And I don't know who to talk to. I feel like there is nothing unique about me at all. When I look at my friends, they all have incredibly diverse personalities and interests, and are able to do what interest them. I feel like being a conformist my whole life has fucked me up, since sometimes I'll be contemplating doing something, and in the back of my mind I'll think "will doing this make people think I am funnier/cooler/etc" and I fucking hate it.
I don't know who I am :(
Prosquid.
Your future, your purpose.
i feel the same way, except i know the reason is that i'm a lazy fuck with no social skills n_n
just stop giving a fuck what other people think and do what you want VDood;
I feel like my personality is bland too,
but I kinda think that everyone's personality seems different to themselves than it actually appears to other people. So no worries.
Quote from: Admin on January 21, 2011, 09:42:17 PM
just stop giving a fuck what other people think and do what you want VDood;
Much easier said than done. But it's starting to happen.
Quote from: Selkie on January 21, 2011, 09:55:08 PM
I feel like my personality is bland too,
but I kinda think that everyone's personality seems different to themselves than it actually appears to other people. So no worries.
Yeah I've been realizing this too.
I've always felt like a dull, empty shell of a person completely devoid of personality. But it's probably because I'm remarkably lazy and socially retarded as well. giggle;
It's best not to think about it.
Try masturbating in public.
Quote from: Panty on January 21, 2011, 08:55:33 PM
i feel the same way, except i know the reason is that i'm a lazy fuck with no social skills n_n
Me too. But I'm even lazier with worse social skills. cjlubdoods;
Just say no! Say what? No! To drugs!
But seriously, don't do something you don't want to do don't be afraid to look bad.
I'm just awesome. THE POWER OF GOD
i died of aids
Quote from: WTFRAWL on January 23, 2011, 12:49:59 PM
Just say no! Say what? No! To drugs!
But seriously, don't do something you don't want to do don't be afraid to look bad.
No it's not that. I just don't feel myself, but then again I can't figure out what myself is anyways. It's really weird.
The problem is basing who you are on how you want people to view you. madood;
It's all fine and dandy for a while until the idea that you don't know how people view you enters your mind. Then you don't know who you are since you don't know how those people perceive you and that was your identity!
Quote from: Runner Up: Strongbutt on January 23, 2011, 02:57:11 PM
No it's not that. I just don't feel myself, but then again I can't figure out what myself is anyways. It's really weird.
lolololololol
No, seriously though, I think we all go through this. It's hard to discover yourself, but it can be done. First you have to start doing things for you. Simple way to begin, learn to say "no" to others without excuse. happydood;
Quote from: Khadafi on January 23, 2011, 03:12:30 PM
The problem is basing who you are on how you want people to view you. madood;
It's all fine and dandy for a while until the idea that you don't know how people view you enters your mind. Then you don't know who you are since you don't know how those people perceive you and that was your identity!
This is exactly it! It's fucked up :(
College changes things a lot. Back in high school, i felt like everybody knew who I was and I knew who everyone else was. I never met new people, and everybody accepted each other. Now, I'm constantly meeting new people and trying to figure out who they are while trying to figure out who they think I am and it's just a constant mind fuck that I can't stand.
Quote from: Potty Moss on January 23, 2011, 04:10:23 PM
lolololololol
No, seriously though, I think we all go through this. It's hard to discover yourself, but it can be done. First you have to start doing things for you. Simple way to begin, learn to say "no" to others without excuse. happydood;
I've actually been doing this for the last couple weeks, but not without the excuse part. I used to do anything that my friends suggested, just because it meant being around people that I liked, which is okay I guess, but I've started to realize that I really don't like doing certain things.
Life is such a mindfuck
Suck it up pussy
the obvious solution is to stop meeting new people :3
Quote from: Runner Up: Strongbutt on January 23, 2011, 04:55:03 PM
This is exactly it! It's fucked up :(
College changes things a lot. back IN POG FORM in high school, i felt like everybody knew who I was and I knew who everyone else was. I never met new people, and everybody accepted each other. Now, I'm constantly meeting new people and trying to figure out who they are while trying to figure out who they think I am and it's just a constant mind fuck that I can't stand. I've actually been doing this for the last couple weeks, but not without the excuse part. I used to do anything that my friends suggested, just because it meant being around people that I liked, which is okay I guess, but I've started to realize that I really don't like doing certain things.
That's your problem. It's not even a problem, just a kink in your perception.
The moment you start to twist your own personality around to conform to how you
think other people
maybe might think of you is the moment you need to step back and reexamine what you want out of any relationship.
This really isn't an issue though, even though it feels like one. Everybody at some point feels depleted and wary and unsure how they fit in and fsjhfjsdnfksjdfkjsbrkbes.
Take up a new hobby or three.
If you want to.
This time's for living and enjoying and discovering, not fretting over a few sour thoughts that pass through.
Quote from: Admin on January 21, 2011, 09:42:17 PM
just stop giving a fuck what other people think and do what you want VDood;
this,
Quote from: Sean on January 22, 2011, 02:50:55 PM
dood u need 2 git laid
and this.