Do you think you'll find your person?

[Hiro]

I don't believe in the whole "one true love" or "soulmate" thing, but I do think there are a few rare people that a person can feel a true love for. If you haven't already when do you think you'll find them, if at all? I think (or at least hope) that I'll find someone eventually, but not soon nor in a long time. Maybe I'll find them in college, maybe shortly after. Maybe I'll find them in Sweden, or possibly I've already found them and just don't know it.

[rdl]

Meh, I don't believe in soul mates. If someone cares about you they can become your soulmate, but there's no such thing as love at first sight or anything like that. Something can happen that might seem like it was "love at first sight" but it's just a coincidence if both people end up falling for each other.

I doubt I'll find "my person", but I'm not really looking to find them. I probably couldn't support a family.

[YPrrrr]

I dont think you can just pinpoint where you'll find them... What makes Sweden such a viable spot?

Also, yes I think I'll find my person... My problem right now is that I'm dating someone I don't really love... I like her well enough but for whatever reason I can't bring myself to say i love her

[The artist formally known]

I think that I found her, though she is moving to Washington for two years so that will be fun.

[Hiro]

I already said that I agree with what you just said, I don't believe in true love. Ideally, I want two kids, one of them adopted. I think that I could eventually support a family of that size, I don't want kids until I'm 29-30.

[Hiro]

Ypr, I said Sweden because I intend on living there, at least for a while. So it would be possible that I could find her there.

[snorkel]

I've met one such person in my life so far.

[Andria]

Expecting to ever find someone who is perfect for you is just setting yourself up for disappointment in my opinion at least. Not only that I think there is more than one "true love" and that you can feel true love for multiple people its an emotion a very strong one but it isn't really an exclusive thing. Then even if there is one person for you out there the likelihood of you finding them is very very very very low.

However I am sure I will eventually meet someone who I fall in love with who loves me too and we will make a happy couple 

[Hiro]

Did you even read the post? I never said anything about a one perfect person.

[YPrrrr]

Did you even read the post? I never said anything about a one perfect person.

I think he's just stating that as a generality

[rdl]

I already said that I agree with what you just said

I never said you didn't.

[Andria]

I think he's just stating that as a generality

That and a lot of people use the word soulmate to mean like someone who is absolutely perfect for you or whatever

[Claquesous]

I don't see myself finding anyone in the foreseeable future if I stay the same as I am now. Right now I could care less about finding someone to love. I'm perfectly happy as I am now, single.

[Chris (JayJay)]

I already have.  cjlubdoods;

[Veal]

It sounds like most of you are speaking out of inexperience and pessimistic assumptions. I've already found a nearly perfect fit for me, under the strangest circumstances possible, and we both had a list of standards before we even met each other and both fit them perfectly (I've seen hers and vice versa). But I'm not fooling myself, you can always fall in love with more than one person. Love is a choice, not a feeling. But there's definitely certain people you'll meet that fit you better and thus will be easier to love and will love you more.