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General => The Lobby => Topic started by: KonohaShinobi on June 22, 2011, 03:49:45 PM

Title: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: KonohaShinobi on June 22, 2011, 03:49:45 PM
Does this bullshit piss you off?

I send a text or a message on facebook or some shit and it will sit there for weeks on end without a reply. So at this point it's either: resend it or leave it alone and dont fucking bother.

Which route do you usually take? I have been leaving it alone, if they dont bother to answer when I know for a fact they have seen it: fuck them.

Just the other day, dude said he was hitting up the Zoo, asked if anyone wanted to go. I asked him,"has anyone else responded yet?" he said,"nope" so I said,"alright I'm in all the way."

He didnt say a fucking WORD after that, not an "ok" or an "alright" not ONE word!Now the ENTIRE day has passed and I swear to god if I hear he went with someone else I am going to delete all contact with him.

Why do people do this?! DO YOU DO THIS?!
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: Classic on June 22, 2011, 03:51:35 PM
People usually don't leave me out of things because they actually like me.
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: KonohaShinobi on June 22, 2011, 03:57:01 PM
Quote from: ClassicTyler on June 22, 2011, 03:51:35 PM
People usually don't leave me out of things because they actually like me.

Nah he wanted to include me, he does like me, we're friends and all, he just did not answer back like an asshole!

A lot of people do this:
I send a message
no reply at all

or
I send a message
they reply
I continue
maybe the conversation goes on smoothly

Then they just fucking stop. WHO DOES THIS?!

I wouldnt do this to anyone, no matter how dumb the message is I reply and if its an older message I still reply and then tell them why I didnt answer quick enough
Why? Because They took the time to send me a message!
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: Hiro on June 22, 2011, 04:12:00 PM
Quote from: ClassicTyler on June 22, 2011, 03:51:35 PM
People usually don't leave me out of things because they actually like me.
Most people don't respond to my messages  :(
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: applesauce on June 22, 2011, 04:28:25 PM
If a casual conversation goes on for a long time and it reaches a point where all you have to say is "K", then that's acceptable to just not say anything.


This rarely happens to me. The one time it REALLY bothered me and upset me was when I randomly got a long, many paragraph message on Facebook from someone who had been one of my best friends but I had only seen/talked to maybe 2 times in the last three years, asking me how I was and that sort of thing. I sent a similar, long, thought-out and heartfelt reply, but she never responded. It's been like 9 months, lol.
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: Selkie on June 22, 2011, 04:34:04 PM
Eh, if I send a message to someone and they never respond I always just forget about it pretty soon after.

And if it is actually an important message, like regarding a planned trip, it is virtually always between close friends, who I would see irl soon enough anyway.

I prefer to keep important messages out of cyberspace and in the real world. I really hate all this online/cellphone communication bullshit.
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: piano moths on June 22, 2011, 05:47:16 PM
People are mean, but they generally reply to me.
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: ikanaide on June 22, 2011, 05:58:02 PM
sometimes I can't make reply because there is no money in the phone. but I feel bad :(
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: Kefker on June 23, 2011, 12:28:06 AM
Kono                           >actual people liking him    lol.jpg
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: silvertone on June 23, 2011, 12:58:15 PM
It happens, it sucks and the world still spins.
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: YPrrrr on June 23, 2011, 01:06:51 PM
I pretty much never initiate conversations so I don't really know... but I probably have a fear of this girl;
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: Hensa on June 23, 2011, 01:14:22 PM
(http://i.imgur.com/MYR91.png)


this creep wont leave me alone.  ;---;
he has a history of sexual harassment and stalks me at work.
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: YPrrrr on June 23, 2011, 01:15:29 PM
You should be a grammar nazi and chastise his horrid use of "wats"
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: Hensa on June 23, 2011, 01:20:32 PM
Quote from: YPR on June 23, 2011, 01:15:29 PM
You should be a grammar nazi and chastise his horrid use of "wats"
how should i say it
i want it to be clever.

i dont know blow people off
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: YPrrrr on June 23, 2011, 01:28:12 PM
Dunno there's not much to work with... Do you have any reason to be pleasant towards him?
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: Daddy on June 23, 2011, 02:24:30 PM
wat
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: Andria on June 23, 2011, 03:04:10 PM
Quote from: Khadafi on June 23, 2011, 02:24:30 PM
wat

wat wat in my butt
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: KonohaShinobi on June 23, 2011, 04:14:31 PM
Tell him off but be polite about it, I'm sure he'll appreciate that more than blatantly being ignored. I know I would. Happens way too often.
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: Kalahari Inkantation on June 23, 2011, 04:19:49 PM
..................yeah i'm totes guilty of this

I probably respond to Facebook messages less than one hundredth of the time, but that's because I despise Facebook. hocuspocus;

[spoiler]and because i don't even really know how to respond to most of them befuddlement[/spoiler]
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: Himu on June 23, 2011, 05:26:16 PM
Usually I read a message and then come back after a day or two to reply.  hocuspocus;

But I don't really respond to messages from people who have the chance to interact with me in person on a day to day basis yet fail to do so.
Title: Re: Message Sent: No Reply
Post by: Socks on June 23, 2011, 07:25:22 PM
Quote from: Himu on June 23, 2011, 05:26:16 PM
Usually I read a message and then come back after a day or two to reply.


Doing dumb shit like this only makes seem a cunt. Or a really stuck up bitch. Your choice.