Boyah Forums

General => The Lobby => Topic started by: Hensa on December 08, 2008, 02:27:04 AM

Title: Sacrifice
Post by: Hensa on December 08, 2008, 02:27:04 AM
As some of you know, today, December 8 2008, is kaz and I's 3rd anniversary.


The last three years hold a good deal of the greatest moments in my life, all thanks to my amazing partner.
I can't even begin to imagine what my life would look like right now if we had never met... And I am so grateful to have his unconditional love and respect. He makes me happy even when there's nothing to be happy about, and I could have never made it through the following without his love and support.
He is truely a unique indvidual that I've learn so much from, and that I'm truely attatched to.
And babe, thank you for being so patient with me.<3 I'm ready for the rest of our lives when you are...

But we didnt get here without a few bumps in the road....and im pretty sure a few of those bumps were actually a couple of mountains as well.
We fought through 2 and a half years of litterally sneaking around to talk to eachother
I've had to face my parents about four or five times in all, after being caught buying and having various secret cellphones, or phone card, or being caught online with him.
I even got in trouble at school for using a proxy for getting to an old forum that we used to pm eatchother.
in all four instances, I went through some physical, and emotional abuse. The fights broke by family apart for nearly 6 months.

At one point last summer, I left home. I had my fill of the rejection of Kaz by my parents... And it only took four days for them to realize that maybe, just maybe their daughter really loves someone out there. Maybe he isn't a dirty old man after all.

And now, everything is fine. We have a pretty normal relationship, and he even visited during the end of summer (which was the best ten days of my life, tyvm)
and now, I count down the days until the 31st, when he will come be with me again<3


So now its your turn,
disscuss things you made great sacrifices for (but don't regret)
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Nyerp on December 08, 2008, 04:23:42 AM
i have to stop eating so much so i won't die LOL
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: l a c e y on December 08, 2008, 07:01:14 AM
so you guys don't like... see each other all the time.
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: FAMY2 on December 08, 2008, 08:01:51 AM
 I spent a ton of money to meet someone. I will never regret doing that and given the chance I would do it again.  cjlubdoods;
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Daddy on December 08, 2008, 08:39:45 AM
My sanity.  doodthing;
I do not regret it and will not just stop.  doodhuh;



By the way:
Quote from: Clair on December 08, 2008, 08:01:51 AM
I spent a ton of money to meet someone. I will never regret doing that and given the chance I would do it again.  cjlubdoods;
Quote from: Mimi on December 08, 2008, 02:27:04 AM], and he even visited during the end of summer (which was the best ten days of my life, tyvm)
and now, I count down the days until the 31st, when he will come be with me again<3

I'm jealous of both of you.  :(
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Bolivian Army on December 08, 2008, 08:45:29 AM
so many contrasting emotions  >.<
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: luna on December 08, 2008, 08:49:09 AM
Congratulations you two   giggle; giggle; giggle;
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Hensa on December 08, 2008, 10:11:02 AM
Quote from: Velvet on December 08, 2008, 08:49:09 AM
Congratulations you two   giggle; giggle; giggle;
thanks bby  giggle; <3
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: YPrrrr on December 08, 2008, 10:12:05 AM
I'd like to say I made great sacrifices to get into the college of my choice, but I don't think I really worked my ass off like I could have...

So instead I'll say some of the things I had to do while my dad was in Iraq to keep our family close and not make other people worry about us
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Hensa on December 08, 2008, 10:36:39 AM
Quote from: YPR on December 08, 2008, 10:12:05 AM
I'd like to say I made great sacrifices to get into the college of my choice, but I don't think I really worked my ass off like I could have...

So instead I'll say some of the things I had to do while my dad was in Iraq to keep our family close and not make other people worry about us
your dad went to iraq?
omg I had no idea
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: YPrrrr on December 08, 2008, 10:55:48 AM
Quote from: Mimi on December 08, 2008, 10:36:39 AM
your dad went to iraq?
omg I had no idea
Yeah, for like 2 years when I was in 8th and 9th grade. Luckily he made it back without any physical damage, but the experience has really fucked with my family emotionally. My dad's personality kind of changed since he went over
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Lotos on December 08, 2008, 11:02:04 AM
That I don't regret?  That leaves my ex out.  I hope I can find someone nice one day.  Congrats you two :3

Quote from: YPR on December 08, 2008, 10:55:48 AM
My dad's personality kind of changed since he went over


I hope it didn't completely change him.  I heard that they can call back soldiers into duty.  Please tell me he doesn't have to go back!
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Meyer Lansky on December 08, 2008, 11:13:17 AM
I'm in virtually the same situation that Hens is.

Also, congratulations to you guys for staying strong for so long.  My best wishes to the both of you.

Quote from: Mimi on December 08, 2008, 02:27:04 AM
But we didnt get here without a few bumps in the road....and im pretty sure a few of those bumps were actually a couple of mountains as well.
Those are the most important ones... the obstacles you run into on your way to the top knock you back down the mountain.  But you learn from it and persevere to get to the ultimate goal/the top.  I have gone through it so many times...
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: YPrrrr on December 08, 2008, 11:16:50 AM
Quote from: Lotos on December 08, 2008, 11:02:04 AM
I hope it didn't completely change him.  I heard that they can call back soldiers into duty.  Please tell me he doesn't have to go back!
Nah, he's fulfilled his service duties, so he can retire from the army at any time now. He's still in it so that he can teach at the army's law school, but if they were considering calling him up he can just say no.

It's nice to have certainty at least.
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Selkie on December 08, 2008, 12:19:20 PM
That's really nice  :3 I'm happy for you two


Hmm, I really can't think of any great sacrifices I have made and do not regret. Or even any sacrifices period for that matter. I am always having small sacrifices to help others, like maybe I will work for someone sometime, but I can't think of any that really stick out.
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Samus Aran on December 08, 2008, 01:16:11 PM
Well, I've certainly made sacrifices for you, Chels, though for some reason you've had most of the weight thrown on you...I guess it's all really because of your parents. They're kind of the roots of most of our problems, so unfortunately you have more to deal with than I do.

I really wish I could change that.

But regardless, I'll eventually be the one moving, so that will be a pretty big sacrifice.
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Feynman on December 08, 2008, 01:17:56 PM
Fuckers, my road is straight. The only problem is that the speed limit is 5MPH on my road...
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Daddy on December 08, 2008, 01:20:14 PM
Quote from: Bassir on December 08, 2008, 01:17:56 PM
Fuckers, my road is straight. The only problem is that the speed limit is 5MPH on my road...
Your road has IEDs.
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: superclucky on December 08, 2008, 01:45:05 PM
I can't remember my past regrets.
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Kalahari Inkantation on December 08, 2008, 02:06:21 PM
Aww, I'm so happy for you guys. Congratulations on your third year together, Kaz and Hen. cjlubdoods;
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Feynman on December 10, 2008, 02:39:28 PM
I sacrificed my youth for rationality.
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Himu on December 10, 2008, 05:16:43 PM
Congratulations. <333333333

And I have made sacrifices when I accepted my dad back into the family.
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Mettalik on December 10, 2008, 10:28:04 PM
I have no one in my life. :[
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Samus Aran on December 10, 2008, 10:32:21 PM
Quote from: Bassir on December 10, 2008, 02:39:28 PM
I sacrificed my youth for rationality.


Haha, oh please. Don't tell me you really believe that.
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Hiro on December 10, 2008, 10:34:30 PM
I sacrificed my virginity for a klondike bar :'(
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: l a c e y on December 11, 2008, 06:10:10 AM
Quote from: Hiro on December 10, 2008, 10:34:30 PM
I sacrificed my virginity for a klondike bar :'(


i lol'd.
that's the best thing i've heard yet today.
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Oh on December 11, 2008, 07:24:53 AM
 I sacrificed my imagination for video games. I'm so jealous of you guys, I hope when me and Tec hang out, it will be amazing. giggle;
Title: Re: Sacrifice
Post by: Geno on December 11, 2008, 11:06:00 AM
God you guys are so amazing giggle;