When you start to like someone, how long does it take you to tell them?
For me, I've known her for like 2 years and recently (like, over the past 8 months or so, started realising how much we had in common and starting to have a crush on her about a month and a half back or so, probably more actually) we've been hanging out more and shit and to be honest I'm too afraid to even mention anything about liking her cause' I'm afraid I'll ruin the friendship we have. We work together too, so it would be awkward as fuck if we fell out over it. I know people that are totally impulsive and just go right out and say it, but I guess I'm the entire opposite and worry about wrecking everything. :(
God dammit. What about you lot?
i don't know just tell her
I have only actually told one girl :( it took like a month-ish.
I NEVER TELL HER.
I JUST ASK IF SHE WANTS TO HANG OUT AND SHE SAYS YES ONCE EVERY 4 MONTHS AND THEN I CRY
You're funny.
Quote from: Khadafi on April 19, 2010, 04:42:28 PM
I NEVER TELL HER.
I JUST ASK IF SHE WANTS TO HANG OUT AND SHE SAYS YES ONCE EVERY 4 MONTHS AND THEN I CRY
YOU PROWL FROM THE DISTANCE AND DECLARE THEM YOUR WAIFU RITE?
>Implying that I've done that.
lol
Just be subtle about it.
Just take out your penis and say, "You want some of this?" It works everytime ;)
Quote from: TheSequel on April 19, 2010, 04:53:05 PM
Just take out your penis and say, "You want some of this?" It works everytime ;)
lololololol.
Quote from: StrongBad007 on April 19, 2010, 04:52:59 PM
Just be subtle about it.
yeah lol, I'll most likley tell her soon. Came close to accidentally slipping up and saying something totally out of character (I love you) when I was laughing my ass off at her clumsiness. I'd not say that btw I'd totally be subtle about it, like I said, out of character.
my eyes usually betray me, though i always want to tell them so it doesn't really matter. beyond that, you need to love me to find out. ;)
First girlfriend, we both flirted with each other a lot and eventually I asked her out.
Second girlfriend, took me two weeks.
My current girl, three months, we both liked each other but decided to get to know each other and after two months, we officially got together. :)
1. Drawing with some cool picture of themselves I've drawn with a bunch of shit on it
2. They accept my passive letter of me liking them
3. I accuse them of coming on to me
4. They feel confused to why I would reject them
5. They harass me each 1-3 days over the fucking phone and I wish they haven't gotten a hold of my goddamn number
This current girl who I have a thing with was about a month.
Three weeks of general conversation/general flirting
The one day we were talking about how i was picky with pizza toppings, and she was randomly like, "oh are you picky in girls too" and I explained what i looked for in girls, then she explained what she wanted in guys and was like "oh and this current guy i am talking to exceeds all my qualifications" and i was like aww and we've just been flirting more since then i guess. I should ask her out.
Depends. I usually never make the first move. n_u
Quote from: StrongBad007 on April 19, 2010, 06:14:43 PM
This current girl who I have a thing with was about a month.
Three weeks of general conversation/general flirting
The one day we were talking about how i was picky with pizza toppings, and she was randomly like, "oh are you picky in girls too" and I explained what i looked for in girls, then she explained what she wanted in guys and was like "oh and this current guy i am talking to exceeds all my qualifications" and i was like aww and we've just been flirting more since then i guess. I should ask her out.
You should have done it on the spot lol
Quote from: YPR on April 19, 2010, 06:34:52 PM
You should have done it on the spot lol
through text messaging?
i'm waiting until the next time we hang out outside of school which is hard because she is really busy :(
Quote from: J on April 19, 2010, 05:16:25 PM
My current girl, three months, we both liked each other but decided to get to know each other and after two months, we officially got together. :)
and then you accidentally got her pregnant. good work son.
like socks my eyes usually betray me. but it's been 4 years since i've last truly had a crush on a girl
Quote from: StrongBad007 on April 19, 2010, 07:56:53 PM
through text messaging?
Oh, I thought you were ordering a pizza together
Yeah you should ask her in person, my bad girl;
Quote from: YPR on April 19, 2010, 09:03:18 PM
Oh, I thought you were ordering a pizza together
At first I was really confused and it made me laugh a little, but then I remembered that I mentioned pizza toppings.
But yeah, I'm trying to make it happen soon.
Invite her to pizza.
then put pepperoni on her nipples and pound her with your spicy meatballs
Quote from: ClassicTyler on April 19, 2010, 09:36:21 PM
Invite her to pizza.
then put pepperoni on her nipples and pound her with your spicy meatballs
But her favorite topping is vegetarian!
Nooooooooooooo
Usually about a month to 2 months.
Quote from: StrongBad007 on April 19, 2010, 10:44:50 PM
But her favorite topping is vegetarian!
Nooooooooooooo
Put bell peppers on her nipples.
Then it'd look like her nipples have cute little sunglasses. ;)
Jesus Tyler, what is wrong with you? Lol, I love it.
GET IT DAVID
I did it once when I was in like 3rd or 4th grade. I knew the girl since kindegarten and I always kind of liked her. In 4th grade we had the same class so I could finally talk to her. I let it slip once, she said something like,"Why are you always staring at me?" and I said,"because I like you." she said, "what?" and I quickly said "nothing", I was so embarased.
Then around the end of the school year, during class I made one of those poems that spell something down the side. It had her name and she looked at it and as we were going to the buses she asked me about the poem and I gave it to her and ran to the bus.
We never talked about the poem, but it talked about how beautiful I thought she was.
5th grade I never spoke to her and that was the last I saw of her.
Some nights I stay up thinking about her.
And I looked her up on facebook a few weeks ago. She's still in the city but she goes to another high school. I wonder if she'll even remember me...
Kono: Still not over his 4th grade crush
I wonder if she kept the poem, it was years ago, but still. I think I might have been her first crush.
Dawww' Kono. You're so corny.(I'm pretty corny myself, the poem thing sounds like something I would have done when I was younger, but not the looking her up when it was like 4th grade lol.) but saying that though, the girl I like now we've been friends for like 2 years, but we went to the same primary school and knew each other somehow and I DON'T FOR THE LIFE OF ME REMEMBER WHY... I remember in Class one day I was sitting there thinking "I know her from somewhere, but I don't know where..." and the next day she's like "You're Kieran right? I remember you from Primary school." but she wouldn't tell me how she knew me, I think she knows cause' she blushed a bit (she's pretty bashful about anything from what I've noticed.) but I never prompted her to tell me, I asked a few months back but she just says "I don't really remember." I wish I knew, but elementary/primary is a big blur to me, only really important stuff (that I felt was important back then) stands out, everything else is just a blur.
Were going out for drinks with a few friends on Friday though in the city, maybe I'll mention something to her then. akudood;
I don't tell them.
Quote from: RDX on April 19, 2010, 09:02:21 PM
and then you accidentally got her pregnant. good work son.
like socks my eyes usually betray me. but it's been 4 years since i've last truly had a crush on a girl
We don't know yet. Should know in a week or two. doodella;
If it's some random bitch I'll be like "Hey" but if it's a friend I don't usually do stuff because it would most likely compromise the friendship.
I don't tell them. Call me old-fashioned, but I think it's the guy's job to do that. It took my current boyfriend about... three months to do it, though.
Quote from: J on April 20, 2010, 04:13:45 PM
We don't know yet. Should know in a week or two. doodella;
...seriously? How many times are you going to let that happen?
Quote from: GENOP on April 20, 2010, 12:51:24 PM
Kono: Still not over his 4th grade crush
that's pretty funny kono, you gotta admit.
how do you even remember what she looks like?
Quote from: RDX on April 20, 2010, 06:18:52 PM
that's pretty funny kono, you gotta admit.
how do you even remember what she looks like?
You don't remember your first love?
She was the first girl I ever felt butterflies around, whenever I looked in her eyes. The fist on I had so many things in common with.
I knew: She was a brunnett
She wore glasses
She has a twin who is more tomboyish
I remember she told me her entire name including her middle name, so finding her wasn't so tough. Plus she has a distinctive last name of Morphew, which is very uncommon.
I'm surprised it's so humorous, honestly I thought many people still cared about their first crush.
I flirt. I captivate. Then I drop the bomb.
Also
I talked to that girl yesterday about relationships and stuff and I was really straightforward and it went really well. Girls like straightforward guys.
Quote from: StrongBad007 on April 21, 2010, 08:51:41 AM
Also
I talked to that girl yesterday about relationships and stuff and I was really straightforward and it went really well. Girls like straightforward guys.
Duur. n_u
girls don't know what they like, some women do, and fewer still are desirable, most of these don't feel you though.
Quote from: KonohaShinobi on April 21, 2010, 04:16:40 AM
I'm surprised it's so humorous, honestly I thought many people still cared about their first crush.
Yeah no
I've never out-right told someone that I liked them.
Quote from: Socks on April 21, 2010, 08:54:35 AM
girls don't know what they like, some women do, and fewer still are desirable, most of these don't feel you though.
does
anyone really know what they like n_u
Quote from: Ted on April 21, 2010, 03:49:27 PM
does anyone really know what they like n_u
i like latinas
Quote from: KonohaShinobi on April 21, 2010, 04:16:40 AM
You don't remember your first love?
She was the first girl I ever felt butterflies around, whenever I looked in her eyes. The fist on I had so many things in common with.
I knew: She was a brunnett
She wore glasses
She has a twin who is more tomboyish
I remember she told me her entire name including her middle name, so finding her wasn't so tough. Plus she has a distinctive last name of Morphew, which is very uncommon.
I'm surprised it's so humorous, honestly I thought many people still cared about their first crush.
you didn't love her though, you had a crush on her.
maybe i don't remember the girls i crush on because until like seventh or eighth grade i generally crushed on one or two diffferent girls per year. so that was maybe 8 different girls, which i guess is a lot compared to you. i vaguely even remember their faces. and that's pretty much the most important part worth remembering.
Quote from: Ted on April 21, 2010, 03:49:27 PM
does anyone really know what they like n_u
I like if they understand my intuitive nonsense that isn't built around reason but on emotion and universal values. n_u
Quote from: Ted on April 21, 2010, 03:49:27 PM
does anyone really know what they like n_u
yes i know i want what's above me
Quote from: Sam on April 20, 2010, 05:21:04 PM
...seriously? How many times are you going to let that happen?
Yes. 48-76 would be my estimate.