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Do you think you'll find your person?

Started by Hiro, August 19, 2009, 11:59:11 PM

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rdl

Whatever, I'm sick of playing psychiatrist.

Socks


rdl

You already overdosed on them. You're dead.

Socks


the shortest route to the sea

I have a relationship of 9 months which is likely to turn into the rest of our lives. We communicate constantly and honestly, have a great deal in common, and love each other very much. I'm lucky in that I've found someone to spend the rest of my life with. She will guide me and I will guide her, we will share in our growth, our ups and downs, as peers and equals. She has made me the person I am today.

But I keep that separate from a person who can totally define and reshape one's life in key ways. For me, there is a different form of love there. There is a person who did that for me. I met him scarcely over a 4 week period 3 years ago, and he has shaped me and will continue to do so for the rest of my life. He put the first break in my emotional bubble that I had before puberty, and somehow the wild directions I'm going in my life are guided, or at least ghostily sketched, by my memory of him. I still feel so much attraction, like gravity, to him after 3 years. I haven't spoken to him in 2 years, and I haven't seen him in 1 year. That doesn't change a thing.

In short, my girlfriend / fiancee guides my life, but his memory sketches my future as it happens. One is my peer, the other is my shadow.

Quote from: Socks on January 03, 2011, 09:56:24 PM
pompous talk for my eyes water and quiver with a twitch like a little bitch

Himu

I've found someone that makes me feel as if I've never been in love before. giggle;

I don't really believe in true love, or "it's meant to be", so I'm never really upset when it doesn't work out.  Even though it may seem kind of wrong to most people, like they think I never actually cared.  I'm not in a big hurry really.  When it happens, it happens.  It'll happen to anybody, seriously.  I've grown tired of hearing "I'll never find love ;---;, I'm ugly, I've got problems, I deserve to die", you don't know that, especially at this young age.  Like I said when it happens, it happens. bassir;

Feynman

i used to say no

but then i met my girlfriend

and then i was like "lol is she serious"

... akudood;

Classic

I've gone through two guys and asked the same thing. One was a typical pig douchebag and the other had to relocate.


akudood;

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