Do you think its all right for parents to spank or hit kids with a belt for discipline?
Yes, my friend has never been spanked his entire life and hes a freak , he now started collection Michael Myers Mask and is really fucking creepy ask anyone at my school.
The more my father would hit me, the more I would scream and talk back. The few times he talked to me in a calm, casual manner, I would pretty much always listen to him.
I suppose it may work with kids that get brutal beatings with a stick or something, but it only made me worse. psyduck;
It worked on me. I'm gonna use it on my offspring.
Spank? Sure
Belt? wtf no
Some kids need force to keep them in line because they realize there's not much words can do.
*Looking at Lawlz' post* Yeah, it definitely depends on the kid
Depends on the situation and how the kid usually behaves.
Quote from: Blaj48 on October 22, 2007, 01:39:17 PM
It worked on me. I'm gonna use it on my offspring.
By the time we have kids and how this society is moving we will be getting spanked by our kids.
Quote from: xXTheHaunted on October 22, 2007, 01:40:52 PM
By the time we have kids and how this society is moving we will be getting spanked by our kids.
Because most people are just horrible parents.
If I want my child to respect me, I have to respect him. If I hit him, I'd expect him to hit me back because I'm going to teach him self-defense the second he's out of his mother's womb. psyduck;
I wouldn't say a belt is necessary, but I absolutely believe that spanking or slapping a kid's hand is effective.
I mean, who knows,maybe there are more effective methodes, but from babysitting my three little brothers, I can tell you I can talk to them all I want, but it'll never be as effective as "Stop doing that now or you're getting a punch to the face."
Quote from: Lawlz on October 22, 2007, 01:42:20 PM
Because most people are just horrible parents.
If I want my child to respect me, I have to respect him. If I hit him, I'd expect him to hit me back because I'm going to teach him self-defense the second he's out of his mother's womb. psyduck;
Then when you get old, the kids will do whatever they, if you tell them they cant, then they will. Since you just lost the power over them, since they have nothing to fear.
Quote from: prjuni on October 22, 2007, 01:47:21 PM
Then when you get old, the kids will do whatever they, if you tell them they cant, then they will. Since you just lost the power over them, since they have nothing to fear.
... And I wouldn't want my child to fear me. If I gain his respect, and he respects me, then he should be a good son. If he fears or hates me, then he's going to intentionally go against whatever I request.
Quote from: prjuni on October 22, 2007, 01:47:21 PM
Then when you get old, the kids will do whatever they, if you tell them they cant, then they will. Since you just lost the power over them, since they have nothing to fear.
...except fear itself
[spoiler]I win powerofone;[/spoiler]
Quote from: Lawlz on October 22, 2007, 01:49:39 PM
... And I wouldn't want my child to fear me. If I gain his respect, and he respects me, then he should be a good son. If he fears or hates me, then he's going to intentionally go against whatever I request.
Wtf are you talking about your never going to have kids.
Some children need a smack across their face.
Quote from: JMV290 on October 22, 2007, 01:56:00 PM
Some children need a smack across their face.
READ: 95% of niggers. powerofone;
spanks are fun. nothing worse, though. and not too hard.
IT'S SUPER EFFECTIVE.
CHILD FLINCHED
Quote from: Lawlz on October 22, 2007, 01:37:59 PM
The more my father would hit me, the more I would scream and talk back. The few times he talked to me in a calm, casual manner, I would pretty much always listen to him.
I suppose it may work with kids that get brutal beatings with a stick or something, but it only made me worse. psyduck;
LOOKS LIKE SOMEONE WASN'T HIT HARD ENOUGH.
Quote from: Your Posting Rival on October 22, 2007, 03:30:27 PM
2 FOR FLINCHING
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Quote from: prjuni on October 22, 2007, 03:38:10 PM
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I think I'll go take the free parking money now gentleman;
I think sometimes a belt is necessary. A spank or a slap on the hand will do nothing if the kid's over 5 years old.
I personally was never hit, cause I'm a good kid, but some kids deserve much worse.
BTW, I know how it feels to get hit with a belt.
When my mom and dad hit me it just made me even worse. But when they just tell me to stop, in a calm manner, I stop. caterpie;
No matter what the punishment is, it's useless unless it's done immediately and it becomes predictable for a child. If you pull the old "you just wait 'til we get home" threat, you'll end up punishing the child for the wrong behaviors.
Quote from: Rei Kazanami on October 22, 2007, 07:32:42 PM
No matter what the punishment is, it's useless unless it's done immediately and it becomes predictable for a child. If you pull the old "you just wait 'til we get home" threat, you'll end up punishing the child for the wrong behaviors.
ya.
I think the child should get a nice smack across the face right there.
Just hard enough to leave a stinging sensation, but not hard enough to leave any bruises.
Quote from: Lawlz on October 22, 2007, 01:42:20 PM
Because most people are just horrible parents.
If I want my child to respect me, I have to respect him. If I hit him, I'd expect him to hit me back because I'm going to teach him self-defense the second he's out of his mother's womb. psyduck;
lol lawlz teaching a kid self-defense. spam;
yes, beat the kid if he acts up. not to the point the kid's screaming, but enough to keep them disciplined.
Eh, no. I think other forms of punishment are more effective.
Quote from: Shannon on October 22, 2007, 11:29:23 PM
Eh, no. I think other forms of punishment are more effective.
Punishment generally isn't as effective as it should be in the the first place, regardless of what sort of punishment it is. Reinforcing the right attitudes is generally a better idea.
Quote from: Sorbet on October 22, 2007, 07:30:56 PM
When my mom and dad hit me it just made me even worse. But when they just tell me to stop, in a calm manner, I stop. caterpie;
srsly
Quote from: Shannon on October 22, 2007, 11:29:23 PM
Eh, no. I think other forms of punishment are more effective.
KAKI IS THE BEST MOTHER HERE, SO WE CAN TRUST HER. powerofone;
Yeah, but only if they're little bastards.
Children are for suckers. caterpie;
Quote from: Lawlz on October 23, 2007, 03:26:26 AM
srslyKAKI IS THE BEST MOTHER HERE, SO WE CAN TRUST HER. powerofone;
she's the
only mother here.