I find it funny and kinda sad that if an unly guy approaches a girl and introduces themselves randomly the girl says things like "creepy and weird" even though they are still flattered and feel better about their shitty self on the inside.
But when an attractive guy does the same they say they are "cute, and confident".
Talk about dumb things dumb bitches do in here.
No making me a sammich when i get home from a long work day akudood;
[spoiler]PS where you the ugly guy that introduced themself randomly, and this is why you felt the need to make the thread?[/spoiler]
not realizing that the rejection/dumping "word bank" just makes us feel worse...but maybe it makes them feel a little better about it?
"it's not you, it's me"
"let's just be friends"
fuck
Quote from: Yin on January 07, 2011, 11:25:40 AM
"let's just be friends"
That is probably the worst one imo at least
When a girl you have a thing with decides to stop talking to for no apparent reason and then when you decide to establish contact for whatever reason, she gets mad at you for not leaving her alone and still gives no reason as to why things ended and as to why she won't talk to you anymore
doodthing;
Quote from: Runner Up: Strongbutt on January 07, 2011, 11:32:07 AM
When a girl you have a thing with decides to stop talking to for no apparent reason and then when you decide to establish contact for whatever reason, she gets mad at you for not leaving her alone and still gives no reason as to why things ended and as to why she won't talk to you anymore
doodthing;
probably because you farted/puked on her
Quote from: Panty on January 07, 2011, 11:33:15 AM
probably because you farted/puked on her
No I'm still together with her, she's just in Haiti right now :(
This is a girl who I had a thing with for a few weeks during the summer.
Quote from: Yin on January 07, 2011, 11:25:40 AM
not realizing that the rejection/dumping "word bank" just makes us feel worse...but maybe it makes them feel a little better about it?
"it's not you, it's me"
"let's just be friends"
fuck
At least they tell you something, instead of pretending everything is okay. awdood;
fuck bitches dude
something similar like that happened between me and my friend
we did a "test"--we randomly start up conversations with the same female of our target
apparently, i appeared charming and "fun", despite how anxious i was
my friend, whose less anxious than i am, was ignored
we both used the same lines and etc.
the whole thing made me feel very misanthropic
Quote from: Thyme on January 07, 2011, 11:39:24 AM
At least they tell you something, instead of pretending everything is okay. awdood;
well i experienced that one too, and i'm still mad about it awdood;
You guys stress over it too much. I always used to do the same thing, to the point that now that I look back at it, I was obviously desperate. Now I just go with the flow.
If a girl rejects you, who gives a fuck? There are so many other women out there. We're all bound to find at least one who's right for us. :3
Also, about the being ugly thing. Do you seriously flirt with ugly girls that come up to you? Do you think twice about rejecting them?
Just the way it is.
Quote from: yoseph on January 07, 2011, 11:42:09 AM
You guys stress over it too much. I always used to do the same thing, to the point that now that I look back IN POG FORM at it, I was obviously desperate. Now I just go with the flow.
I agree. I can't believe how desperate I used to be and how much I used to overthink the most bullshit things.
Quote from: Runner Up: Strongbutt on January 07, 2011, 11:49:34 AM
I agree. I can't believe how desperate I used to be and how much I used to overthink the most bullshit things.
lol I remember just as recent as a year ago, I would think "OK I'm gonna go to the mall so I can go flirt with any hot girls I see. but wait, when should i ask for their number? OH SHIT NVM I'M NOT GOING."
It doesn't work that way. You don't plan, because it doesn't work. It just happens.
Quote from: Saren Arterius on January 07, 2011, 11:22:01 AMPS where you the ugly guy that introduced themself randomly, and this is why you felt the need to make the thread?
No, actually it's weird. I find myself very attractive, but for some reason when I'm with some of my friends I always feel like I am the one ignored. Then it becomes a downward spiral because as time goes on I get angrier and angrier at the bitches we are talking to until I just stop talking completely.
It might have something to do with what I say, or my general awkwardness. Either that or I am actually hideous but I don't realize it.
Quote from: Selkie on January 07, 2011, 11:14:20 AM
I find it funny and kinda sad that if an unlyUGLY guy approaches a girl and introduces themselves randomly the girl says things like "creepy and weird" even though they are still flattered and feel better about their shitty self on the inside.
But when an attractive guy does the same they say they are "cute, and confident".
Talk about dumb things dumb bitches do in here.
This is a generalization and not very gender specific either, much like most the other replies in this thread.
On the other end, what would you do if a girl you didn't find attractive approached you and your group of friends and introduced herself to you?
Quote from: Runner Up: Strongbutt on January 07, 2011, 11:32:07 AM
When a girl you have a thing with decides to stop talking to for no apparent reason and then when you decide to establish contact for whatever reason, she gets mad at you for not leaving her alone and still gives no reason as to why things ended and as to why she won't talk to you anymore
doodthing;
She's in another country. She probably has other things on her mind. From what you've led on, this sounds like a new(er) relationship and, frankly, it probably isn't her number one priority at the moment. There
is a point where you just have to shrug off and let her initiate contact instead.
Quote from: Selkie on January 07, 2011, 01:02:19 PM
No, actually it's weird. I find myself very attractive, but for some reason when I'm with some of my friends I always feel like I am the one ignored. Then it becomes a downward spiral because as time goes on I get angrier and angrier at the bitches we are talking to until I just stop talking completely.
It might have something to do with what I say, or my general awkwardness. Either that or I am actually hideous but I don't realize it.
Do you get angry because you feel like they're ignoring you specifically?
Or is it another reason?
Also this pop-up came up and it made me smile:
[spoiler](http://i.imgur.com/MCjuH.jpg)[/spoiler]
Also, if an unattractive woman came up to me and introduced herself, I'd probably befriend her back IN POG FORM because I am curious of what's hidden in her psyche. For most people, I want to go inside their minds and experience what they experience--I want to savor the flavor of their lives and mesh it with mines.
I don't understand how some people would just reject a possible form of friendship. :(
Quote from: Analysis Paralysis on January 07, 2011, 02:40:57 PM
Do you get angry because you feel like they're ignoring you specifically?
Thats exactly why.
I actually think it may be partially some sort of problem I have. I always seem to get the feeling that they are specifically ignoring me. Then I think that they don't like me at all and don't want anything to do with me. And I start to get really angry.
Is there a name for that?
They burn you with irons and chase after you with knives or scissors :(
Quote from: Selkie on January 07, 2011, 02:45:10 PM
Thats exactly why.
I actually think it may be partially some sort of problem I have. I always seem to get the feeling that they are specifically ignoring me. Then I think that they don't like me at all and don't want anything to do with me. And I start to get really angry.
Is there a name for that?
What evidence do you have that they're "ignoring you"?
And probably not, superficially it just seems like you're experiencing a standard complex.
WE NEED TO GO DEEPER
I don't really have a problem with girls, since most of my problems have to do with me and only me. I'm ugly and I get that, I'm not gonna get all pissed off at a girl if she doesn't like me. That's why I've kinda just stopped trying since I now know there's not a single girl who is going to be interested in being any more than friends with me due to how ugly I am.
Shit sucks but I deal with it.
Quote from: Selkie on January 07, 2011, 02:45:10 PM
I actually think it may be partially some sort of problem I have. I always seem to get the feeling that they are specifically ignoring me. Then I think that they don't like me at all and don't want anything to do with me. And I start to get really angry.
Is there a name for that?
doodhuh;
Quote from: Geno on January 07, 2011, 04:22:21 PM
I don't really have a problem with girls, since most of my problems have to do with me and only me. I'm ugly and I get that, I'm not gonna get all pissed off at a girl if she doesn't like me. That's why I've kinda just stopped trying since I now know there's not a single girl who is going to be interested in being any more than friends with me due to how ugly I am.
Shit sucks but I deal with it.
You'd probably be more attractive if you lost some weight and confronted your self-image issues.
Quote from: yoseph on January 07, 2011, 04:53:59 PM
You'd probably be more attractive if you lost some weight and confronted your self-image issues.
I've already lost about 50 pounds. Still ugly, losing weight wont change that.
Quote from: Geno on January 07, 2011, 05:09:54 PM
I've already lost about 50 pounds. Still ugly, losing weight wont change that.
How tall are you and how much do you weigh? 50 pounds is impressive, but it's probably not enough. I lost 70 before I got to where I am.
It doesn't matter how you look, there's always some girl trashy enough to do you. cjlubdoods;
That's awful but yeah you can find someone...
you just might not be looking in the right places
GOD WE ARE SO AWFUL. girl;
bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
i like how some guys try to generalize girls without even acknowledging the possibility that the problem might not lie within the chick, but with the guy himself. akudood;
Quote from: Himu on January 07, 2011, 08:19:52 PM
bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
i like how some guys try to generalize girls without even acknowledging the possibility that the problem might not lie within the chick, but with the guy himself. akudood;
That works both ways but I definitely see more guys doing it.
As well as rampant double standards
Quote from: Himu on January 07, 2011, 08:19:52 PM
i like how some guys try to generalize girls without even acknowledging the possibility that the problem might not lie within the chick, but with the guy himself.
Thatââ,¬â,,¢s very true, and itââ,¬â,,¢s important that people realize that.
As soon as you sink into basing your perception entirely on these goofily established generalizations of how people act or are supposed to act, youââ,¬â,,¢re compromising your chances at successfully reaching out.
So someone gives you a look you perceive as negative. Well, that someoneââ,¬â,,¢s a girl and apparently girls only have positive interactions with guys they see as attractive, but you have some image issues(?), so she must be naturally opposed to interacting with you.
Basically you have to just kill those generalizations and ignore those pseudo-paranoid thoughts that youââ,¬â,,¢re being specifically targeted, because youââ,¬â,,¢re not. Until you start feeling pissed about it though. Thatââ,¬â,,¢s probably manifesting some nasty vibes that really does push them away.
Communication isnââ,¬â,,¢t that difficult when you realize itââ,¬â,,¢s not that big of a deal.
What the hell did I just write?
I blame my feeeeeeevvvveeerrr.
P.s., Anyone know any decent fever reducers besides tylenol? Actually...........
communication is difficult. :(
Quote from: Himu on January 07, 2011, 08:19:52 PM
bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
i like how some guys try to generalize girls without even acknowledging the possibility that the problem might not lie within the chick, but with the guy himself. akudood;
get the fuck out of here with that bullshit. the simple problem is that simple broads reward simpletons. if all women were the stuff of dreams, then they would have the brains and heart to thwart dick and dumbshit alike. but they do not, they swallow and sway, and set this whole cluster fuck into play. otherwise men would have to become gentleman or vagrants, and the whole business of romance and companionship take the tone of sincerity and compassion, giving rise to beautiful understanding. now, it's a damn nightmare to open one's heart to people who know not that expectation is the root of all heartache. where am i to find a suitable wife, when my own thoughts run rampant and rife, with the mess of others?
girls is a pgood band. ~i wish i had a boy friend~
Quote from: Himu on January 07, 2011, 08:19:52 PM
bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
i like how some guys try to generalize girls without even acknowledging the possibility that the problem might not lie within the chick, but with the guy himself. akudood;
Yeah I've pretty much realized that
I don't understand you people, really. It's kind of sad.
Quote from: Socks on January 07, 2011, 09:18:14 PM
blabbity blab blah, but they do not, they swallow and sway, and set this whole cluster fuck into play. blah blah blahblah
that rhymed :D
:D
but yeah seriously you guys generalize too much n_u
Quote from: Geno on January 07, 2011, 04:22:21 PM
I don't really have a problem with girls, since most of my problems have to do with me and only me. I'm ugly and I get that, I'm not gonna get all pissed off at a girl if she doesn't like me. That's why I've kinda just stopped trying since I now know there's not a single girl who is going to be interested in being any more than friends with me due to how ugly I am.
Shit sucks but I deal with it.
you actually aren't ugly geno
you just dress like a 12 year old
Quote from: Admin on January 08, 2011, 12:55:14 AM
you actually aren't ugly geno
you just dress like a 12 year old
Uh how do you know how I dress. akudood;
Quote from: Geno on January 08, 2011, 01:07:37 AM
Uh how do you know how I dress. akudood;
i don't know, i guess i've never seen a picture of you have i befuddlement
Quote from: Chemical Zen on January 07, 2011, 01:09:05 PM
She's in another country. She probably has other things on her mind. From what you've led on, this sounds like a new(er) relationship and, frankly, it probably isn't her number one priority at the moment. There is a point where you just have to shrug off and let her initiate contact instead.
Oh no I'm talking about a girl I had a thing with during the summer. Things are going very well with the girl in Haiti and she actually comes back tomorrow night :D
the wordfilter made me lol
Quote from: Himu on January 07, 2011, 11:20:18 PM
that rhymed :D
yeah, much like pathetic and cynic.
my girlfriend was hanging out with this kid one on one at her apartment all the time and i was like uh you should stop or youre going to develop feelings for him as he's clearly trying to get into your pants and then she was like HOW DARE YOU SUGGEST THAT THAT'S SO RUDE YOU KNOW I ONLY HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU and then we kinda got over that but when i came home i broke up with her because we were too distant
within two weeks she was dating that other kid. feels bad man.
Quote from: Socks on January 07, 2011, 09:18:14 PM
get the fuck out of here with that bullshit. the simple problem is that simple broads reward simpletons. if all women were the stuff of dreams, then they would have the brains and heart to thwart dick and dumbshit alike. but they do not, they swallow and sway, and set this whole cluster fuck into play. otherwise men would have to become gentleman or vagrants, and the whole business of romance and companionship take the tone of sincerity and compassion, giving rise to beautiful understanding. now, it's a damn nightmare to open one's heart to people who know not that expectation is the root of all heartache. where am i to find a suitable wife, when my own thoughts run rampant and rife, with the mess of others?
For once I agree with you.
my opinon of girls ;
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vp4529ty9hk[/youtube]
[made a vlog 4 this]
I still don't know how I managed to get a beautiful girl who is into but I'm not complaining spam;
Quote from: villinman666 on January 08, 2011, 01:34:56 PM
my opinon of girls ;
[spoiler][youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vp4529ty9hk[/youtube][/spoiler]
[made a vlog 4 this]
oh god i fucking laughed powerofone;
this is why it's best to be [spoiler](http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l84w8jN6Ux1qa8kek.jpg)
like me[/spoiler] girl;
what is girls
lol disregard everything i said girls suck
a girl set him up the bomb
hahaha fuck girls
i am so sad :(
Quote from: Runner Up: Strongbutt on January 10, 2011, 09:59:37 PM
They enjoy leading you on hocuspocus;
No they don't. giggle;
They enjoy kissing me. giggle;
Quote from: Khadafi on January 10, 2011, 10:03:29 PM
No they don't. giggle;
They enjoy kissing me. giggle;
fuck yet shit