Do you guys have a lot of friends of the opposite sex who you are just friends with? Or same sex, depending on sexual orientation. I'm not one to discriminate.
Befriending girls comes more naturally to me than befriending guys, which is kind of weird. There are a lot of females whose friendship I really value, but every once in a while I get stuck in a situation where I wish I was more than that it it sucks. Although that probably comes from failing to find new girls and instead becoming attracted to the ones that are already in my life, creating a cycle of self-loathing.
not at all
no
idk how to feel about it
I definitely make female friends easier than male :3 I'm perfectly fine with it as any friend is better than none
i'm one of those people that gets along with girls a lot easier than guys
i'm more comfortable around females, and its just easier to talk as compared to be around most guys
with girls i can usually relate to their conversation. most guys i meet their icebreakers are "lol twins doing great i hate the vikings how about that four wheeler over there in that mud fishing pole busch light". yea, i dunno
>friends
it is easier for me to be friends with girls i think mostly because girls are more interested in being friends with me
i'm also a girl though
I have been very friendly with girls but I have never been what I would call actual friends with a girl.
Oh well.
I think I've been more able to be friends with girls than boys
Though I haven't had anybody of either gender I could honestly consider a close friend for a long time :(
i am friends with lots of girls but the few dude friends i have i am better friends with
i think all those girls think i am gay
or 5 years old
i don't know which
Quote from: Patrick Stickles on January 31, 2012, 07:58:53 PM
i think all those girls think i am gay
or 5 years old
i feel the same way sometimes
gay dudes all think i'm gay
or hope i'm gay
i'm not sure which
i make friends easier with women and gay men (or guys stuck in the closet)
with most straight males they're usually all "SO HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT "politician" <snarky political comment and/or clever witty overused line> and then talk about their "interests", not in the in-depth way though
something like this:
"greenbay packers are good"
">uh why"
"beause they are GREAT DO YOU AGREE HAHA"
i'm too visceral for that and i get too bored
it's always awkward to befriend gays though
they're horny fucks and mistake my need for depth as a sign of "LOL I REALLY LIKE YOU"
i have broken many hearts cry;
Quote from: bluaki on January 31, 2012, 07:56:31 PM
I think I've been more able to be friends with girls than boys
Though I haven't had anybody of either gender I could honestly consider a close friend for a long time :(
Why are all your life posts so depressing?
Quote from: MF Doom on January 31, 2012, 08:00:33 PM
i feel the same way sometimes
one of my friends got me this blanket that has monsters all over it
she also compared me to nick swardson's character from grandma's boy
i have been called one of the girls many times as well
Quote from: Trevor on January 31, 2012, 06:26:54 PM
i'm one of those people that gets along with girls a lot easier than guys
i'm more comfortable around females, and its just easier to talk as compared to be around most guys
with girls i can usually relate to their conversation. most guys i meet their icebreakers are "lol twins doing great i hate the vikings how about that four wheeler over there in that mud fishing pole busch light". yea, i dunno
this plus girls are nicer
and hot
you are all results of feminization DISGUSTING
Quote from: vziard on January 31, 2012, 08:51:46 PM
this plus girls are nicer
and hot
yeah, i really enjoy hanging out with attractive females. even if i have no intention of anything romantic or sexual, it is nice. i think that makes me somewhat of an asshole
Quote from: MF Doom on January 31, 2012, 09:50:16 PM
yeah, i really enjoy hanging out with attractive females. even if i have no intention of anything romantic or sexual, it is nice. i think that makes me somewhat of an asshole
no harm surrounding oneself with lush and beautiful things. it stimulates the aesthetic sense
Quote from: Geno on January 31, 2012, 08:25:42 PM
Why are all your life posts so depressing?
It's not
all depressing. At least with academic things, I'm not in a depressing situation and occasionally even post positive things. I'm fine with simple common things like having a home too. n_n
Other than that, yeah, I guess most details of my life worth mentioning are pretty depressing, particularly loneliness and being trans. >_<'
I have a keen ability to make friends with girls. They're easier to talk to, and they approach me more often. In my freshman year of college, my friend Billy used to count how many girls said hi to me from our dorm to our first class. I think the record was 12 or so. They're just very friendly towards me.
But maintaining female friendships isn't easy. Either I get frustrated with them, or they get bored with me. It happens almost every time.
When it comes to male friends, it is definitely harder to make friendships with them, but they seem to be more meaningful in the long run.
Quote from: Hippopo on January 31, 2012, 10:22:24 PM
I have a keen ability to make friends with girls. I'm gay.
fixed
Quote from: Hippopo on January 31, 2012, 10:22:24 PM
I have a keen ability to make friends with girls. I'm gay and handsome.
5thgrade;
I prefer acquaintances. A woman, or any person for that matter, would have to be tripping if they thought being 'friends' was some sort of a compromise and insignificant position. Such ideology only serves to highlight the worthless nature of its bearer. Personally speaking, I find that most girls shy away, after an initial appeal, because I am not overtly interested and immediately intimate toward them, so their sense of self validation takes a hit and overall world view needs a boost, or else they could not fall asleep at night, and so rotten ends seek out more of the same. It's actually a terrible mess.
I have a few female friends, but more male friends. I would say I get along fine with both genders, but my interests and recreational activities are more often shared by males, and particularly the people who are up to do things in the middle of the night at last minute's notice to the detriment of school tend to be guys.
And yes, being close friends with attractive women is both nice but hard. Having pretty things around you is nice but it can also be frustrating to not have them.
I usually get along much better with guys... Share more in common usually, less worrying about whether I like them or they like me... Idk, it's just easier.
Lately however I have made a few good girl friends, which is odd because I never really had any of those before. I find the common trait to be that each of them has a boyfriend though.
Men tend to be too competitive, so I befriend women more easily.
The problem is that I have no common interests with female friends and so it's harder to have a real conversation with them, and I can't get guy friends because I hate the awkwardness of first trying to deal with them.
Quote from: <sub>Pancake</sub> <sup>Persona</sup> on February 01, 2012, 04:00:17 PM
I can't get guy friends because I hate the awkwardness of first trying to deal with them.
maybe it's because you are an asshole
sounds about right
Quote from: MF Doom on February 01, 2012, 07:28:26 PM
maybe it's because you are an asshole
Not liking android doesn't mean I'm an asshole in real life
you can't possibly prefer iOS to Android at this point? or..... windows phone???