I am in need of your wisdom.
Why is it that any girl that is intelligent and attractive is either in a relationship with an asshole or just broke up with her asshole boyfriend so she can immediately jump into another relationship with an asshole?
Just curious. This seems to be happening a lot with everyone I'm interested in talking to.
looks liek you aint fast enough bro GET THE FUCK IN THERE BEFORE THEY MEET NEW ASSHOLES
because you are an asshole
because girls are whores
girls like the confidence that assholes have
yeah you have to be confident. not necessarily an asshole, its just most assholes ARE confident
I don't fucking know dude.
Just be confident.
And stop actively looking for long term relationships.
Quote from: yoseph on November 15, 2010, 04:59:06 PM
And stop actively looking for long term relationships.
he can do what he pleases in that regard goodjob;
Quote from: Jim on November 15, 2010, 05:00:33 PM
he can do what he pleases in that regard goodjob;
Allow me to clarify. He can wish for a long-term relationship if he so pleases. However, he should not "get serious" with one and ask a girl "So, we're boyfriend and girlfriend now, right?" or anything to that effect after the first date. n_n
Quote from: yoseph on November 15, 2010, 05:06:43 PM
Allow me to clarify. He can wish for a long-term relationship if he so pleases. However, he should not "get serious" with one and ask a girl "So, we're boyfriend and girlfriend now, right?" or anything to that effect after the first date. n_n
since when does confirming that you're 'boyfriend and girlfriend' make it a 'long term' relationship goodjob;
Quote from: Jim on November 15, 2010, 05:24:38 PM
since when does confirming that you're 'boyfriend and girlfriend' make it a 'long term' relationship goodjob;
I didn't say it confirmed anything. I meant that it had those connotations.
Quote from: yoseph on November 15, 2010, 05:26:12 PM
I didn't say it confirmed anything. I meant that it had those connotations.
no it doesnt, it just has the connotations of exclusivity bassir;
Quote from: yoseph on November 15, 2010, 05:26:12 PM
I didn't say it confirmed anything. I meant that it had those connotations.
'So, are we boyfriend and girlfriend now?'. To me, that seems to be one one confirming if they're boyfriend and girlfriend. And confirming that you are indeed that, doesn't mean that it's a long term relationship. goodjob;
Quote from: Jim on November 15, 2010, 05:31:54 PM
'So, are we boyfriend and girlfriend now?'. To me, that seems to be one one confirming if they're boyfriend and girlfriend. And confirming that you are indeed that, doesn't mean that it's a long term relationship. goodjob;
So, you're breaking up with me now? goowan
Quote from: Analysis Paralysis on November 15, 2010, 05:50:25 PM
So, you're breaking up with me now? goowan
There's no such thing as a boyfriend and boyfriend relationship, so of course. goowan
Quote from: yoseph on November 15, 2010, 04:59:06 PM
Just be confident.
And stop actively looking for long term relationships.
I'm not actively looking for a long term relationship. I'm actively looking for a date.
Quote from: yoseph on November 15, 2010, 05:06:43 PM
Allow me to clarify. He can wish for a long-term relationship if he so pleases. However, he should not "get serious" with one and ask a girl "So, we're boyfriend and girlfriend now, right?" or anything to that effect after the first date. n_n
Who the hell said anything about that? You're reading way too much into this. I'm pretty sure I know how to handle that part once I get there.
Zach, you're a good guy. Just be yourself, mmkay? There are girls out there who are looking for sweeties like you. cjlubdoods;
Quote from: Classique on November 15, 2010, 11:34:00 PM
Zach, you're a good guy. Just be yourself, mmkay? There are girls out there who are looking for sweeties like you. cjlubdoods;
Thank you Tyler. happydood;
Latest update: Girl I was after recently became single, but our schedules rarely line up so I haven't had a lot of time to talk to her. Then I discover that she's hooked up with a guy I know who is an absolute dickhead and I don't understand why anyone would ever want to date him.
This is almost always what happens.
"Que Sera Sera".
Good things will come your way eventually. I promise. Maybe not now, maybe not tomorrow, but keep on your toes and it will happen.
Quote from: Classique on November 16, 2010, 11:28:56 PM
"Que Sera Sera".
Good things will come your way eventually. I promise. Maybe not now, maybe not tomorrow, but keep on your toes and it will happen.
this
also if she just hooked up with a dickhead maybe she's not the type of girl you want to be with anyways
Quote from: Admin on November 16, 2010, 11:56:40 PM
this
also if she just hooked up with a dickhead maybe she's not the type of girl you want to be with anyways
this is the usual response i get to these types of situations, and i would likely agree if this didn't happen to most every girl i'm interested in. i think it's just that women in general must be attracted to dickheads. that's the only conclusion i am able to come to.
maybe the answer is to become the dickhead
Wrong.
Quote from: Zach on November 17, 2010, 12:15:52 AM
this is the usual response i get to these types of situations, and i would likely agree if this didn't happen to most every girl i'm interested in. i think it's just that women in general must be attracted to dickheads. that's the only conclusion i am able to come to.
maybe the answer is to become the dickhead
don't. just be confident. n_u
Quote from: Zach on November 17, 2010, 12:15:52 AM
this is the usual response i get to these types of situations, and i would likely agree if this didn't happen to most every girl i'm interested in. i think it's just that women in general must be attracted to dickheads. that's the only conclusion i am able to come to.
maybe the answer is to become the dickhead
maybe you're just going after the wrong types of girls akudood;
Just stop making a point of actively looking.
And don't act like it's some mandatory, necessary thing. Take your time and let things just develop.
Quote from: Chemical Zen on November 17, 2010, 10:39:04 AM
Just stop making a point of actively looking.
And don't act like it's some mandatory, necessary thing. Take your time and let things just develop.
This is definitely true.
During highschool, it was almost all that I focused on and I ended up trying too hard and not getting what I wanted, which made me feel like shit. What I'm doing now is just becoming friends with girls for the sake of being friends, and who knows, something might develop further, but I'm happy just having people I can hang out with.
Quote from: Chemical Zen on November 17, 2010, 10:39:04 AM
And don't act like it's some mandatory, necessary thing. Take your time and let things just develop.
Exactly. Everybody these days act like you need to be fucking. Always, all the time, there needs to be a vagina within arms reach.
There's more to life. There's gotta be. Be friendly, be confident, one day a girl will come your way who'll want you, you won't be the one asking her out and you won't be actively trying to get her to warm up to you, you'll just kind of automatically get along with each other.
true love(i mean yeah i can see how having a girlfriend would be therapeutic, but there ARE other ways to find peace and purpose, if that's what you're looking for).
Quote from: XLR on November 17, 2010, 11:36:42 AM
Exactly. Everybody these days act like you need to be fucking. Always, all the time, there needs to be a vagina within arms reach.
There's more to life. There's gotta be. Be friendly, be confident, one day a girl will come your way who'll want you, you won't be the one asking her out and you won't be actively trying to get her to warm up to you, you'll just kind of automatically get along with each other.
true love
(i mean yeah i can see how having a girlfriend would be therapeutic, but there ARE other ways to find peace and purpose, if that's what you're looking for).
Also, relationships
aren't for everyone. Some people just aren't meant to be involved in that dynamic, so they shouldn't feel pressured to do so.