i'm turning 21

[famy]

nope

that's because you like gay sex you

[crystalpepsi]

i almots lol'd at the thr aed but then i felt bad but then i lold anyway lol you sir are a

Says the guy who bangs an ugly chick.

[famy]

Says the guy who bangs an ugly chick.

haha ok


says the nerd who has never had a girlfriend 

[crystalpepsi]

haha ok


says the nerd who has never had a girlfriend 

Lol if I had low standards like you it'd be easy. 

[famy]

Lol if I had low standards like you it'd be easy. 

my standards are fine, you're the one even more desperate than the faggot that made this thread

it would be easy if you had any social skills and weren't completely ugly 

[Kalahari Inkantation]

that's because you like gay sex you

i asked you to keep that private

[crystalpepsi]

my standards are fine, you're the one even more desperate than the faggot that made this thread

it would be easy if you had any social skills and weren't completely ugly 

Lol the irony.

[just1more]

Actually, girl experience really is all he needs. Instead of working on how to get sex, how about you work on how to even flirt with a girl first. Then learn how to kiss a girl. And then worry about getting in her pants.

Gotta learn how to walk before you can run.

[Socks]

Of course you would. You're a romantic.

Not all of us treat sex as the highest expression of beauty between two lovers, sorry.

A Romantic, huh? I guess that makes you the Barbarian, right?

We're all simply one in the same, the only difference lies in priorities. She can be treated that way. Only more of us need to. Some seek to balance everything out to a fault and move on with their life in a more agreeable manner with the world at large. This is fine. If you are aware you are miserable. And if you are not you are confused and upset. So lets all admit the sacrifice of this casual view. It does not cultivate a condition in which you actually need and want someone else as everything in your life.  Because your efforts and your attention is focused somewhere else, and intent and indifference without the right cause, well, they lead to a lot of gain, but really you're still alone, and only half an individual. It's not difficult to love another or an abnormal thing at all, it is natural and very real.

When I see a girl, I see how she expresses her beauty and changes the world around her into a more lovely state, enchanting and graceful. I want to know more. I want to feel it. And I want to have it. My life suddenly has more meaning and positive light, with an opportunity to invest itself into a source of inspiration, achievement and potential that is pure and decent and actually a 'true achievement' if done right. So I introduce myself and proceed happily to wherever the connection goes, no pretense nor plan, only the burning desire to make a genuine and cool friend. Sure it takes patience and it takes time, transfixed mornings and bewildered nights, but my life can't go on for solely my own sake, so this
approach takes precedence, and becomes a true and noble and rewarding priority in my own life.

I hardly think this is an uncommon feeling to sense, but the willingness to openly profess it, understand it, and earnestly pursue it, is where it all becomes a mess. A woman may be attractive, yes, but her habits and thoughts, if not just as beautiful, are the ultimate turn off. There is no desire to advance on that front. Even if to her such excursions are a weekend trip. To me they are not. So I don't compromise, even if she does. To hell with society and all who will dispense emotions for a quicker, behind the curtain, sight.

Their ice cream melts, mine does not, because she's a rose.

I could mention the benefits of a close relationship and how I feel with mine. But if you don't care to know, you don't deserve to either.

[Slim]

Thanks for that, socks. I feel more enlightened already.

I'm not saying that he should never go for a close relationship or that one-night stands are superior to a real girlfriend, only that he shouldn't let his inability to find a long-term partner get in the way of him losing his virginity. What if he doesn't find a girl that makes him feel the way you do about your girlfriend? How old should he be before caving in and going for a one-night stand? 30? 40? Really I'd love to know.

[Socks]

You're a funny guy Slim, and it made me laugh. To answer your question however...

I would too, but unfortunately for the two of us I am not in the business of rifortune telling the future. From my own past I can tell you that finding theé girl is the easy part, getting her to care is often very difficult. On that part good luck and careful picking. In any case you are right of course and one should reason against the absence and follow chance, wherever she presents herself. I just find it hard to believe that a decent fellow in such time would consistently uoremain alone. Perhaps he could, and in such case it is clear that something is wrong, and on that matter neither you or I have any place to talk.

And hey I never said it was easy! I only said what must be done. If you fail, that's on you. The moment you endeavor onto something is the instant your epic saga begins, and if yiu don't take it seriously and hold it a little artistically, I don't know, your stage might not seem as crowded as mine. Generally speaking of course.

[Samus Aran]

Actually, girl experience really is all he needs. Instead of working on how to get sex, how about you work on how to even flirt with a girl first. Then learn how to kiss a girl. And then worry about getting in her pants.

Gotta learn how to walk before you can run.

exactly

[just1more]

exactly

What he's got to realize is of course he's gonna screw up a lot. He doesn't have any experience. But you don't get experience if you don't talk to girls and simply pay for sex. Sure, I guess you'll get experience in the sack, but that is so less important than actually talking to the girl and relating with her. Hence the word "relationship".

He will screw up, but he must realize his mistakes and remember to correct them for next time. If it helps, think of it as a video game, with experience points and different levels.

[spoiler]I know that helps me. >_>[/spoiler]

[hobbit]

A Romantic, huh? I guess that makes you the Barbarian, right?

We're all simply one in the same, the only difference lies in priorities. She can be treated that way. Only more of us need to. Some seek to balance everything out to a fault and move on with their life in a more agreeable manner with the world at large. This is fine. If you are aware you are miserable. And if you are not you are confused and upset. So lets all admit the sacrifice of this casual view. It does not cultivate a condition in which you actually need and want someone else as everything in your life.  Because your efforts and your attention is focused somewhere else, and intent and indifference without the right cause, well, they lead to a lot of gain, but really you're still alone, and only half an individual. It's not difficult to love another or an abnormal thing at all, it is natural and very real.

When I see a girl, I see how she expresses her beauty and changes the world around her into a more lovely state, enchanting and graceful. I want to know more. I want to feel it. And I want to have it. My life suddenly has more meaning and positive light, with an opportunity to invest itself into a source of inspiration, achievement and potential that is pure and decent and actually a 'true achievement' if done right. So I introduce myself and proceed happily to wherever the connection goes, no pretense nor plan, only the burning desire to make a genuine and cool friend. Sure it takes patience and it takes time, transfixed mornings and bewildered nights, but my life can't go on for solely my own sake, so this
approach takes precedence, and becomes a true and noble and rewarding priority in my own life.

I hardly think this is an uncommon feeling to sense, but the willingness to openly profess it, understand it, and earnestly pursue it, is where it all becomes a mess. A woman may be attractive, yes, but her habits and thoughts, if not just as beautiful, are the ultimate turn off. There is no desire to advance on that front. Even if to her such excursions are a weekend trip. To me they are not. So I don't compromise, even if she does. To hell with society and all who will dispense emotions for a quicker, behind the curtain, sight.

Their ice cream melts, mine does not, because she's a rose.

I could mention the benefits of a close relationship and how I feel with mine. But if you don't care to know, you don't deserve to either.

so basically what you're saying is that everything is more fun with someone you love. i agree with that.

but wouldn't you agree that it's more fun to do something with anyone than to do nothing by yourself? or course, not in all situations.

[Socks]

I would agree with that but only because they wow over me. You see, everything that I do has been honed and enhanced on my own over time, so in comparison it seems perfected and awesome. How I cuff my sleeves, what shoes I wear, and the way I talk and look at you. It's only because people mean more to me than it does to them. To me a meeting is a chance, to them it's a routine. But they don't know that. And they feel special.

For those of us who watch time tick alone, when we meet someone it is the most important time. So we put more effort and thought into the occasion and ourselves. That extra standard which we hold our own was born out of appreciation and awareness of what it means to have someone, and how you achieve that status. So it's translated onto you and in a general encounter it comes out in a way of passion and mystery. Someone to love and understand. And it's true, so they get it all.

That's the good thing about being alone sometimes; the person you find next, meets a changed man. And doesn't even know how lucky she is.

Not everything you do alone is a waste. Actually the opposite, it's a treasure. It will always show through, and always positively for you. For me, the biggest happiness and inspiration in a relationship comes from showing the people whom I have come to know and care for (and ultimately how I show it) the things I have myself learned, seen and done; because I value those things. And I want them to know them too. To me that's the essence of friendship and the beauty of love.