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Title: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 11, 2009, 11:39:57 PM
is what im doing right now

help me through this boyah.  :'(
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: ME## on October 11, 2009, 11:42:52 PM
Giver her the obligatory 'It's me, not you' line.  n_u
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Daddy on October 11, 2009, 11:43:21 PM
tell her to control her period and this wouldn't happen
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 11, 2009, 11:44:04 PM
Quote from: Дави́д on October 11, 2009, 11:42:52 PM
Giver her the obligatory 'It's me, not you' line.  n_u

fuck that its all her fault
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 11, 2009, 11:45:22 PM
OH FUCK ME SHES CRYING OVER THE PHONE AND NOW I FEEL BAD I CANT DO IT IM SUCH A PUSSY
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: ?????? on October 11, 2009, 11:55:15 PM
get a third party source to tell her, or text/IM
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 11, 2009, 11:56:51 PM
Quote from: Freud and His Friend:Jung on October 11, 2009, 11:55:15 PM
get a third party source to tell her, or text/IM

thats not how u end a relationship like this
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Daddy on October 11, 2009, 11:59:15 PM
call her a bitch and hang up. do it
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: the shortest route to the sea on October 11, 2009, 11:59:47 PM
Just stay there. Do not hang up. It sucks, but let her create closure, otherwise she'll never let go of it. Just stay with her as long as you can.
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 12, 2009, 12:02:46 AM
Quote from: Alyssa the Glowing Sole on October 11, 2009, 11:59:47 PM
Just stay there. Do not hang up. It sucks, but let her create closure, otherwise she'll never let go of it. Just stay with her as long as you can.

this one makes sense
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: the shortest route to the sea on October 12, 2009, 12:03:53 AM
Quote from: Admiral Cleman on October 12, 2009, 12:02:46 AM
this one makes sense


I'd recommend getting off boyah, too. As the last significant, emotionally charged conversation you're going to have with her, she at least deserves your time and your attention. You owe her nothing else.
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 12, 2009, 12:04:39 AM
Quote from: Alyssa the Glowing Sole on October 12, 2009, 12:03:53 AM
I'd recommend getting off boyah, too. As the last significant, emotionally charged conversation you're going to have with her, she at least deserves your time and your attention. You owe her nothing else.

well said.

ill be back
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: ?????? on October 12, 2009, 12:12:19 AM
Quote from: Admiral Cleman on October 11, 2009, 11:56:51 PM
thats not how u end a relationship like this
yes uh huh
you just deal with a lot of revenge and drama afterwards
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: the shortest route to the sea on October 12, 2009, 12:22:26 AM
Quote from: Freud and His Friend:Jung on October 12, 2009, 12:12:19 AM
yes uh huh
you just deal with a lot of revenge and drama afterwards


Any breakup that does not create closure is a failure, I think. The point is that things are ended, over, done, that we can go on with our lives without having to define ourselves by the other, that we don't have to have any pretenses about how much we care about each other. Anything other than that ends nothing, and just extenuates drama, and thus pain.

I don't like that.
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: rdl on October 12, 2009, 12:49:32 AM
tell her that she's only an eighth grader and that there'll be way hotter upperclassmen next year
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 12, 2009, 12:50:13 AM
wow i couldnt do it  >.<
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Title on October 12, 2009, 08:44:23 PM
You're dating an eighth grader? What the fuck, dude?
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 12, 2009, 08:45:37 PM
Quote from: Title on October 12, 2009, 08:44:23 PM
You're dating an eighth grader? What the fuck, dude?

actually a sophmore...
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Title on October 12, 2009, 08:46:24 PM
Quote from: Admiral Cleman on October 12, 2009, 08:45:37 PM
actually a sophmore...
Oh, so that's what they're calling them these days.
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 12, 2009, 08:46:59 PM
Quote from: Title on October 12, 2009, 08:46:24 PM
Oh, so that's what they're calling them these days.

if this is like an attack on me or something, then i really dont see how its funny?
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: sans culottes on October 12, 2009, 08:49:19 PM
if you're getting rid of your girlfriend
can i have her
i need one of those
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: rdl on October 12, 2009, 09:24:41 PM
oh, i keep getting you mixed up with some other 13 year old. my bad.
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Wrench on October 12, 2009, 09:59:28 PM
How did it go today so far?
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: YPrrrr on October 12, 2009, 10:55:56 PM
So when does attempt #2 come
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 12, 2009, 10:56:37 PM
Quote from: YPR on October 12, 2009, 10:55:56 PM
So when does attempt #2 come

i have no idea ill see next weekend
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Wrench on October 12, 2009, 11:07:43 PM
Just out of curiosity, why are you even breaking up with her? Or is it too personal to discuss?
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 12, 2009, 11:09:58 PM
Quote from: Wrench on October 12, 2009, 11:07:43 PM
Just out of curiosity, why are you even breaking up with her? Or is it too personal to discuss?

i dunno were just kinda growing apart and i tried explaining it to her nd she couldnt understand and thats when she started crying and then i felt bad..
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Veal on October 12, 2009, 11:33:40 PM
So you don't know why you're breaking up with her and you don't have a good enough reason to do it without backing out?

Then don't do it.
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Cookie on October 12, 2009, 11:37:46 PM
Wait what grade are you in and what is the age difference? Just kinda curious doesn't really help solve the problem...
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: caponehollywood on October 12, 2009, 11:39:08 PM
Quote from: Cookie on October 12, 2009, 11:37:46 PM
Wait what grade are you in and what is the age difference? Just kinda curious doesn't really help solve the problem...

im a sophmore in high school and we're the same age
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Oh on October 13, 2009, 01:38:45 AM
 Tell her you're being blown by another girl so you have to go.  n_u
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Classic on October 13, 2009, 01:56:03 AM
Silly kids. You think you know what love means.  giggle;
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Hiro on October 13, 2009, 02:45:13 AM
Quote from: Julius! on October 13, 2009, 01:56:03 AM
Silly kids. You think you know what love means.  giggle;
Same for yerself  n_u
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Classic on October 13, 2009, 02:58:52 AM
Quote from: Hïro on October 13, 2009, 02:45:13 AM
Same for yerself  n_u

Of course. I'm no better.

But kids these days.
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Socks on October 13, 2009, 03:21:45 AM
Quote from: Julius! on October 13, 2009, 02:58:52 AM
But kids these days.


Romeo & Juliet committed suicide.  doodthing;
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Classic on October 13, 2009, 03:28:06 AM
Quote from: Socks on October 13, 2009, 03:21:45 AM
Romeo & Juliet committed suicide.  doodthing;

HOW ROMANTIC
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Daddy on October 13, 2009, 03:31:15 AM
Quote from: Julius! on October 13, 2009, 03:28:06 AM
HOW ROMANTIC
LIKE TWILIGHT.


BELLA, DON'T GO OR ILL BEAT YOU.

OH EDWARD IS SO ROMANTIC
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Socks on October 13, 2009, 03:31:51 AM
Quote from: Julius! on October 13, 2009, 03:28:06 AM
HOW ROMANTIC


Paris took Helen from Greece and caused war.  doodthing;
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: ME## on October 13, 2009, 03:34:26 AM
Quote from: Ensign Halibar on October 13, 2009, 03:31:15 AM
LIKE TWILIGHT.


BELLA, DON'T GO OR ILL BEAT YOU.

OH EDWARD IS SO ROMANTIC




LOL BELLA
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: Classic on October 13, 2009, 03:35:27 AM
Quote from: Socks on October 13, 2009, 03:31:51 AM
Paris took Helen from Greece and caused war.  doodthing;

MAKES YOU WANNA CALL THE CHURCH AND SET UP A WEDDING


Quote from: Ensign Halibar on October 13, 2009, 03:31:15 AM
LIKE TWILIGHT.


BELLA, DON'T GO OR ILL BEAT YOU.

OH EDWARD IS SO ROMANTIC

I don't get it. I never watched the movie or read the books.
Title: Re: breaking up with my girlfriend
Post by: YPrrrr on October 13, 2009, 03:55:16 AM
Quote from: Julius! on October 13, 2009, 01:56:03 AM
Silly kids. You think you know what love means.  giggle;
I don't think anyone even ventured a guess, especially since he's breaking up with her.