how do i attract girls

[The Hand That Fisted Everyone]

I'm so cold

stop braggin

[Hiro]

It snows in Arizona? 

I thought we established this! It lightly snows throughout northern Arizona, but the Flagstaff area especially gets heavy amounts of snow and is pretty damn cold for about half the year because of the elevation, 7k ft or so. Here's what I woke up to on saturday:



And Carly we should hang out while you're up here or something!

[Classic]

You don't.
You have me. 

[Socks]

You don't attract girls. You live in the world as completely as you can. I cannot possibly explain to you my vast theory of everything. But here and there is shines through, and I am always looking for someone to share it with. When a certain girl comes my way, as do many things in life, from chances to luck, you see her and you stop, and you think and you look. I usually follow beauty, because I am after truth, and ultimately her name. It is a new experience all over again, because, she represents an entire new possibility, her own universe, of ideas and reality. It's the most exciting thing in the world! You can't get enough of it, this designer drug. To fall in love. From there on it's just instinct and higher thinking, to express what you feel inside. But we are people, of course, and hopefully full of intelligence and creative tendency, so that each and every relationship is realized in a distinct, and unique way. If you really just take it seriously and imagine what is means to live with that sort of understanding and intimacy and mutual immersion of lives and hopes and emotions into a one world view, of sorts, it is then easy to see the power, and to treat it respectfully and to tread cautiously.I do not easily enter or leave the presence of these circumstances, if I should happen to be involved in them. For they are quite significant.

[piano moths]

Grant!!! We should have!!!! I left this morning though. It was so nice. So goddamn codl though and I don't have any good shoes for the snow cuz they had holes in them and snow kept getting in and freezing my socks and feet though. SO FUN though. OMG I can't wait to move up thur.

It's cold.

[just1more]

You don't attract girls. You live in the world as completely as you can. I cannot possibly explain to you my vast theory of everything. But here and there is shines through, and I am always looking for someone to share it with. When a certain girl comes my way, as do many things in life, from chances to luck, you see her and you stop, and you think and you look. I usually follow beauty, because I am after truth, and ultimately her name. It is a new experience all over again, because, she represents an entire new possibility, her own universe, of ideas and reality. It's the most exciting thing in the world! You can't get enough of it, this designer drug. To fall in love. From there on it's just instinct and higher thinking, to express what you feel inside. But we are people, of course, and hopefully full of intelligence and creative tendency, so that each and every relationship is realized in a distinct, and unique way. If you really just take it seriously and imagine what is means to live with that sort of understanding and intimacy and mutual immersion of lives and hopes and emotions into a one world view, of sorts, it is then easy to see the power, and to treat it respectfully and to tread cautiously.I do not easily enter or leave the presence of these circumstances, if I should happen to be involved in them. For they are quite significant.

This exactly what I feel about this girl I've been seeing for the past month. In fact, today we decided that we both really do love each other like in a relationship.

[spoiler]However, this beautiful, wonderful girl is already happily married, albeit to a completely asexual guy. So while we're not an official relationship because we just can't be, we are lovers. Friends with benefits, if you will. [/spoiler]

[Boogus Epirus Aurelius]

This exactly what I feel about this girl I've been seeing for the past month. In fact, today we decided that we both really do love each other like in a relationship.

However, this beautiful, wonderful girl is already happily married, albeit to a completely asexual guy. So while we're not an official relationship because we just can't be, we are lovers. Friends with benefits, if you will.

The fuck?

[just1more]

The fuck?

Yeah, it's an interesting situation. But I'm okay with it for the time being.

[Boogus Epirus Aurelius]

Yeah, it's an interesting situation. But I'm okay with it for the time being.

Well, if you two are really interested in the long term, shouldn't you give word to the guy she's screwing around withon?

[just1more]

Well, if you two are really interested in the long term, shouldn't you give word to the guy she's screwing around withon?

We're not interested in the long term. It's just for fun. Her friends know that we hangout and have sex A LOT, and I'm sure her husband suspects we do. But her husband is not interested in sex at all. It's weird, but he allows her a "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, and I've embraced that. I really need the experience, since I've never been in a relationship before and don't feel like I'm prepared for a real relationship at this time. So this is good experience for me without being a real relationship, although it is a little bit like one.

Eventually I'm going to want something real, and we've both come to terms with that. That day will come, but for now we're going to have a LOT of fun together. I connect with her in ways I've never connected with someone before. If she wasn't married I'd be head over heels in love with her, but we can't always get exactly what we want. Sometimes we need to work with what we've got.

P.S. - She's 23, so it's not like I'm seeing someone much older than me. Only a two year difference. Figured I should probably make that distinction before people get the wrong idea.

[Boogus Epirus Aurelius]

We're not interested in the long term. It's just for fun. Her friends know that we hangout and have sex A LOT, and I'm sure her husband suspects we do. But her husband is not interested in sex at all. It's weird, but he allows her a "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, and I've embraced that. I really need the experience, since I've never been in a relationship before and don't feel like I'm prepared for a real relationship at this time. So this is good experience for me without being a real relationship, although it is a little bit like one.

Eventually I'm going to want something real, and we've both come to terms with that. That day will come, but for now we're going to have a LOT of fun together. I connect with her in ways I've never connected with someone before. If she wasn't married I'd be head over heels in love with her, but we can't always get exactly what we want. Sometimes we need to work with what we've got.

P.S. - She's 23, so it's not like I'm seeing someone much older than me. Only a two year difference. Figured I should probably make that distinction before people get the wrong idea.

Well, I'm not sure how you can't get the wrong idea though, mang. You're getting in the middle of a married couple. Unless the guy specifically gave you permission to diddle his wife, there's no getting around that.
I'm sorry, but I still could never justify doing something like that.
There is never such a thing as a completely physical relationship with no strings, and that situation is one that could end very ugly for yourself.

Maybe it's just me here, but I wouldn't really call that good experience for a future relationship either. If the entire thing revolves around sex, won't you expect your future prospects to end up that way as well?

[just1more]

Well, I'm not sure how you can't get the wrong idea though, mang. You're getting in the middle of a married couple. Unless the guy specifically gave you permission to diddle his wife, there's no getting around that.
I'm sorry, but I still could never justify doing something like that.
There is never such a thing as a completely physical relationship with no strings, and that situation is one that could end very ugly for yourself.

Maybe it's just me here, but I wouldn't really call that good experience for a future relationship either. If the entire thing revolves around sex, won't you expect your future prospects to end up that way as well?

It doesn't just revolve around sex. I genuinely enjoy her company, as she does mine. We hang out all the time now. It's really only whenever we're alone do thing get more serious, or playful. We smoke all the time and just hang out. I've had great conversations with her husband and he's a cool guy. Really, I'm just filling a part of her life that he can't fill for his own reasons.

It's not like I'm her first boy toy either. She's had fun with various other guys and friends ever since they got married three years ago. She actually kept her virginity up until they got married, thinking that's what she was supposed o do and then he would open up to her. Unfortunately, she didn't realize that he really was a guy that was completely disinterested in having sex and being physical. Today I learned that he hasn't made out with her in years, which boggles my mind. She's such a good kisser....

But that's the only part of their relationship that's lacking. They're an otherwise very helpful couple, and since sex isn't important to him, but is important to her, he gives her a free pass so long as she doesn't share her adventures.

[Hiro]

Grant!!! We should have!!!! I left this morning though. It was so nice. So goddamn codl though and I don't have any good shoes for the snow cuz they had holes in them and snow kept getting in and freezing my socks and feet though. SO FUN though. OMG I can't wait to move up thur.

It's cold.

Damn, you should come back soon! The snow can be pretty bad if you're not prepared, make sure you get those boots asap!
You're coming here next semester, right?

You don't attract girls. You live in the world as completely as you can. I cannot possibly explain to you my vast theory of everything. But here and there is shines through, and I am always looking for someone to share it with. When a certain girl comes my way, as do many things in life, from chances to luck, you see her and you stop, and you think and you look. I usually follow beauty, because I am after truth, and ultimately her name. It is a new experience all over again, because, she represents an entire new possibility, her own universe, of ideas and reality. It's the most exciting thing in the world! You can't get enough of it, this designer drug. To fall in love. From there on it's just instinct and higher thinking, to express what you feel inside. But we are people, of course, and hopefully full of intelligence and creative tendency, so that each and every relationship is realized in a distinct, and unique way. If you really just take it seriously and imagine what is means to live with that sort of understanding and intimacy and mutual immersion of lives and hopes and emotions into a one world view, of sorts, it is then easy to see the power, and to treat it respectfully and to tread cautiously.I do not easily enter or leave the presence of these circumstances, if I should happen to be involved in them. For they are quite significant.

You know socks, this is very well-put and I quite agree.

[snoorkel]

It doesn't just revolve around sex. I genuinely enjoy her company, as she does mine. We hang out all the time now. It's really only whenever we're alone do thing get more serious, or playful. We smoke all the time and just hang out. I've had great conversations with her husband and he's a cool guy. Really, I'm just filling a part of her life that he can't fill for his own reasons.

It's not like I'm her first boy toy either. She's had fun with various other guys and friends ever since they got married three years ago. She actually kept her virginity up until they got married, thinking that's what she was supposed o do and then he would open up to her. Unfortunately, she didn't realize that he really was a guy that was completely disinterested in having sex and being physical. Today I learned that he hasn't made out with her in years, which boggles my mind. She's such a good kisser....

But that's the only part of their relationship that's lacking. They're an otherwise very helpful couple, and since sex isn't important to him, but is important to her, he gives her a free pass so long as she doesn't share her adventures.

That's fucked up

[piano moths]

Damn, you should come back soon! The snow can be pretty bad if you're not prepared, make sure you get those boots asap!
You're coming here next semester, right?

I want to come back! I didn't really want to leave but i had to cuz of class. It wasn't really even that bad I guess, just SO COLD. I have to get some stutfffff...
Yes! That's my current plan. I still don't have anything set up though (I just sent in my trasnfer app last week)

What Yoseph is doing sux.