Does it? Or is all this "love" truly only for the sole reason of reproduction and keeping the species we are alive?
Sorry, I'm bored and felt like asking a some what smart question sweat;
Well, there are those who think of marriage as only a way to be safe and have sex and not look like a pimp around other people. Personally, I believe they are the type of people who will never find true love. However, the people who don't have premarital sex and sincerely love the person they marry, they found true love.
I feel like writing a soap opera. caterpie;
Marriage=/=love.
Sex=/=love
Marriage=Nothing. It's merely something that supposedly bonds these people closer together in hopes they will develop a deeper love for each other. "True love" is possible, but it's pretty damn rare.
Quote from: Lawlz on May 12, 2007, 02:37:56 PM
Marriage=/=love.
Sex===love
Marriage=Nothing. It's merely something that supposedly bonds these people closer together in hopes they will develop a deeper love for each other. "True love" is possible, but it's pretty damn rare.
Fix'd.
Quote from: Lawlz on May 12, 2007, 02:37:56 PM
Marriage=/=love.
Sex=/=love
Marriage=Nothing. It's merely something that supposedly bonds these people closer together in hopes they will develop a deeper love for each other. "True love" is possible, but it's pretty damn rare.
This is true. Marriage and sex aren't necessary at all for love. Not saying that I won't do both of those things with the girl I love, though.
And yes, I think true love is possible. Whether or not it's what I've got I cannot say.
Love + Sex = More love
I've already talked about this with someone else but there is proof of chemical changes after sex between the who people.
Love = Sex
This isn't always true though...
Lust ≠ Sex
Obviously, thats why they call it "lust" and not "love"
I wish I had the thing I wrote up but my friend deleted it gonk;
Quote from: Reaper on May 12, 2007, 03:38:43 PM
Love + Sex = More love
I've already talked about this with someone else but there is proof of chemical changes after sex between the who people.
Yes, definitely. Sex is one of the ultimate expressions of love when done with someone you truly love. It's not just sex, it's making love. SWEET, HOT LOVE.
I think it does. The act of marriage is supposed to make people think before they give up on a relationship. At least that is what I was taught. It should be harder to end a legal relationship then one you can just walk away from.
Quote from: Clair on May 12, 2007, 09:07:34 PM
I think it does. The act of marriage is supposed to make people think before they give up on a relationship. At least that is what I was taught. It should be harder to end a legal relationship then one you can just walk away from.
Because the bitch gets rich and the poor man loses everything.
I believe that true love does exist, but it's very rare. Especially these days.
Marriage, can be good or bad. If it really is true love, it should pan out well.
If it's not true love, there are two scenarios.
One: The couple will end up getting divorced. And that will most likely have some effects on any children.
Two: The couple will stay together just because of children or something. The couple may go through life and figure out that they soon despise each other. That would suck.
Overall, I don't see marriage as a good choice.
Sex can go either way, also. It can complicate a relationship, or it can strenghten it.
If you truly love some one, and you engage in sexual activities, it'll be much better than some sort of one night stand.
If you just have sex with a friend that you thought you had feelings for, that could go and end your whole friendship if you realize that you don't love each other.
Most "love" in our society is not true love.
I find it pretty sad that the majority of married couples don't stay together. There are so many divorces these days. People are abusing the marital system. They treat it as if it's not important at all.
Last I knew, marriage was supposed to be a lifelong commitment. It's said how it seen now.
Oh ya, true love. It exists, but it's rarely seen it today's society. Most people are blinded by other things.
Assholes.
Quote from: Lawlz on May 12, 2007, 02:37:56 PM
Marriage=/=love.
Sex=/=love
Marriage=Nothing. It's merely something that supposedly bonds these people closer together in hopes they will develop a deeper love for each other. "True love" is possible, but it's pretty damn rare.
I would want to get married merely for the benefits of it. Life is a lot easier when you're married.
Quote from: fox127 on May 12, 2007, 02:11:10 PM
Does it? Or is all this "love" truly only for the sole reason of reproduction and keeping the species we are alive?
Sorry, I'm bored and felt like asking a some what smart question sweat;
First, somewhat is one word. And second, if you believe in true love you're too soft.
Quote from: metal eyeball on May 13, 2007, 03:15:14 PM
Quote from: fox127 on May 12, 2007, 02:11:10 PM
Does it? Or is all this "love" truly only for the sole reason of reproduction and keeping the species we are alive?
Sorry, I'm bored and felt like asking a some what smart question sweat;
First, somewhat is one word. And second, if you believe in true love you're too soft.
I'm needy as well educate;
Quote from: Lawlz on May 12, 2007, 09:34:02 PM
Quote from: Clair on May 12, 2007, 09:07:34 PM
I think it does. The act of marriage is supposed to make people think before they give up on a relationship. At least that is what I was taught. It should be harder to end a legal relationship then one you can just walk away from.
Because the bitch gets rich and the poor man loses everything.
Maybe . Not so much anymore though. Smart men get a prenuptial agreement. And not all women are evil and greedy.
The sole reason of reproduction and keeping the species we are alive
I like the reproduction part educate;
Sex can sometimes mean love, but the occasional one night stand doesn't qualify as "true love" in my book...
Love is a biological thing, that's all I remember. It's an attachment to someone so you can keep making the same fucked up babies with them.
That's about all I'd see it as.
There is absolutely no such thing as true love. edumacate;
True love is an artificial concept, therefore relegated to the realm of opinion.
Yes. People are just too stupid to realize what love is.
Quote from: Princess on May 26, 2007, 10:30:48 PM
Yes. People are just too stupid to realize what love is.
Then if people can't understand what love is, true love can't possibly exist within our species.
Quote from: Lawlz on May 26, 2007, 10:41:54 PM
Quote from: Princess on May 26, 2007, 10:30:48 PM
Yes. People are just too stupid to realize what love is.
Then if people can't understand what love is, true love can't possibly exist within our species.
Jedi might be able to understand it. If this is the case, we are really the closest to it.
Quote from: SBKT on May 26, 2007, 10:43:58 PM
Quote from: Lawlz on May 26, 2007, 10:41:54 PM
Quote from: Princess on May 26, 2007, 10:30:48 PM
Yes. People are just too stupid to realize what love is.
Then if people can't understand what love is, true love can't possibly exist within our species.
Jedi might be able to understand it. If this is the case, we are really the closest to it.
To know one's weaknesses is to be prepared for them. Do not lead down the path of love, for this leads to jealousy, anger, hatred. The path of the dark side, this is.
We need a Yoda smiley.
The concept of love is an adapted "emotion" brought on to preserve monogamy to avoid over-population among other things. That's what make sense to me at least. As for "true love", that's up to you. It exists if you want it to exist, baby.
Who Knows? You can't really "prove" love. If you are willing to die you your family, does not prove you love them, the fact that i would die for my whole school, no matter how much I hate some people.
I think it exists.
I just think that it's sad that many people, epessally teenagers, confuse lust for love.
Quote from: Lance7 on June 01, 2007, 07:31:31 AM
I think it exists.
I just think that it's sad that many people, epessally teenagers, confuse lust for love.
But there isn't there mostly fake love in the world?
*sigh* I can only hope so...
fuck love.
fuck guys.
alll i need is boyahfriends. wub;
I don't think it does, no. I think the initial "love phase" fades over time, and then you just get bored.
\its lyke a best friend
Quote from: Lawlz on May 12, 2007, 09:34:02 PM
Because the bitch gets rich and the poor man loses everything.
So true.
I think it exists but only to a certain level.
If the two people who will have true love never meet what happens then?
No, at least I've never felt it before.
I don't really think it's possible for two people to truly be "in love".
The best thing you'll ever find in life is a mate who doesn't annoy the shit out of you.
Quote from: prettygirl on July 31, 2007, 10:09:06 AM
fuck love.
fuck guys.
alll i need is boyahfriends. wub;
Now all you need is weed.
I suppose if you believe in fate then it does.
I however do not believe there is such a thing as true love.
Sure it does.
People think love is about being able to spend time with each other; really, you can spend time with anyone you choose. But when you think that you absolutely hate them for something they did to you, but you STILL want to be with them, and you still could not imagine going to the movies, the mall, or just hanging out together with someone else this Saturday... then you MIGHT be in love.
Some say love is finding the perfect mate. When you realize that this other person is NOT perfect, and you have seen a bunch of things about them that you do not necessarily like, but you still have an overall feeling of respect and admiration for them... then you MIGHT be in love.
Some say love is about sharing special moments together, but it is way more than that. When something great happens to you and you think that it would have been so much better if that other person was there with you, like having a great time really is not enough anymore, because you want that great time to be with this other person... then you MIGHT be in love.
Some say love just... happens, like two people just meet and they were "meant to be". Listen... love is an effort, a verb, an ACTION; it is not a noun, something that just exists. Love is not something you have; it is something you do. When you find yourself wanting to do more to improve the relationship you have with your significant other... then you MIGHT be in love.
When you realize that this other person feels all of those things for you... then you're in love.
Guess what?
Love is overrated.
I'm never having children, either.
Seeing as how not one human being can truly explain the emotion love, its highly unlikely. If you can get re-married or even date after you loose a spouse, then Im 99% sure you were not in true love.
If you think about it, love and god almost go hand in hand. They both require extreme amounts of faith and commitment, you can't see either, but can believe in them just the same, and you also can't truly understand either, but just know in your soul it feels right....coincidence? Im thinking not.
Yes, it's just not quite as special and uncommon as everyone thinks it is. I think people asociate true love wth finding that one special person, which i don't believe in. You have 'soul-mates' all over the world, you just have to find them. cjlubdoods;
/ :(
Love exists.
But why does the tacked on "true" make it so much more serious?
Not for me :(
Love exists, you just got to find it.
Quote from: Paul on August 30, 2008, 08:27:54 PM
Love exists, you just got to find it.
You can't be looking for love. Love has to be looking for you and eventually find you.
Quote from: Wrench on August 31, 2008, 11:11:38 AM
You can't be looking for love. Love has to be looking for you and eventually find you.
*sniff* that's beautiful wry
But really, in my experiences, that is true. If you work at it love will never really come. You just kinda have to stumble upon it.
I don't believe in soulmates or whatever, but I do believe in love. I just think a person is compatible in love with more than just one person. The idea that only one person in the world could truly love you seems silly to me.
Quote from: Flying Circus on September 03, 2008, 11:50:21 AM
I don't believe in soulmates or whatever, but I do believe in love. I just think a person is compatible in love with more than just one person. The idea that only one person in the world could truly love you seems silly to me.
what about the concept of a person being completely unloved by everyone and there's no chance anyone will ever love them
eg. me and jmv
Quote from: Lawlz on September 03, 2008, 02:06:36 PM
what about the concept of a person being completely unloved by everyone and there's no chance anyone will ever love them
eg. me and jmv
what
this is untrue.
i thought it was before ;-;
but it is not baddood;
Quote from: Khadafi on September 03, 2008, 02:09:37 PM
what
this is untrue.
i thought it was before ;-;
but it is not baddood;
Aside from family, no one truly cares about either of us.
Quote from: Lawlz on September 03, 2008, 02:13:30 PM
Aside from family, no one truly cares about either of us.
speak for yourself faggot
Quote from: Khadafi on September 03, 2008, 02:15:30 PM
speak for yourself faggot
"Your woman" will never physically touch you.
Quote from: Lawlz on September 03, 2008, 02:06:36 PM
what about the concept of a person being completely unloved by everyone and there's no chance anyone will ever love them
eg. me and jmv
Sure there is, she's probably just hanging out in her room all the time too, so your meeting is unlikely to occur
i do not know why i did not post in this thread about it previously, but it's probably because what i think changed in like the last 6-8 months. befuddlement
well, yes i think it does ^_____^
even if it doesn't appear that way to other people and shit and i dunno
clucky <3
uhm but yeah it does
Quote from: Khadafi on September 22, 2008, 08:25:59 PM
i do not know why i did not post in this thread about it previously, but it's probably because what i think changed in like the last 6-8 months. befuddlement
well, yes i think it does ^_____^
even if it doesn't appear that way to other people and shit and i dunno
clucky <3
uhm but yeah it does
you made my screen name tiny because you are embarrassed n_u