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Title: Guys...
Post by: kougraducky on February 19, 2012, 05:36:24 PM
I just wanna not hafta be strong anymore...I wanna be able to rely on someone besides myself. I want that person to take care of me like their little girl and just...get rid of everything bad.
I know this will never happen.
I hate having to rely on myself for anything. I'm not consistent. I'm weak-willed. I can't do it, guys...I just can't.
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Cosmic Ada on February 19, 2012, 05:42:44 PM
You can do it.  :(
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: snoorkel on February 19, 2012, 05:47:13 PM
Destroy Your Life For Satran
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: piano moths on February 19, 2012, 06:19:18 PM
learn to want to do things for yourself! it is satisfying and not relying on others will bring you great pleasure.
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Boogus Epirus Aurelius on February 19, 2012, 06:27:21 PM
Quote from: vziard on February 19, 2012, 05:47:13 PM
Destroy Your Life For Satran


Don't call it destory. Call it enrichment or something.
That's what the US Govt does.
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: snoorkel on February 19, 2012, 06:30:19 PM
Quote from: Boognish-Redux- on February 19, 2012, 06:27:21 PM
Don't call it destory. Call it enrichment or something.
That's what the US Govt does.


ok how about Kill your Self for Satan
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Andria on February 19, 2012, 06:31:52 PM
Quote from: vziard on February 19, 2012, 06:30:19 PM
ok how about Kill your Self for Satan
turning to Satan was the best decision I have ever made
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Boogus Epirus Aurelius on February 19, 2012, 06:33:09 PM
Quote from: vziard on February 19, 2012, 06:30:19 PM
ok how about Kill your Self for Satan


Expand and enhance your overall consciousness with an emphasis on self fulfillment and personal satisfaction for satan*.

*requires killing yourself. No purchase necessary.
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: snoorkel on February 19, 2012, 06:40:37 PM
destruction of a person builds character
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Boogus Epirus Aurelius on February 19, 2012, 06:52:47 PM
Quote from: vziard on February 19, 2012, 06:40:37 PM
destruction of a person builds character


Yeah, but how many people actually want to go through with that?
It's not marketable or romantic (rock bottom is no fight club).
Self-destruction is a taboo and a mental affliction.
Self-help is pure medicine.
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: snoorkel on February 19, 2012, 06:54:29 PM
Quote from: Boognish-Redux- on February 19, 2012, 06:52:47 PM
Yeah, but how many people actually want to go through with that?
It's not marketable or romantic (rock bottom is no fight club).
Self-destruction is a taboo and a mental affliction.
Self-help is pure medicine.


self-help is abasement

self-help is a basement
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: kougraducky on February 19, 2012, 07:01:50 PM
You all are TOTALLY not helping...Although, this might just be how snorkel helps people.
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: kougraducky on February 19, 2012, 07:06:00 PM
Quote from: Snowy on February 19, 2012, 07:02:33 PM
This is why I don't ask Boyah for advice. goodjob;

I don't think it was advice...this is just me bitching at you all because I know you'll read it.
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Andria on February 19, 2012, 07:09:21 PM
Quote from: kougraducky on February 19, 2012, 07:01:50 PM
You all are TOTALLY not helping...Although, this might just be how snorkel helps people.
boyah humour is helpful! Skylark's words were very wise!
Quote from: Snowy on February 19, 2012, 07:02:33 PM
This is why I don't ask Boyah for advice. goodjob;
snowy, people gave you advice but you only cared about the jokes.
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: kougraducky on February 19, 2012, 07:10:10 PM
Quote from: Echo Weiss on February 19, 2012, 07:09:21 PM
boyah humour is helpful! Skylark's words were very wise! snowy, people gave you advice but you only cared about the jokes.

again...I wasn't asking for advice. Just bitching
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Andria on February 19, 2012, 07:12:23 PM
Quote from: kougraducky on February 19, 2012, 07:10:10 PM
again...I wasn't asking for advice. Just bitching
I knowwwww! I didn't say you were asking for advice :3
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Kalahari Inkantation on February 19, 2012, 07:15:29 PM
Quote from: Snowy on February 19, 2012, 07:02:33 PM
This is why I don't ask Boyah for advice. goodjob;


are you seriously still upset about that

lmao goowan
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Andria on February 19, 2012, 07:17:01 PM
Quote from: Tectrinket on February 19, 2012, 07:15:29 PM
are you seriously still upset about that

lmao goowan
we'll all be in boyah's virtual retirement home and he will be bitter about that when he comes to visit us old folk.
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Boogus Epirus Aurelius on February 19, 2012, 07:17:49 PM
Quote from: vziard on February 19, 2012, 06:54:29 PM
self-help is abasement

self-help is a basement

Hey, cool!

But, really, we've classified so many things as wrong and as soon as someone shows symptoms of wrong they have to be fixed.

Even simple sadness and grief is turning into some kind of marketable affliction.

Self-medication is going to rise and rise and rise because everyone's going to be constantly trying to get back to that norm whenever something ripples things.

The best thing anyone can do for themselves is to never compare any facet of their lives with another human being. Comparing with someone "less fortunate" (lower than the quo) only serves to create some kind of self edifying shithead perspective and the other side of the spectrum just makes you dissatisfied and greedy. This goes way beyond material means and translates to everything about yourself. Your personality. Your mental state. Your height and weight. Any medical afflictions. All that shit.
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: piano moths on February 19, 2012, 07:24:24 PM
Happiness is impermanent! You must accept this. Happiness comes and goes. Sadness comes and goes. Ebb and flow stuff here..........
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: ?????? on February 19, 2012, 07:25:39 PM
guys you are all dumb
girls like MYSELF just want to hear other people's similar story that kougraducky told us all about
if you give advice it really wouldn't do much
she just wants to hear your own stories to build intimacy and support
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Hippopo on February 19, 2012, 07:26:54 PM
Quote from: Clucky on February 19, 2012, 07:25:39 PM
guys you are all dumb
girls like MYSELF just want to hear other people's similar story that kougraducky told us all about
if you give advice it really wouldn't do much
she just wants to hear your own stories to build intimacy and support
Girl, shut your face.  You don't even know what another sister wants.
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: snoorkel on February 19, 2012, 07:28:23 PM
Quote from: Boognish-Redux- on February 19, 2012, 07:17:49 PM
The best thing anyone can do for themselves is to never compare any facet of their lives with another human being. Comparing with someone "less fortunate" (lower than the quo) only serves to create some kind of self edifying shithead perspective and the other side of the spectrum just makes you dissatisfied and greedy. This goes way beyond material means and translates to everything about yourself. Your personality. Your mental state. Your height and weight. Any medical afflictions. All that shit.


yeah, I think that is what I was trying to say, strength is gained from Will and through oneself. sometimes destructing the Self is necessary
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: ?????? on February 19, 2012, 07:28:38 PM
Quote from: Hippopo on February 19, 2012, 07:26:54 PM
Girl, shut your face.  You don't even know what another sister wants.
qrl y u so shadyy u dONT EVEN NO ME
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: ikanaide on February 19, 2012, 07:50:57 PM
Quote from: Snowy on February 19, 2012, 07:29:16 PM
I have it written on my grave. giggle;

"Hey fuck you asshole, you've been nothing but a cunt to me since I started posting here and I'm fucking tired of it. Go fucking hang yourself or something and rid the world of your fucking presense."
Title: Re: Guys...
Post by: Socks on February 19, 2012, 08:00:52 PM
If you want this you have to give it. But it's not easy finding someone who truly loves you as much as you love them, as we know, expectation is the root of all heartache, and dreaming, well, that is nothing but a warm mirage. I feel as though we need to accept that certainly life, if it is to be meaningful, must surely be lived alone if it is to be enjoyed together. To be involved in constant and trifling affairs, be they social or material, it is to not care about how seriously thing are, as long as they are. The most powerful thing you can do is find someone, and tell them honestly what you think, if you're worth anything, you'll have something meaningful to tell them about themselves and you, and from there spring a relationship--if it is meant to be.