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Post by: Snowy on June 05, 2017, 05:23:03 AM
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Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: C.Mongler on June 05, 2017, 07:01:46 AM
[move]but did your 3ds get banned from the nintendo network????[/move]
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: Mando Pandango on June 05, 2017, 10:06:27 AM
Yeah, I never see anyone in the Jay St stores in Albany. Not surprised they're dying.

Good for you on everything though! Sounds like you're really happy.
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: Mando Pandango on June 05, 2017, 12:59:57 PM
Quote from: Snowy on June 05, 2017, 12:54:14 PM
Quote from: Pop"icl...!Pop"icl...!Pop"icl...! on June 05, 2017, 10:06:27 AM
Yeah, I never see anyone in the Jay St stores in Albany. Not surprised they're dying.

Good for you on everything though! Sounds like you're really happy.
which store is closest to you? Crossgates has dipped a bit but the Colonie Center one has taken a big hit.

Yeah I've been a lot happier since I left Jay st. Much better quality of life.
When I lived there, they were both about the same. Colonie was a little closer and was by far the mall I was at more often. Crossgates is enormous though, so I'm not surprised they did more business.

The one in Colonie Center was also directly across from a Gamestop, so.
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: Mando Pandango on June 05, 2017, 01:59:10 PM
gross
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: Hiro on June 05, 2017, 02:19:59 PM
definitely didn't know this, that new job seems like a huge upgrade wrench; good to hear about you and gina too, you seem like a good couple.
what's your living situation?
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: Hiro on June 05, 2017, 03:03:49 PM
d o n ' t  l i v e  w i t h  f r i e n d s
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: Samus Aran on June 05, 2017, 05:40:41 PM
Quote from: ƕɾο on June 05, 2017, 03:03:49 PM
d o n ' t  l i v e  w i t h  f r i e n d s


I feel like this advice only applies to girls. Not to intentionally stereotype or anything. But they seem to get in each other's hair more than guy friends do. Idk. Either way, living with friends isn't automatically a bad idea.
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: YPrrrr on June 05, 2017, 05:47:34 PM
Having lived with guy friends it will inevitably strain the relationship as someone will be a neat freak or someone will be lazy about doing their share. Someone will be late with bills or not pay back friends they owe money. Someone will borrow/steal food, dishes, parking spaces whatever.

Honestly friends can end up taking a lot more liberties because they assume their friendmate will be cool about it when that's definitely not always the case.

Now obviously there are the advantages of always having your buddies around for spontaneous activities and such too.

I wouldn't say guys are any better or worse than girls though.
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: Hiro on June 05, 2017, 06:09:24 PM
yeah what aubrey said
strangers/acquaintances  respect each other's space, property, and rules a lot more
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: strongbad on June 05, 2017, 09:04:24 PM
Quote from: ƕɾο on June 05, 2017, 03:03:49 PM
d o n ' t  l i v e  w i t h  f r i e n d s

i've had mostly very good experiences living with friends
you just have to be honest about expectations and stuff
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: ?????? on June 05, 2017, 10:13:23 PM
Quote from: ƕɾο on June 05, 2017, 06:09:24 PM
yeah what aubrey said
strangers/acquaintances  respect each other's space, property, and rules a lot more
really
I thought it was the other way around
a stranger would make me feel tense
I can lounge and walk around in briefs with a friend and I wouldn't eat their food unless they allowed me to, and vice versa
living with friends is ideal living with strangers or by yourself seems so scary
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: YPrrrr on June 06, 2017, 10:08:18 AM
Living alone is pretty great I don't even have to wear briefs if I don't feel like it happydood;

I can do chores at whatever speed I want, I never have to worry about someone being late with a bill or trying to replace a roommate if they moved out.

I liked living with strangers, pretty much all of them were very nice and friendly. I mean one still technically owes me 1000 bucks for heating but they were on food stamps and I felt bad for them. I suppose one did threaten to stab me with a knife when I "stole" his "gf" who he wasn't dating. But yeah it was usually fine girl;

Friends are cool too but my friends were lazy fuckers who would rather let the trash can overflow than take it out so I'd rather not live with them again lol. Visiting is better
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: silvertone on July 22, 2018, 05:09:27 PM
sorry to hear that dude
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: Kalahari Inkantation on July 22, 2018, 05:23:00 PM
That certainly explains the sudden lack of activity. :'(

we're here 4 u and i'm glad you seem to be handling it about as well as that sort of thing can be handled lol
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: Hiro on July 23, 2018, 12:22:03 AM
i would still try not to get your hopes tangled up in that snowy. sure that might be nice  but you need to make sure you can be happy either  way, and if things don't work out than that will just prolong things.
keep open communication but you need to focus on yourself right now.
Title: Re: I don't think I've posted a life update in a while
Post by: kettu on July 23, 2018, 12:27:38 AM
I agree with hiro, i feel like people like to 'reconnect' because a relationship that long becomes comfortable and normal. It's hard to leave behind even if you want to move on. Just be careful okay? It's not a bad reflection on you.