Would you consider them your girlfriend/boyfriend?
Depends on how the date goes and how she responds afterwards.
Let's say she had a nice time
If she had a good time, I'd probably wait at least another date or two before I went around calling her my girlfriend.
The only way I'd really consider her my girlfriend on the first date is if she just had an unbelievable time and was begging to see me again.
Gosh Zach why do you know so much more about this than me, i can't even afford or have the ability to go on dates, i just want the girlfriend right off the bat :(
Google is your friend. spam;
Seriously, though, confidence is (almost) everything, at least with first impressions. You won't have much of a chance with a women if you aren't confident in your approach.
This especially comes into play with more attractive women - a lot of guys get it in their heads that they're way out of their league and that they can't possibly get with a hot woman, and the resulting lack of confidence pretty much guarantees that they'll be spending another lonely night with their hand.
You've got to be calm, relaxed, and confident when you approach a woman. You can't be nervous and looking down at your feet and stuttering as you introduce yourself. If anything, don't tell her your name right off the bat - ask for her name and keep the conversation flowing. If she stops it for a moment to ask for your name, then that's a good sign that she's interested. Of course, if she doesn't ask for your name it's not the end of the world, but in general that's a sign that you might want to move on to the next woman.
[spoiler]It's weird that I'm saying this stuff since it applies to me quite a bit as well.[/spoiler]
Lol i don't even meet girls or anything, and I just act myself around them.
Quote from: Hïro on May 17, 2009, 11:52:41 PM
Lol i don't even meet girls or anything, and I just act myself around them.
So, you don't ever see an attractive girl when you're out and about and think about going over and talking to her? That might be your problem right there - I can tell you from personal experience that nothing will happen if you don't swing the bat. bassir;
Thank you so much for that reference, now i love you even more. <3 No but i'm never out and about so how would i ever meet someone and how would i stay in contact anyways
I guess it should be known that i don't have a life of any sort
Well, that presents your dilemma, because I imagine that you, like me, have pretty much ruined your chances with every girl you ever went to school with out of sheer ignorance of how to pursue a relationship. That, and the fact that teenage girls can be fickle as hell.
Yeah, pretty much. Although i don't think I've completely ruined my chances with every girl, but probably many of them. And i'm sure I'll meet new people next year
Quote from: Hïro on May 18, 2009, 12:03:36 AM
Yeah, pretty much. Although i don't think I've completely ruined my chances with every girl, but probably many of them. And i'm sure I'll meet new people next year
Yep. And one thing that I didn't mention about confidence is that it's not something that you can just flip a switch on and have. I mean, I understand that you should be confident around women, but it's something that I very much struggle with. It's something that I'm having to develop slowly.
You also can't have confidence with women without having confidence in other areas of your life. You have to feel good about yourself and your life before you can exude the kind of confidence that's going to really attract women. In general, a lot of women are looking for a guy who has a life - a guy that's got ambition and plans and is going to make something of himself. If you're confident in yourself, then that's going to show to women when you talk to them. If not, that'll show, too.
Remember this: Women can sense desperation and lack of confidence like a shark can sense blood in the water.
I have ambition and a plan, but definitely not a life. I'm not exactly confident in my life right now because i have no life and It's just crappy right now, but I am totally comfortable around women, other than asking them out. When it comes to that i always chicken out.
And how does one go on a date without money or car insurance?
No, they become your property (boyfriend or girlfriend depending on their sex) once you ask them to be your property.
HIRO, YOU'RE SO SOCIALLY RETARDED IT'S CUTE.
I'd say more than 5 make the two a couple.
Then again, I'm old-fashioned when it comes to this business. spam;
Well first off tyler, i don't appreciate the rude comment, and I guess i should also say that i'm applying this to high school, not adult life. if that were the case, i would say three or so dates.
you ask them to be your girlfriend, if they say yes they are your girlfriend...
Quote from: Skylark on May 18, 2009, 08:05:43 AM
you ask them to be your girlfriend, if they say yes they are your girlfriend...
Yes.
They usually like it most if you do it over AIM or facebook messaging.
Quote from: Veal on May 18, 2009, 08:08:49 AM
Yes.
They usually like it most if you do it over AIM or facebook messaging.
this was made for you, Hiro
Just message all of the girls at your school on Facebook. One of them will say yes.
you can't just call a girl your girlfriend cause you went on dates with her.
you might want to make sure she wants an actual relationship.
you also might want to ask her if she considers you two boyfriend and girlfriend.
cause then you could go around calling her your girlfriend and she could be all weirded out by it.
then you're fucked.
Quote from: laylay on May 18, 2009, 09:26:14 AM
you can't just call a girl your girlfriend cause you went on dates with her.
you might want to make sure she wants an actual relationship.
you also might want to ask her if she considers you two boyfriend and girlfriend.
cause then you could go around calling her your girlfriend and she could be all weirded out by it.
then you're fucked.
For once, Lacey actually knows what the fuck she's talking about.
Talk to her about dating. She might or might not want to.
Come on Hiro get with the program
Quote from: Veal on May 18, 2009, 08:08:49 AM
Yes.
They usually like it most if you do it over AIM or facebook messaging.
I heard girls like dates through Facebook applications the most.
Quote from: Wrench on May 18, 2009, 01:30:31 PM
I heard girls like dates through Facebook applications the most.
One time on WoW I saw these two people having a date on the beach.
They set up a picnic and everything.
I called them fags and walked away.
Quote from: Geno on May 18, 2009, 01:32:34 PM
One time on WoW I saw these two people having a date on the beach.
They set up a picnic and everything.
I called them fags and walked away.
HAHA
It's sad that people actually do that.
Quote from: Wrench on May 18, 2009, 01:35:32 PM
HAHA
It's sad that people actually do that.
and they were saying stuff like "Can you pass the chips"
"Yup"
"Oh thank you"
"You're very welcome"
"I love you <3"
akudood;
Quote from: Geno on May 18, 2009, 01:57:23 PM
wut
You started the story saying you played WoW, thus your social "superiority" is lost there. akudood;
what is a date
Quote from: Crazy Fucking Raccoon on May 18, 2009, 01:57:59 PM
You started the story saying you played WoW, thus your social "superiority" is lost there. akudood;
That doesn't make much sense but ok
Quote from: Geno on May 18, 2009, 02:33:01 PM
That doesn't make much sense but ok
it means you play wow and can't really discuss how pathetic those people are.
Quote from: Zach on May 17, 2009, 11:49:59 PM
If she stops it for a moment to ask for your name, then that's a good sign that she's interested.
or maybe i just want to know who the fuck im talking to
Quote from: Det in Fââ,,¢Â¯ Major on May 18, 2009, 02:53:56 PM
or maybe i just want to know who the fuck im talking to
NO WRONG IT MEANS YOU WANT TO FUCK LOL!!!!!!
Quote from: Stupid Fucking Slut on May 18, 2009, 04:28:27 PM
NO WRONG IT MEANS YOU WANT TO FUCK LOL!!!!!!
LOL CLEARLY
I FORGOT ASKING YOUR NAME MEANT SUCKING YOUR DICK!!!!!
Quote from: Det in Fââ,,¢Â¯ Major on May 18, 2009, 04:46:40 PM
LOL CLEARLY
I FORGOT ASKING YOUR NAME MEANT SUCKING YOUR DICK!!!!!
UH DUH
Hey, what's YOUR name? n_u
i don't know because i've never been on a date
Quote from: Trav on May 18, 2009, 05:46:39 PM
i don't know because i've never been on a date
you better you dick
your eye genes are superior
Quote from: XVI- The Tower on May 18, 2009, 05:45:34 PM
Hey, what's YOUR name? n_u
Alexis. The S is silent. cjlubdoods;
Quote from: Trav on May 18, 2009, 05:46:39 PM
i don't know because i've never been on a date
Awww, your time will come. giggle;
Quote from: Thyme on May 18, 2009, 05:49:26 PM
Alexis. The S is silent. cjlubdoods;
Well, uh...would you like to go to the soda shop and get a root beer float? giggle;
Quote from: XVI- The Tower on May 18, 2009, 05:50:41 PM
Well, uh...would you like to go to the soda shop and get a root beer float? giggle;
But he is just the right height for me. n_u
hi what's your name
what was that i can't hear you
i said hi what's your name
still can't hear you
Quote from: FAMY2 on May 18, 2009, 05:55:48 PM
But he is just the right height for me. n_u
"Well, maybe you're not the right weight for him. n_u"
[spoiler]It wouldn't necessarily be Classic to say that, just... someone that is not me who knows me well. I wouldn't dare say that myself. O_0
i just felt like doing a "thyme likes fat chicks" joke really goonish[/spoiler]
Quote from: Canard Diapason Funambule on May 18, 2009, 05:57:59 PM
hi what's your name
what was that i can't hear you
i said hi what's your name
still can't hear you
The opposite happens to me a lot. It's as if girls didn't want people around to know they were talking to me, out of shame.
or i'm just being paranoid and i have poor hearing n_u
Whenever someone asks for my name I end up having to repeat myself a dozen times. 'Eric?' 'Aaron.' 'Erin?' hocuspocus;
i think it's because i don't SPEAK UP akudood;
Quote from: Stupid Fucking Slut on May 18, 2009, 06:11:27 PM
Whenever someone can't listen to me I yell and it makes me feel powerful. n_____n
I couldn't do that, I hate being loud. cjlubdoods;
Quote from: TECTRINKET on May 18, 2009, 06:12:14 PM
I couldn't do that, I hate being loud. cjlubdoods;
why
That's why you do it sparingly. :|
Quote from: Stupid Fucking Slut on May 18, 2009, 06:12:54 PM
why
That's why you do it sparingly. :|
i don't like attracting attention and the last thing i want to do is cause someone to dislike me cjlubdoods;
Quote from: TECTRINKET on May 18, 2009, 06:14:34 PM
i don't like attracting attention and the last thing i want to do is cause someone to dislike me cjlubdoods;
But everyone loves Tiger Woods!
Quote from: Stupid Fucking Slut on May 18, 2009, 06:16:14 PM
But everyone loves Tiger Woods!
that may be so
but i'm not sure the same can be said about me gimpdood;
Quote from: Thyme on May 18, 2009, 06:05:38 PM
The opposite happens to me a lot. It's as if girls didn't want people around to know they were talking to me, out of shame.
or i'm just being paranoid and i have poor hearing n_u
I don't think it's the former. hocuspocus;
[spoiler]
but lol your self-confidence is worse what are you talking about :[[/spoiler]
Quote from: TECTRINKET on May 18, 2009, 06:17:40 PM
that may be so
but i'm not sure the same can be said about me gimpdood;
why do you believe that people other than myself and felt hate you ;_;
Quote from: Thyme on May 18, 2009, 06:05:38 PM
"Well, maybe you're not the right weight for him. n_u"
Putting on weight is no problem. Neither is taking it off. n_u
Quote from: XVI- The Tower on May 18, 2009, 05:50:41 PM
Awww, your time will come. giggle;
no YOUR thyme will cum ;)
Quote from: Canard Diapason Funambule on May 18, 2009, 05:57:59 PM
hi what's your name
what was that i can't hear you
i said hi what's your name
still can't hear you
Thats why you yell when you meet someone for the first time.
Quote from: TECTRINKET on May 18, 2009, 06:17:40 PM
that may be so
but i'm not sure the same can be said about me gimpdood;
I guess this would be a bad time to point out again your resemblance with Chris from Everybody h- yeah it would be. goonish n_u
Quote from: Canard Diapason Funambule on May 18, 2009, 06:17:53 PM
[spoiler]but lol your self-confidence is worse what are you talking about :[[/spoiler]
I'm not sure I get it. befuddlement
Quote from: FAMY2 on May 18, 2009, 06:18:40 PM
Putting on weight is no problem. Neither is taking it off. n_u
At that point I'm not sure that's what I'd want you to take off. n_u
[spoiler]
but i'm not a feeder and i do not encourage such endeavour O_0[/spoiler]
Quote from: Det in Fââ,,¢Â¯ Major on May 18, 2009, 06:20:39 PM
no YOUR thyme will cum ;)
Whatever happens, I will cum. spam;
Quote from: Stupid Fucking Slut on May 18, 2009, 06:18:19 PM
why do you believe that people other than myself and felt hate you ;_;
i have no good qualities about me scarecrowdood;
Quote from: Thyme on May 18, 2009, 06:24:51 PM
I guess this would be a bad time to point out again your resemblance with Chris from Everybody h- yeah it would be. goonish n_u
ew baddood;
Quote from: reefer on May 18, 2009, 06:22:49 PM
Thats why you yell when you meet someone for the first time.
but what if i scare them
Quote from: Thyme on May 18, 2009, 06:24:51 PM
I'm not sure I get it. befuddlement
I was just rambling on how I would probably think the former if it were myself lol. :[
Quote from: TECTRINKET on May 18, 2009, 06:25:39 PM
i have no good qualities about me scarecrowdood;
liar
Quote from: Det in Fââ,,¢Â¯ Major on May 18, 2009, 04:46:40 PM
LOL CLEARLY
I FORGOT ASKING YOUR NAME MEANT SUCKING YOUR DICK!!!!!
Because that's clearly what I meant.
Keep in mind that I'm a dumbass and am just conjecturing about things that I really don't have any understanding of. n_u
Quote from: Zach on May 18, 2009, 07:47:16 PM
Because that's clearly what I meant.
Keep in mind that I'm a dumbass and am just conjecturing about things that I really don't have any understanding of. n_u
Hey big boy, what's your name? yes;
Quote from: Slim on May 18, 2009, 08:08:57 PM
Hey big boy, what's your name? yes;
Bubba. giggle;
if they say so.
Quote from: Crazy Fucking Raccoon on May 18, 2009, 02:36:14 PM
it means you play wow and can't really discuss how pathetic those people are.
That really doesn't relate
My friend plays wow constantly and he gets laid constantly baddood;
I have no trouble carrying out a conversation, unless of course it's to ask someone out.
Something I haven't actually done in two years. :(
Uhhh...
was this thread made just cause you were curious or because you want to know if you can call some bitch your girlfriend?
Quote from: laylay on May 19, 2009, 01:17:43 PM
was this thread made just cause you were curious or because you want to know if you can call some bitch your girlfriend?
Almost 100% it's the first one
Yeah, i was just curious. I would never go around saying someone was my girlfriend unless i knew they were.
Quote from: Hïro on May 19, 2009, 02:44:21 PM
Yeah, i was just curious. I would never go around saying someone was my girlfriend unless i knew they were.
that's good.