that inevitably end in misery goowan
Please help me Boyah, I don't understand the concept of "dating" at all. confuseddood;
because love is pretty kickass while you have it
Quote from: Hakase on September 10, 2011, 09:24:42 PM
because love is pretty kickass while you have it
ya goowan
i guess it's a good thing i've never had love then girl;
idk companionship I guess
wait, you don't understand why people would want to be in a relationship?
As much as I hate relationships right now, I'll admit that love is an amazing thing.
making out is p. cook too goowan
Quote from: applesauce on September 10, 2011, 09:32:37 PM
wait, you don't understand why people would want to be in a relationship?
Not at all. girl;
Quote from: マミさ," on September 10, 2011, 09:31:38 PM
i guess it's a good thing i've never had love then girl;
Neither will I, thankfully. lubdoods;
Quote from: Snowy Deluxe on September 10, 2011, 10:02:46 PM
enducing
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It is really hard to explain. You get to know someone and then can't stop thinking about them and want to see them constantly. From there you go to dating if the feeling is mutual or they want to give you a chance or whatever there reason is. Then feelings strengthen and all the while you are basically intoxicated on the person. Hearing their name gives you butterflies and you realise you kinda are in love and it is completely wonderful and makes everything bright and colourful. You'd do anything for this person and making them smile is like winning the lottery. You just don't feel alone one bit even when you are.
It is a glorious sunshine filled feeling. Then things go wrong for whatever reason, they can't see you as more than a friend or they are moving or worse yet, they like another person. This is where it feels like open heart surgery with zero medicine while you are wide away. It breaks you and makes you jaded to love in general. It is the worst feeling in the world. But three words from someone who caused such pain can make it completely go away. It's more addicting than imaginable.
The feelings you get are amazing but as with all of life it is a struggle and people break you down. It is a risk you have to take to maybe have a chance at happiness.
Oh, and
Quote from: Thyme on September 10, 2011, 09:42:26 PM
making out is p. cook too goowan
not that I have in a long time.
Boy that was fun typing on my phone...
Maybe I should be glad it doesn't make any sense to me. goowan
I think you'll reevaluate when, if ever, you meet someone who really attracts you 5thgrade;
Quote from: Tectrika on September 10, 2011, 10:19:03 PM
Maybe I should be glad it doesn't make any sense to me. goowan
I'm sure you could argue that n_u
It is hard to get out of once you jump in. You can be completely jaded and bitter, but when another new person comes into your life you kinda forget all the shitty feelings and go back to the good. It can be a pretty vicious cycle but it can be so worth it.
It does suck when it goes bad cause through the time you're with someone they infect tiny bits of your life. A song here, aand a movie here. Then when you are trying to get over them it just makes it harder and harder.
Still so worth the good.
Because love is probably the best feeling in the world so it is worth the emotional risks
it feels so good
Emotional rollercoasters would be better than the socially emotionless state I'm left in :(
cause it makes things lively
Quote from: Mio on September 10, 2011, 10:05:00 PM
It is really hard to explain. You get to know someone and then can't stop thinking about them and want to see them constantly. From there you go to dating if the feeling is mutual or they want to give you a chance or whatever there reason is. Then feelings strengthen and all the while you are basically intoxicated on the person. Hearing their name gives you butterflies and you realise you kinda are in love and it is completely wonderful and makes everything bright and colourful. You'd do anything for this person and making them smile is like winning the lottery. You just don't feel alone one bit even when you are.
It is a glorious sunshine filled feeling. Then things go wrong for whatever reason, they can't see you as more than a friend or they are moving or worse yet, they like another person. This is where it feels like open heart surgery with zero medicine while you are wide away. It breaks you and makes you jaded to love in general. It is the worst feeling in the world. But three words from someone who caused such pain can make it completely go away. It's more addicting than imaginable.
The feelings you get are amazing but as with all of life it is a struggle and people break you down. It is a risk you have to take to maybe have a chance at happiness.
Oh, and not that I have in a long time.
Boy that was fun typing on my phone...
i constantly felt alone and felt so guilty because of it cry;
and i don't think i've felt that sunshine feeling
it was more of a lightning bolt mixed in with heavy rain afterwards and then a period of clouds
Quote from: YPR on September 11, 2011, 10:34:31 AM
Because love is probably the best feeling in the world so it is worth the emotional risks
ew
the best feeling in the world was when i recognize how pretty everything is cry;
Quote from: YPR on September 11, 2011, 10:34:31 AM
Because love is probably the best feeling in the world so it is worth the emotional risks
but how often is it permanent
how many relationships actually result in marriage
[spoiler]and even then, how many marriages are actually genuine and how many end with bitter divorce goowan[/spoiler]
Quote from: Tectrika on September 11, 2011, 11:32:06 AM
but how often is it permanent
how many relationships actually result in marriage
[spoiler]and even then, how many marriages are actually genuine and how many end with bitter divorce goowan[/spoiler]
inb4 Tec becomes a PUA 5thgrade;
Quote from: Tectrika on September 11, 2011, 11:32:06 AM
but how often is it permanent
how many relationships actually result in marriage
[spoiler]and even then, how many marriages are actually genuine and how many end with bitter divorce goowan[/spoiler]
Fuck statistics 5thgrade;
Quote from: YPR on September 11, 2011, 11:48:25 AM
Fuck statistics 5thgrade;
If only one could 5thgrade;
Quote from: YPR on September 11, 2011, 11:48:25 AM
Fuck statistics 5thgrade;
ya
if you don't try your chances are 0% 5thgrade;
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"
- Wayne Gretzky 5thgrade;
rollercoasters are fun
i like rollercoaster tycoon
yes, but my point is that the overwhelming majority of all the "shots" taken result in depression at best; only one, if you're lucky, might actually be permanent
why try if i'm almost guaranteed to fail no matter how many times i've tried in the past and in those post-failure states i'm worse off than if i hadn't tried at all sillydood;
I dunno, you should ask geno, he seems pretty upset to not have ever been with a girl n_u
Quote from: Tectrika on September 11, 2011, 12:17:12 PM
yes, but my point is that the overwhelming majority of all the "shots" taken result in depression at best; only one, if you're lucky, might actually be permanent
why try if i'm almost guaranteed to fail and in those post-failure states i'm worse off than if i hadn't tried at all sillydood;
Cause the depression is just filler
I'm really hurt and jaded at the moment as I just got out of my 7 monther and all those things have been said and got back to me via friends/etc, but I would do it all again.
I've never been in love, but this is how a good friend of mine who was in a serious relationship explained love to me:
Love is the ultimate drug. Nothing feels better than being around the person, and when you're not around the person, you can't stop thinking about them to the point where you can get depressed if you go too long without seeing them. It's like a withdrawal.
I've been in not so serious relationships before and I can definitely see the appeal. I'd like to find a girlfriend this year n_n
Quote from: YPR on September 11, 2011, 12:00:40 PM
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"
- Wayne Gretzky 5thgrade;
-Michael Scott
Quote from: Tectrika on September 11, 2011, 11:32:06 AM
but how often is it permanent
how many relationships actually result in marriage
[spoiler]and even then, how many marriages are actually genuine and how many end with bitter divorce goowan[/spoiler]
i think marriage is completely beside the point anyway because i personally don't think marriage should be some sort of default "end goal" for relationships
Marriage is just making your relationship government certified.
It's the feeling that you and your partner are wrapped in a warm blanket. That's what I like. giggle;
To clarify, I don't think dating is stupid or wrong in any way, I just think it's funny that we expect it to go well when we are all fully aware that the probability of eventual failure is extremely high. Upon hearing "X is now going out with Y" - type news, I can't help but think, "That's nice, but how long until the inevitable break up?" sillydood;
[spoiler]and upon hearing "X is no longer going out with Y" - type news, i can't help but think, "well that's unfortunate, but with all the break-ups the world has experienced in the past, couldn't they see that coming lol :|"[/spoiler]
I simply acknowledge that very few romantic relationships actually last "till death do them part", and admittedly it's pretty funny that we can be so optimistic about something almost guaranteed to eventually fail. sillydood;
but it's not like i wouldn't make the same mistakes or anything, unfortunately i too am only human :|
[spoiler]which is why i will never pursue a romantic relationship :|[/spoiler]
:(
Quote from: ClassicTyler on September 17, 2011, 03:49:40 PM
:(
no one can deny that relationships are rather fickle things :|
[spoiler]though it seems i'm the only one who is willing to admit it :|[/spoiler]
mfw i lived my whole life just like tech :|
Quote from: Tectrika on September 17, 2011, 03:52:58 PM
no one can deny that relationships are rather fickle things :|
[spoiler]though it seems i'm the only one who is willing to admit it :|[/spoiler]
I've admitted it countless times. saddood;
I just realize that they're totes worth it.
Quote from: Tectrika on September 17, 2011, 03:52:58 PM
no one can deny that relationships are rather fickle things :|
[spoiler]though it seems i'm the only one who is willing to admit it :|[/spoiler]
you'll find your hot chocolate momma someday :(
Quote from: ClassicTyler on September 17, 2011, 03:40:36 PM
It's the feeling that you and your partner are wrapped in a warm blanket. That's what I like. giggle;
hhhhhhhhnnnngggg it didn't even last long enough for that to happen smithicide;
i want my hot vanilla momma :(
Quote from: silvertone on September 17, 2011, 03:54:16 PM
mfw i lived my whole life just like tech :|
I don't blame you. girl;
lol clucky lubdoods;
Quote from: Khadafi on September 17, 2011, 09:45:01 PM
lol clucky lubdoods;
omg why
i lied i sometimes do feel loved
xoxoxo
i just get bored a lot because i juice out everything out of their intensity
I WANT TO FEEL REAL
DRIFT IN AND THEN OUT
JUST LINGER
i...just want to be a stranger
Some Relationship Advice from a Teenager on Facebook:
"Thats why i avoid relationships all they are is drama and bullshit the cops give us enough of that why add more."
pure poetry cry;
Better question: Why do people choose to go on rollercoasters
Quote from: YPR on September 20, 2011, 01:30:22 PM
Better question: Why do people choose to go on rollercoasters
to have a terrifying fifty seconds or so myface;
I never been on a rollercoaster
Quote from: YPR on September 20, 2011, 01:30:22 PM
Better question: Why do people choose to go on rollercoasters
I did it to stop being terrified of heights and then became addicted :3
Quote from: Mio on September 20, 2011, 01:33:00 PM
I did it to stop being terrified of heights and then became addicted :3
i'm actually more terrified of them now that i've been on one goodjob;
Quote from: Taavet on September 20, 2011, 01:35:06 PM
i'm actually more terrified of them now that i've been on one goodjob;
When I got off the first one I was white knuckled and people thought I was gonna pass out. Afterwards I was all AWWW FUCK YEAH
roller coasters are fun as hell, i love them giggle;
my favorites are the suspended ones, or the powered launch ones
Quote from: Thyme on September 17, 2011, 05:06:24 PM
hhhhhhhhnnnngggg it didn't even last long enough for that to happen smithicide;
i want my hot vanilla momma :(
SILLY ALEXIS
You mean your Maple Syrup Momma.
Quote from: ClassicTyler on September 21, 2011, 05:44:24 PM
SILLY ALEXIS
You mean your Maple Syrup Momma.
I guess you're right. toothdood;
I'm sorry, let me rephrase.
Your "Table" Syrup Momma. lubdoods;
Quote from: ClassicTyler on September 21, 2011, 05:49:11 PM
I'm sorry, let me rephrase.
Your "Table" Syrup Momma. lubdoods;
Yeah.
Table syrup is
thicker. n_u
I'm glad you caught that. n_u
Rollercoasters are fun. Drama sucks! I agree with Kaz about the marriage & end point stuff. Loving somebody is cool!!
Quote from: 紛,,--,,--本語名 on September 20, 2011, 01:30:22 PM
Better question: Why do people choose to go on rollercoasters
Quote from: Taavet on September 20, 2011, 01:32:05 PM
to have a terrifying fifty seconds or so myface;
I thought I was extremely weird for hating rollercoasters myface;
and it gets pointed out often because of how close I live to numerous amusement parks
once when I was a baby I went on the roger rabbit ride at disneyland and it made me cry does that count
Quote from: Hiro on September 21, 2011, 06:19:42 PM
once when I was a baby I went on the roger rabbit ride at disneyland and it made me cry does that count
count as what? Hating rollercoasters or an emotional rollercoaster?
sounds like both n_u
Quote from: Nano on September 21, 2011, 06:20:56 PM
count as what? Hating rollercoasters or an emotional rollercoaster?
sounds like both n_u
i was going for the latter, i love rollercoasters hocuspocus;
i love roller coasters btw goodjob;