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Title: Strange mood
Post by: Selkie on June 30, 2011, 08:36:00 AM
I feel different today, I don't feel horny like I usually do, something that porn could usually satisfy.

I actually long for a woman's love, and touch, but not sexually. It's odd.

Anyone ever feel this way?
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: YPrrrr on June 30, 2011, 08:42:57 AM
I feel that much more often than I ever desire sex... Must be something wrong with me confuseddood;
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Hippopo on June 30, 2011, 08:48:48 AM
Nah.  I desire that a lot too.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: YPrrrr on June 30, 2011, 08:49:22 AM
Quote from: Hippopo on June 30, 2011, 08:48:48 AM
Nah.  I desire that a lot too.
A woman's love and touch? Really? sillydood
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Travis on June 30, 2011, 10:37:28 AM
yes  confuseddood;
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: strongbad on June 30, 2011, 01:02:04 PM
yeah
it sucks ;-;
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Hippopo on June 30, 2011, 01:23:48 PM
Quote from: YPR on June 30, 2011, 08:49:22 AM
A woman's love and touch? Really? sillydood
All the time  n_u
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: snoorkel on June 30, 2011, 03:28:13 PM
well, yes, all my life.  doodthing;

I honestly don't feel like I have ANYTHING else I have to do with my life now that I have this to build... it is all for her and that makes me happier to realize than anything else.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Classic on June 30, 2011, 03:30:35 PM
I feel like this all the time. I just want to love/be loved. I don't see why sex always has to be involved.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Thyme on June 30, 2011, 03:33:31 PM
totes :(
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: ME## on June 30, 2011, 03:40:13 PM
i would rather have a person with whom i can converse on interesting topics goowan
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: snoorkel on June 30, 2011, 03:55:44 PM
Quote from: Maester86 on June 30, 2011, 03:40:13 PM
i would rather have a person with whom i can converse on interesting topics goowan


really hope that's a joke
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Thyme on June 30, 2011, 03:58:54 PM
Quote from: Maester86 on June 30, 2011, 03:40:13 PM
i would rather have a person with whom i can converse on interesting topics goowan


cuddling feels good man goowan
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Mando Pandango on June 30, 2011, 04:17:59 PM
This thread is just so depressing. So much loneliness in one place. If someone were to come here, and this is the first thread they saw, they would never come back.

It's like the epitome of boyah.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: silvertone on June 30, 2011, 04:23:11 PM
if they cant handle us at our worst they dont deserve us at our best lol.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Thyme on June 30, 2011, 04:24:43 PM
Quote from: silvertone on June 30, 2011, 04:23:11 PM
if they cant handle us at our worst they dont deserve us at our best lol.


wrench;
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: snoorkel on June 30, 2011, 04:35:16 PM
Quote from: Quis sum? on June 30, 2011, 04:33:33 PM
Without sounding completely vacuous, I would rather have sex with someone first. Then, I get to know them.


that is bizarre
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Mando Pandango on June 30, 2011, 04:37:22 PM
Quote from: Quis sum? on June 30, 2011, 04:33:33 PMWithout sounding completely vacuous, I would rather have sex with someone first. Then, I get to know them.
It's really hard to not make jokes at your expense when you make posts like this, just so you know. I'm really restraining myself.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: famy on June 30, 2011, 04:37:32 PM
Quote from: Quis sum? on June 30, 2011, 04:33:33 PM
Without sounding completely vacuous, I would rather have sex with someone first. Then, I get to know them.
is this your alter
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Hippopo on June 30, 2011, 05:41:58 PM
Quote from: Quis sum? on June 30, 2011, 04:43:58 PM
Yes.  confuseddood;
Who are you?  confuseddood;

But really..   doodthing;

And I would totes recommend not sleeping with a person on the first date if you truly want the relationship with them.  If they put-out on the first date, we're usually both not interested in each other by date two. Sad truth.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: snoorkel on June 30, 2011, 06:04:54 PM
Quote from: Quis sum? on June 30, 2011, 05:55:34 PM
It's really hard to find anyone I'm seriously interested in. So, I have pretty much abandoned the idea of finding anyone serious any time soon.


It's only after you let go of this perspective and open yourself to experience that you'll find the person
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: applesauce on June 30, 2011, 06:11:27 PM
Quote from: vziard on June 30, 2011, 03:28:13 PM
well, yes, all my life.  doodthing;

I honestly don't feel like I have ANYTHING else I have to do with my life now that I have this to build... it is all for her and that makes me happier to realize than anything else.



THIS. Loving someone is like having a direct goal in life, except its not a job or money or traveling or something. Aspirations can all be summed up in one word.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: snoorkel on June 30, 2011, 06:13:35 PM
Quote from: applesauce on June 30, 2011, 06:11:27 PM

THIS. Loving someone is like having a direct goal in life, except its not a job or money or traveling or something. Aspirations can all be summed up in one word.


yeah. I'd hope this is a common idea but unfortunately I don't think it is, people just blankly debate how long they should wait before trying to fuck someone, or how they can 'find a girl'  doodhuh;
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Socks on June 30, 2011, 08:02:52 PM
not me. i got my princess. now comes the castle and the royal tenants. 
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: ikanaide on June 30, 2011, 08:15:32 PM
I and my girlfriend we have never think about sex before doodhuh;
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: YPrrrr on June 30, 2011, 10:53:42 PM
Quote from: Quis sum? on June 30, 2011, 04:33:33 PM
Without sounding completely vacuous, I would rather have sex with someone first. Then, I get to know them.
and whether they have aids or not, LOL
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Kalahari Inkantation on July 01, 2011, 12:22:21 AM
Quote from: Maester86 on June 30, 2011, 03:40:13 PM
i would rather have a person with whom i can converse on interesting topics goowan


jesus christ i agree goowan
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: YPrrrr on July 01, 2011, 01:08:29 AM
Quote from: Quis sum? on June 30, 2011, 11:49:45 PM
Um, not a lot of gay people do know their status and a significant number of HIV transmissions among men who have sex with men have occurred in monogamous relationships.
I wonder how they got it in the first place confuseddood;
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: ME## on July 01, 2011, 01:16:41 AM
Quote from: Tectrinket on July 01, 2011, 12:22:21 AM
jesus christ i agree goowan

TALK TO MY BRAIN RUB IT
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: YPrrrr on July 01, 2011, 01:42:51 AM
I don't understand why people don't just get tested every once in a while goonish
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Hippopo on July 01, 2011, 10:53:24 AM
Quote from: Quis sum? on July 01, 2011, 01:37:48 AM
Sex. confuseddood;
This is why I would not abandon using condoms even in a monogamous relationship.
It's so stupid to give up condoms. 
Quote from: YPR on July 01, 2011, 01:42:51 AM
I don't understand why people don't just get tested every once in a while goonish
Probably because it's scary as fuck.  I'm sorry, but talking to the HIV counselor for twenty minutes while you wait for the test results to come back is horrible.  I think they purposely try to scare you into using condoms while they've got you trapped and in a vulnerable state.

People get HIV usually from trusting their partners too much.  Sometimes the partner doesn't even know.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Thyme on July 01, 2011, 10:56:34 AM
And don't some test hurt?

I mean the "inserting something in your urethral orifice" kind of test. That can't be very enjoyable.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Hippopo on July 01, 2011, 11:00:26 AM
Quote from: Thyme on July 01, 2011, 10:56:34 AM
And don't some test hurt?

I mean the "inserting something in your urethral orifice" kind of test. That can't be very enjoyable.
That test sounds kinky. yes;

But honestly, I've only ever had an HIV test done which is pretty simple and pain free.  I'm not sure how other STDs are checked.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: YPrrrr on July 01, 2011, 11:04:30 AM
I will never understand what some people have against wearing condoms when the alternative is much worse... (jmv)
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Hippopo on July 01, 2011, 11:07:56 AM
Quote from: YPR on July 01, 2011, 11:04:30 AM
I will never understand what some people have against wearing condoms when the alternative is much worse... (jmv)
JMV?!  akudood;

Intimacy is increased and it "feels better."  But honestly, I don't see the appeal either.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: YPrrrr on July 01, 2011, 11:08:29 AM
JMV likes to have a pregnancy scare every other week
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: applesauce on July 01, 2011, 11:09:26 AM
Also you could just only have sex with people you really can trust.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Hippopo on July 01, 2011, 11:11:29 AM
Quote from: applesauce on July 01, 2011, 11:09:26 AM
Also you could just only have sex with people you really can trust.
You might trust them, but they might not be trustworthy.  Plenty of people cheat and their partners had no idea.  If you value yourself (which you should), wear a condom.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Kalahari Inkantation on July 01, 2011, 11:14:01 AM
or you could just never even consider ever having 'sex' wrench;
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Thyme on July 01, 2011, 11:15:05 AM
Quote from: Hippopo on July 01, 2011, 11:11:29 AM
You might trust them, but they might not be trustworthy.  Plenty of people cheat and their partners had no idea.  If you value yourself (which you should), wear a condom.


and bitches pretending to be on the pill so they can trick their men into having babbies Q('_' Q)

[spoiler][/paranoid masculinist] n_u[/spoiler]
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: applesauce on July 01, 2011, 11:20:02 AM
Quote from: Hippopo on July 01, 2011, 11:11:29 AM
You might trust them, but they might not be trustworthy.  Plenty of people cheat and their partners had no idea.


That's the point...
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Hippopo on July 01, 2011, 11:23:29 AM
Quote from: applesauce on July 01, 2011, 11:20:02 AM
That's the point...
:3
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Hippopo on July 01, 2011, 11:35:58 AM
Quote from: Quis sum? on July 01, 2011, 11:34:36 AM
They don't even do the urethra swab anymore for gonorrhea. Now, they use a urine sample midstream. I would definitely get tested for the full panel of STDs since they do increase the risk of acquiring HIV. Of course, this would mean you would be out to your doctor.
Assuming, of course, I have a doctor.
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: just1more on July 01, 2011, 11:36:25 AM
I'm always down for a nice cuddle sesh. But I was under the impression that random anon boyagers didn't like intimacy?
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Thyme on July 01, 2011, 11:37:11 AM
>2011
>north america
>"having" a doctor

lol
Title: Re: Strange mood
Post by: Hippopo on July 01, 2011, 11:47:06 AM
Quote from: Quis sum? on July 01, 2011, 11:44:58 AM
>2014
>united states
>having a doctor
Obamacare.
Hippo, doesn't the HIV testing site you go to also test for STDs?
Not for free.  Planned Parenthood gives out free STD testing in April, but I totally spaced it.