She took the same lifeguarding class as me, and I have her on facebook. That is my only method of contacting her. I was really into her during the class, and she also likes Muse. I want her.
What do I do first
"Hi, let's go swimming"
play it cool cjlubdoods;
Somehow strike up a conversation about a common interest over facebook such as Muse, swimming, or lifeguarding. Either that or just be very direct.
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 01:07:56 PM
"Hi, let's go swimming"
play it cool cjlubdoods;
would it be weird if i invited her swimming at my house (i live on a lake). Actually that would be weird because then we'd have to be one on one.
You suck at girls baddood;
write on her wall
Quote from: David on May 03, 2009, 01:12:50 PM
would it be weird if i invited her swimming at my house (i live on a lake). Actually that would be weird because then we'd have to be one on one.
You suck at girls baddood;
I get more girls than you baddood;
No I dunno if that's true giggle;
...Why can't you be one on one?!
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 01:18:31 PM
...Why can't you be one on one?!
Idk it would be weird. I want to establish a connection first.
Quote from: David on May 03, 2009, 01:21:52 PM
Idk it would be weird. I want to establish a connection first.
perfect time to establish a connection is when... you can connect one on one. Ask her to go to a movie or something then or to a concert.
skylark is actually a girl i would listen to her.
Quote from: Ã,µÎ© on May 03, 2009, 01:31:54 PM
skylark is actually a girl i would listen to her.
girls aren't always very good at giving dating advice though...
but given that skylark actually dates girls, I'd say she's trustworthy
Quote from: YPR on May 03, 2009, 01:32:58 PM
but given that skylark actually dates girls, I'd say she's trustworthy
Wait.............
AWESOME
Quote from: mario583 on May 03, 2009, 02:03:46 PM
Wait.............
AWESOME
he said girls not dogs baddood;
Obligatory "stick it in her pooper" post n_u
Talk to her, find common intrests, home in on those and ignore everything else as much as possible. Its what I did and now I have a beautiful lady friend of my own.
well first you have to agree to a price with her father
You're hopeless.
Quote from: YPR on May 03, 2009, 02:53:14 PM
Well that was mean
Whatever happened to the simple "Hey, what's up? What are you doing later?" method?
I don't see what's wrong with being straightforward with your feelings
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 02:56:08 PM
I don't see what's wrong with being straightforward with your feelings
EXACTLY.
If you can't be to the point, you're hopeless. Am I right?
Maybe not hopeless... but you're just making the situation harder on yourself and most of the time coming of as sort of wish-y wash-y (which isn't so good)
If you know what you want, go get it.
Quote from: Ã,µÎ© on May 03, 2009, 02:11:30 PM
he said girls not dogs baddood;
saddood;
DON'T FUCKING JUDGE ME!!
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 03:00:38 PM
Maybe not hopeless... but you're just making the situation harder on yourself and most of the time coming of as sort of wish-y wash-y (which isn't so good)
If you know what you want, go get it.
this
oh gosh >.<
you >.<
Quote from: XVI- The Tower on May 03, 2009, 02:56:56 PM
EXACTLY.
If you can't be to the point, you're hopeless. Am I right?
Hopeless is a strong word
I never want to be hopeless.
Quote from: YPR on May 03, 2009, 03:09:41 PM
Hopeless is a strong word
I can't really say much.
I never make the first move, so I'm never in this situation. <3
Maybe I should have said something along the lines of "you need more confidence"?
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 03:09:59 PM
I never want to be hopeless.
I'm always hopeless. baddood;
[spoiler]n_u[/spoiler]
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 03:09:24 PM
you >.<
what about me >.<
Quote from: XVI- The Tower on May 03, 2009, 03:10:54 PM
I can't really say much.
I never make the first move, so I'm never in this situation. <3
Maybe I should have said something along the lines of "you need more confidence"?
indeed baddood;
Quote from: divaD on May 03, 2009, 03:11:52 PM
I'm always hopeless. baddood;
[spoiler]n_u[/spoiler]
It adds to your charm. cjlubdoods;
Quote from: XVI- The Tower on May 03, 2009, 03:10:54 PM
I can't really say much.
I never make the first move, so I'm never in this situation. <3
Maybe I should have said something along the lines of "you need more confidence"?
I think I often make the first move and I think this is probably because I'm a fairly confident person.
Guys, make the first move. Everybody make the first move sometimes.
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 03:12:54 PM
I think I often make the first move and I think this is probably because I'm a fairly confident person.
Guys, make the first move. Everybody make the first move sometimes.
Not me. <3
you are seriously asking these people..
Quote from: XVI- The Tower on May 03, 2009, 03:14:02 PM
Not me. <3
Are you the girl in the relationship sillydood;
Quote from: XVI- The Tower on May 03, 2009, 02:54:21 PM
Whatever happened to the simple "Hey, what's up? What are you doing later?" method?
he or she might immediately think "i think this man or woman is trying to ask me out akudood;" akudood;
Just ask her if she wants to go see a movie or go to a concert with you some time.
no, Hiro, he's a boy.
Quote from: laylay on May 03, 2009, 03:14:42 PM
you are seriously asking these people..
I have relationship experience bassir;
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 03:12:54 PM
Everybody make the first move sometimes.
I could never do such a thing. hocuspocus;
Quote from: Hïro on May 03, 2009, 03:14:57 PM
Are you the girl in the relationship sillydood;
I've said it a billion times and I'll say it again.
Yes, I'm the femme in the relation.
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 03:15:38 PM
no, Hiro, he's a boy.
Yes, but I'm the woman of the relation.
Quote from: divaD on May 03, 2009, 03:16:57 PM
Really? n_u
Oui. giggle;
Quote from: Hïro on May 03, 2009, 03:16:35 PM
what doodthing;
Nothing. It was unnecessary I just hate the "being the boy in the relationship" or "being the girl in the relationship" because I mean, I think in our relationship I was more of the "boy" even though you are a boy. He is a boy.
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 03:18:22 PM
Nothing. It was unnecessary I just hate the "being the boy in the relationship" or "being the girl in the relationship" because I mean, I think in our relationship I was more of the "boy" even though you are a boy. He is a boy.
what the hell are you talking about
tyler just said it himself, no need to belittle me
doodthing;
Quote from: Hïro on May 03, 2009, 03:20:48 PM
what the hell are you talking about
tyler just said it himself, no need to belittle me
doodthing;
I'm not defending Tyler, I just think that's a dumb way to put it. Also, I am not belittling you, I am disagreeing with you and what I said was no less offensive than what you did, if you want to spin it that way.
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 03:22:31 PM
I'm not defending Tyler, I just think that's a dumb way to put it. Also, I am not belittling you, I am disagreeing with you and what I said was no less offensive than what you did, if you want to spin it that way.
doodthing;
Lover's quarrel. <3
Quote from: Skylark on May 03, 2009, 03:15:38 PM
I have relationship experience bassir;
you and i are some of the few people that do.
i can't see why he would want to ask anyone here though haha.
Quote from: laylay on May 03, 2009, 03:23:58 PM
you and i are some of the few people that do.
i can't see why he would want to ask anyone here though haha.
Excuse me ma'am. You must have not heard about my love life. hocuspocus;
Quote from: XVI- The Tower on May 03, 2009, 03:23:33 PM
Lover's quarrel. <3
I'd really appreciate it if you didn't say that.
Quote from: laylay on May 03, 2009, 03:23:58 PM
you and i are some of the few people that do.
i can't see why he would want to ask anyone here though haha.
Probably not the best place to go, you're right
Quote from: Hïro on May 03, 2009, 03:23:25 PM
doodthing;
dumby :)
Quote from: Hïro on May 03, 2009, 03:29:53 PM
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Gumby fucking rocked. Maybe I'll go watch the movie. <3
Quote from: Zach on May 03, 2009, 03:15:31 PM
Just ask her if she wants to go see a movie or go to a concert with you some time.
Do this one, got me one article of clothing away from getting laid last night :3
don't ask me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote from: XVI- The Tower on May 03, 2009, 03:24:41 PM
Excuse me ma'am. You must have not heard about my love life. hocuspocus;
which is why i said some of the few people.
you could be one of the few people.
none more this