Anyone agree?
i have more free time and i'm actually capable of getting shit done
thinking nobody will ever care about you is shit. being abandoned and feeling like you're worthless is shit. becoming aware of the fact you can do whatever you want with your time and actually using that time is not shit.
this topic will become shit
Quote from: David on April 04, 2014, 08:54:29 PM
this topic will become shit
thats what happens when U post
agreed
i'm starting to realize all the things that i don't/can't do that i wish i could with my current gf and it is making me sad
but it is better than the otherwise feelings of intense loneliness
right? right????
Lol I didn't notice the "the" in the title so I completely misresponded lol
Quote from: udderfailure on April 05, 2014, 03:20:45 AM
agreed
i'm starting to realize all the things that i don't/can't do that i wish i could with my current gf and it is making me sad
but it is better than the otherwise feelings of intense loneliness
right? right????
Genitals are overrated. You should sacrifice yours for the greater good of humanity.
Quote from: Infel on April 05, 2014, 08:47:54 AM
Quote from: udderfailure on April 05, 2014, 03:20:45 AM
agreed
i'm starting to realize all the things that i don't/can't do that i wish i could with my current gf and it is making me sad
but it is better than the otherwise feelings of intense loneliness
right? right????
Genitals are overrated. You should sacrifice yours for the greater good of humanity.
I would probably be much more productive, too
but you wouldn't have lolwaffulrwednedsaysxD
No, it's actually very sad and lonely.
Being single gets old after a while. It's nice to have someone you know will keep you company and that you can share everything with.
idk im not at a point in my life where i really want to have a significant other or whatever because i think it would get in the way of goals and aspirations, tho if i could have like a creatively driven romance or something i would not be above that.
It's nice to have company...but it can be a drag too.
it doesn't matter either way tbh. sometimes relationships are super toxic and being w somebody cue you don't want to be lonely is stupid and bad for everybody in the end but one day i am sure i will fall in love and it will be dope cus neither of us will be btiches
Quote from: piano moths on April 05, 2014, 03:24:19 PMbeing w somebody cue you don't want to be lonely is stupid
Quote from: Buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo on April 05, 2014, 01:05:08 PM
idk im not at a point in my life where i really want to have a significant other or whatever because i think it would get in the way of goals and aspirations
A good partner would be supportive of your goals and aspirations and push you to achieve them.
Quote from: Meyer Lansky on April 05, 2014, 11:45:38 AM
Being single gets old after a while. It's nice to have someone you know will keep you company and that you can share everything with.
Like your whiskey and your money and your time am I right hocuspocus;
Quote from: piano moths on April 05, 2014, 03:24:19 PM
it doesn't matter either way tbh. sometimes relationships are super toxic and being w somebody cue you don't want to be lonely is stupid and bad for everybody in the end but one day i am sure i will fall in love and it will be dope cus neither of us will be btiches
That was a mess...
... Wouldn't either you or partner A need to grow out of being bitches, first?
And what about BDSM relationships which are half the time completely separate. Wife and Mistress and all that funk.
Quote from: Meyer Lansky on April 05, 2014, 04:47:31 PM
Quote from: Buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo on April 05, 2014, 01:05:08 PM
idk im not at a point in my life where i really want to have a significant other or whatever because i think it would get in the way of goals and aspirations
A good partner would be supportive of your goals and aspirations and push you to achieve them.
its not so much about the other person as it is myself
Quote from: Infel on April 06, 2014, 07:45:03 AM
Quote from: piano moths on April 05, 2014, 03:24:19 PM
it doesn't matter either way tbh. sometimes relationships are super toxic and being w somebody cue you don't want to be lonely is stupid and bad for everybody in the end but one day i am sure i will fall in love and it will be dope cus neither of us will be btiches
That was a mess...
... Wouldn't either you or partner A need to grow out of being bitches, first?
And what about BDSM relationships which are half the time completely separate. Wife and Mistress and all that funk.
I kind of was using the word bitches as a way of saying neither of us would be somebody to be attached which I think creates problems in a relationship. So yes neither of us would be bitches in that way, so not having a need to grow out of it. I can't speak on BDSM relationships cus I have no interest in any part of that and actually relationshpis in general in my life aren't that important to me right now (i mean romantic relationships)
honestly i could care less. anything i could want right now in a relationship is something i could get being single.
if i want to have sex, then i'll find go someone to fuck. if i want to cuddle, then i'll find someone to cuddle. if i just wanna go out with someone and have fun, then i'll go do it.
i'm sure one day i'll find someone i'll love and want to stay with but for now i'm all g living for myself
Quote from: Himu on April 07, 2014, 02:12:12 AM
if i want to have sex, then i'll find go someone to fuck. if i want to cuddle, then i'll find someone to cuddle. if i just wanna go out with someone and have fun, then i'll go do it.
because those are the only benefits to a relationship
itt justifying being single.
sooooon we will have "being crippled is the shit"
"yeah you dont need to walk far or search for parking. you get the front spots"
"and people have to be nice to you because you're a cripple"
if you are letting being in a relationship control enough of your life where you can't do things that you would otherwise usually do (not counting things that you shouldn't do in a relationship) then you are prolly doing it wrong.
If anything it should add to things you can do.
if u are single you are pretty Much Crippled but it is better than being Delusional
Quote from: cybermancer on April 07, 2014, 08:43:07 AM
if u are single you are pretty Much Crippled but it is better than being Delusional
it means ur hart is cripl
Quote from: Khadafi on April 07, 2014, 08:52:11 AM
Quote from: cybermancer on April 07, 2014, 08:43:07 AM
if u are single you are pretty Much Crippled but it is better than being Delusional
it means ur hart is cripl
if it s cripple then do some cardio!!
i recognize all the benefits of being single but they are all overshadowed by how damn lonely i get
although i think i've grown a lot over the last year and a half (haven't been single for more than a couple months during this period) so i might be able to be more independent if/when my current relationship comes to an end
you gotta learn to be alone w out being lonely otherwise whats the point? that was the hardest thing to become ok with in my life but now i love being alone. i am so much happier now.
Quote from: Trevor on April 07, 2014, 05:51:35 AM
Quote from: Himu on April 07, 2014, 02:12:12 AM
if i want to have sex, then i'll find go someone to fuck. if i want to cuddle, then i'll find someone to cuddle. if i just wanna go out with someone and have fun, then i'll go do it.
because those are the only benefits to a relationship
sure, there's many more benefits to a relationship (love, security, intimacy, etc.) that one can't have being single. i'm just happy enough by myself that i don't want a relationship for a while. i'd argue that there are no benefits that being single has over not being single, and vice-versa, if you're doing it right.
i don't need to justify needing a relationship or being single. i can be happy by myself and i can be just as happy if not more with someone else. blah blah blah
i like being alone (and require a fair amount of alone time on a daily basis) but I'm alone way too much so i'm just lonely as shit all the time
Quote from: HOG MAMA on April 07, 2014, 07:27:43 PM
i like being alone (and require a fair amount of alone time on a daily basis) but I'm alone way too much so i'm just lonely as shit all the time
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lwalz wants to b ur bff and u reject him
i hope u dy alone
Quote from: Snowy on April 08, 2014, 08:23:27 AM
Lawlz just wants to sleep with Hiro.
(http://i.imgur.com/aNocSgp.png)
Quote from: Snowy on April 08, 2014, 08:23:27 AM
Lawlz just wants to sleep with Hiro.
He seems so easily manipulated. I admit I'd take a night with Hiro just to see how far he goes and how much he squirms. hocuspocus;
Quote from: Classic HD on April 08, 2014, 09:51:36 AM
Quote from: Snowy on April 08, 2014, 08:23:27 AM
Lawlz just wants to sleep with Hiro.
He seems so easily manipulated. I admit I'd take a night with Hiro just to see how far he goes and how much he squirms. hocuspocus;
that's kinda creepy >.<
Quote from: Josh on April 04, 2014, 08:52:53 PM
Anyone agree?
Not me. 61 years old and still single, and still not doing any damn man's damn housework for him.
akudood;
Quote from: Clara Listensprechen on April 09, 2014, 03:54:14 PM
Quote from: Josh on April 04, 2014, 08:52:53 PM
Anyone agree?
Not me. 61 years old and still single, and still not doing any damn man's damn housework for him.
akudood;
what if you found a nice man who could cook well and liked cleaning
and what if he dressed like a french made and liked to be pegged
I'd hate being single ... i'd hate being in a casual relationship tomatoes;
what if u married mcdonalds