Feelings discussion

[YPrrrr]

Yeah I was considering saving the apology letter for the end of the year but I hate having people made at me so I caved early... I'm sure I'll be fine once I'm home for summer but for right now I can't help the way I feel really

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i love being voluntarily celibate

[ikanaide]

I'm OK.

There is good to make balance with bad. ^_^

[just1more]

I'm feeling pretty good. Disappointed about the date I had the other night, though. It was the second date I had with this girl. I paid for a meal at a nice Italian restaurant, I made her laugh and smile all night, we talked for hours, and I STILL haven't gotten so much as a KISS. I took her to a park after dinner because she wanted to go somewhere relaxing, and nothing happened.

Meanwhile, she's asking me things like, "Joe, do you believe in love? What did you think of me when we first met?" Really? How does this make any sense?

I'm looking for a short-term girlfriend, not a freaking wife.

[Daddy]

I'm feeling pretty good. Disappointed about the date I had the other night, though. It was the second date I had with this girl. I paid for a meal at a nice Italian restaurant, I made her laugh and smile all night, we talked for hours, and I STILL haven't gotten so much as a KISS. I took her to a park after dinner because she wanted to go somewhere relaxing, and nothing happened.

Meanwhile, she's asking me things like, "Joe, do you believe in love? What did you think of me when we first met?" Really? How does this make any sense?

I'm looking for a short-term girlfriend, not a freaking wife.

It took a few weeks for me to get a kiss from my lady.

I took her out on the 5th of December and we went out a few times after that. She first came over my house on 24 December and I thought it went well (kind of awkward since we didn't discuss out relationship at that point yet and my family kept saying she was my girlfriend). She made a comment about wanting to sleep over but her mom wouldn't let her stay out. I went to kiss her when I dropped her off and she pulled away. I was so embarrassed. 

She came over the following Monday and not much happened. I took her and her friend out the next Wednesday (29th of December) and she kissed me when I went to hug her before she got out of the car.



I'm looking for a long as possible girlfriend and/or wifey

[Daddy]

Also my feelings are very frustrated right now. She's been in the hospital for almost a month now.


I've not completed any classwork in over 3 weeks, and I think I've been to class (well not counting weight lifting where I've been every time except once because I was too tired to get out of bed) once in that period. I miss her.

I don't think the doctors realize how frustrating it is for either of us to only be able to see the only person you've loved for an hour and a half a day, 3 days per week (visiting hours run during my work shift monday-thursday) under complete supervision by doctors, nurses, and interruption by other patients FOR ALMOST A MONTH

It is awful

First week I dealt with it by just doing a shitload of adderall and caffeine since I couldn't sleep. Now I'm just stuck where I was when I did not feel much and was a dick who got to feel stuff by only being wreckless cjlubdoods;

She should be out this week I hope.

[Thyme]

idk

it's been 3 months and i'm still sad about it

[YPrrrr]

What's the point of a short term girlfriend?

idk

it's been 3 months and i'm still sad about it

Me too

We'll find someone else eventually

[ME##]

What's the point of a short term girlfriend? Me too

a bro's gotta have his sex

[YPrrrr]

a bro's gotta have his sex

You can have sex without the emotional attachment; creating a situation in which you're exclusive only causes attachment and then would make the end of the relationship harder than it needs to be unless both parties are aware it's only a limited time arrangement... In which case you're fuckbuddies, not a couple

[just1more]

What's the point of a short term girlfriend?

I'm simply not actively looking for a long-term relationship. If I get into a relationship, and it lasts a long time, that's fine. But it's not what I'm looking for, and it's definitely not something I need nor want at this time. I'm not even completely sure where I'll be going to school in the fall. Why would I want to get so emotionally attached to someone, only to break it up a couple months later because I'll be away at school? I don't need that unnecessary anxiety.

Plus, it's beginning to become clear that this girl is pretty high maintenance. She wears expensive clothes on our dates and is always talking about eating out at expensive restaurants. No thank you.

[Kalahari Inkantation]

why date her at all if you know it's going to end soon

[Travis]

why date her at all if you know it's going to end soon

[burzumfan420]

to own her and play with her feelings 

[just1more]

why date her at all if you know it's going to end soon

She asked me out to go see a play with her. 

Plus she's pretty cute, but she's got a lot of issues I'd rather not have to deal with.