars, Don't Socialize With Friends, Stay Home and Make Computers

[Hippopo]

Whenever I've witnessed a girl go home with a guy at a bar, the girl was sufficiently drunk before the encounter happened.

Usually it ends the following morning.  In fact, I've never seen a long term relationship blossom from a bar pick-up.

[Daddy]

Whenever I've witnessed a girl go home with a guy at a bar, the girl was sufficiently drunk before the encounter happened.

Usually it ends the following morning.  In fact, I've never seen a long term relationship blossom from a bar pick-up.

probably because no one wants to date a creepy rapist

[Commander Fuckass]

Find a Sorostitute.

[Boogus Epirus Aurelius]

Go on with all the generalizations that you want, but good bars are always great places to meet people, because that's what the majority of people are there for. If not for that reason specifically, they're at least open to the idea of conversing with a stranger.

Yeah, you get the higher concentration of shithead guys in the college-type pits who are all eyes around closing time, looking for stumblers, but in those places, the girls really aren't any better. It sounds like that's what everyone's describing here........

Bars are like any other place where you would potentially meet someone. It's even easier there because the whole pretense is already stripped away. I'd have a harder time walking up and introducing myself randomly to someone in the library than in a pub...

What was the question?

[Daddy]

Well if they're in a library they're probably studying or reading and you should leave them alone and not introduce yourself 

that may be why doing such there is harder than at a pub.

[Boogus Epirus Aurelius]

Well if they're in a library they're probably studying or reading and you should leave them alone and not introduce yourself 

that may be why doing such there is harder than at a pub.

You know what I mean, bastardo.

[ncba93ivyase]

Going to a bar to pick up chicks gives me (and I'm sure plenty of girls) a creepy rapist vibe.

lol what

the only purpose of bars/clubs in america is to meet people to have sex with or wallow in your own depression and try to drown it in alcohol. if you want to just chill and have a drink with friends and have a good time, you go to a pub

but picking people up from bars is a bad idea anyways because anybody who's hoping to find the love of their life while drunk is probably hasn't had good luck finding partners for a good reason

you'll always find the best people when you're not actively trying to find somebody

[Daddy]

i dont like sports but sports bars got some nice wings usually

i go with friends for dem wings