teen/premarital sex?
I really don't care about premarital sex, assuming it's not just a couple of kids doing it for shits and giggles. Teen/kid sex is a problem, since a couple of adults that have a child out of wedlock doesn't pose so much of a huge issue as a young girl still in school.
It's not just teens who have premarital sex, you know. Not everyone gets married the day they turn 20.
Anyway, I never saw a real problem with having sex without being married first. I'm not really a religious person. There is a such thing as wanting to express that kind of love to someone you really care about before marrying them. Besides, some people like to know if they're going to be disappointed with their sex life for the rest of their miserable lives before committing to someone.
However, I dislike the idea of kids who are genuinely too young for sex doing it.
I personally think teen sex is stupid... I guess I can understand if you've been with the same person for years or something, but some stupid teens think going out for a week means it's time for sex. It just really seems to cheapen it, and also contribute to the spread of STDs. Pregnancy is also a possible result, which can cut off certain options that were previously open to the girl and possibly the guy. I just really don't see much positive coming out of it.
I personally am going to wait until my woman accepts my marriage proposal before I have sex. If other people don't it's their business though.
I don't really give a flying shit what you do with someone in the privacy of your bedroom. Just be sure to keep all the lovely details about it there too.
And of course, if you're going to have sex, be smart about it. We invented condoms and birth control for a reason.
It's how I was created. befuddlement
If protection is used, there is no problem. But getting pregnant as a teen isn't the best idea--it robs your child of benefits that it may have had if you waited.
Premarital sex shouldn't be an issue. Why should anyone care if parents are married or not?
Quote from: JMV290 on January 08, 2008, 03:33:53 PM
Premarital sex shouldn't be an issue. Why should anyone care if parents are married or not?
Because all children born out of wedlock go to hell.
I say... if you are 16 or older, do whatever the hell you want. Anything under is just... weird.
Premarital sex is actually how I was born... and my parents never were married at all.
I see nothing wrong with premarital sex as long as they both feel committed to having a kid or if protection is used.
I do dislike teen sex under 16, even more strongly if it's unprotected straight sex.
I think people should have sex before they are married. Its a very good way to get to know a person. Even if you are not planning to marry that person, you should have sex with them. Sex is fun and almost every thing in life revolves around it. As long as people use protection im fine with it.
i have nothing against premarital sex, but I personally believe it should be out of love.
I especially dislike it when just plain stupid teenagers do it. I'd never risk getting any of those STD's.. I'm hoping my first is with another virgin.
Quote from: Caz on January 13, 2008, 09:51:15 PM
I think people should have sex before they are married. Its a very good way to get to know a person. Even if you are not planning to marry that person, you should have sex with them. Sex is fun and almost every thing in life revolves around it. As long as people use protection im fine with it.
Um... no.
Quote from: Your Posting Rival on January 14, 2008, 02:20:45 PM
Um... no.
Yes. Just think about it, how would your life differ if sex did not exist?
Quote from: Caz on January 14, 2008, 02:21:52 PM
Yes.
No. Trust me. There's a lot more to life than sex.
Quote from: Kaz on January 14, 2008, 02:22:51 PM
No. Trust me. There's a lot more to life than sex.
i think culoooo was commenting on how without sex there would be no life.
Quote from: Kaz on January 14, 2008, 02:22:51 PM
No. Trust me. There's a lot more to life than sex.
I didnt say it was everything in life...
Give me some examples.
Quote from: Caz on January 14, 2008, 02:30:23 PM
I didnt say it was everything in life...
Give me some examples.
Not even relationships revolve around sex, sir. Or at least, they shouldn't. It may sound cheesy, but the only thing they should revolve around is love, and sex is one of the things that revolves around it rather than being the center itself.
I don't understand how you could get the impression that sex has to be so important.
Quote from: Kaz on January 14, 2008, 02:34:06 PM
Not even relationships revolve around sex, sir. Or at least, they shouldn't. It may sound cheesy, but the only thing they should revolve around is love, and sex is one of the things that revolves around it rather than being the center itself.
I don't understand how you could get the impression that sex has to be so important.
I think its the other way around. Sex pushes us to find love. From that love kids are born which is a completely different form of love snd the cycle just keeps repeating. Im not saying you have to have kids, but im just pointing out how sex also ends up creating different forms of love.
Quote from: Caz on January 14, 2008, 02:38:09 PM
I think its the other way around. Sex pushes us to find love. From that love kids are born which is a completely different form of love snd the cycle just keeps repeating. Im not saying you have to have kids, but im just saying how sex also ends up creating different forms of love.
The only reason I wouldn't mind a girlfriend right now is because of the close relationship we'd have together. I'd rather have the talks and laughing and hugs and kisses than sex. That would be secondary.
Of course, that's just me, and if you feel love is all about sex, then I can't do anything to change that.
Quote from: Luke Atmey on January 14, 2008, 02:40:58 PM
The only reason I wouldn't mind a girlfriend right now is because of the close relationship we'd have together. I'd rather have the talks and laughing and hugs and kisses than sex. That would be secondary.
Of course, that's just me, and if you feel love is all about sex, then I can't do anything to change that.
Thats true.
Quote from: Caz on January 14, 2008, 02:38:09 PM
I think its the other way around. Sex pushes us to find love. From that love kids are born which is a completely different form of love snd the cycle just keeps repeating.
If you're considering instinct as a basis for relationship, then yeah, the subconscious desire to mate is the root, but you've got to keep in mind that humans have though processes that seem to override instinct often.
Contrary to popular belief, it's possible to fall in love with someone's personality more than their sex appeal. If sex is all you care about, then fine, that's your mindset and I can't do anything about it. I, however, care about other things a lot more.
Quote from: Kaz on January 14, 2008, 02:43:25 PM
If you're considering instinct as a basis for relationship, then yeah, the subconscious desire to mate is the root, but you've got to keep in mind that humans have though processes that seem to override instinct often.
Contrary to popular belief, it's possible to fall in love with someone's personality more than their sex appeal. If sex is all you care about, then fine, that's your mindset and I can't do anything about it. I, however, care about other things a lot more.
Where are you getting the idea that i only like people because of what they look like? Or i cant love?
Sex is a lot of times seen as something that is bad and because of this people try to seperate love from sex as much as they can from each other. Personally i think the two go hand to hand.
Quote from: Caz on January 14, 2008, 02:53:50 PM
Where are you getting the idea that i only like people because of what they look like? Or i cant love?
Sex is a lot of times seen as something that is bad and because of this people try to seperate love from sex as much as they can from each other. Personally i think the two go hand to hand.
Of course they go hand in hand. So do love and cuddling. But that doesn't mean that love revolves around cuddling, now does it? Just like it doesn't revolve around sex. Or kissing. Or anything like that.
Quote from: Kaz on January 14, 2008, 02:55:17 PM
Of course they go hand in hand. So do love and cuddling. But that doesn't mean that love revolves around cuddling, now does it? Just like it doesn't revolve around sex. Or kissing. Or anything like that.
All those things come because of sex.
Quote from: Caz on January 14, 2008, 02:57:16 PM
All those things come because of sex.
So, you can't kiss someone unless you want to have sex with them? badass
Quote from: Luke Atmey on January 14, 2008, 02:58:09 PM
So, you can't kiss someone unless you want to have sex with them? badass
Am i talking to second graders or something?
Must i explain every single detail and context on which something is said. And why did you quote me, when Kaz was the one that said it first?
Quote from: Caz on January 14, 2008, 02:57:16 PM
All those things come because of sex.
Maybe for you.
Quote from: Kaz on January 14, 2008, 03:03:29 PM
Maybe for you.
Sure whatever, all i want to do in life is fuck as many people as possible. Sex is life, without it none of you would be here blah blah blah i love sex.
Quote from: Caz on January 14, 2008, 03:11:17 PM
Sure whatever, all i want to do in life is fuck as many people as possible. Sex is life, without it none of you would be here blah blah blah i love sex.
Um...okay. psyduck;
Quote from: Kaz on January 14, 2008, 02:22:51 PM
No. Trust me. There's a lot more to life than sex.
Media and much entertainment revolves around this concept of "love," which revolves around drunken sex. Relationships most often revolve around "making love." Many cultures have some sort of penis worship or think highly of sex and virgins and all that baloney.
Quote from: Lawlz on January 14, 2008, 03:29:04 PM
Media and much entertainment revolves around this concept of "love," which revolves around drunken sex. Relationships most often revolve around "making love." Many cultures have some sort of penis worship or think highly of sex and virgins and all that baloney.
I don't care about the media. I'm being serious when I talk about "love."
Relationships don't have to revolve around "making love." Mine doesn't. psyduck;
Uh okay, but I'm talking about our culture.
Quote from: Kaz on January 14, 2008, 03:31:00 PM
I don't care about the media. Mine doesn't.
You may feel differently, but to many young people, there isn't much beyond hooking up with some babe for two weeks and getting drunk with her then moving on to another.
I don't really find it to be a big deal as long as you use protection and the girl isn't a total skank.
I can't really say much because if I were at a party and I had the opportunity to bang a hot chick, I wouldn't even have to think twice before I did.
Quote from: Selkie on January 15, 2008, 02:14:31 PM
I don't really find it to be a big deal as long as you use protection and the girl isn't a total skank.
I can't really say much because if I were at a party and I had the opportunity to bang a hot chick, I wouldn't even have to think twice before I did.
I'd think twice, what is she had an STD? badass
not risking it
Quote from: Caz on January 14, 2008, 03:11:17 PM
Sure whatever, all i want to do in life is fuck as many people as possible.
That's just you. In no way is everybody here the same, in fact very few probably think that way.
Personally, I actually don't care much if I do end up with a relationship without any sex. befuddlement
Quote from: bluaki on January 15, 2008, 03:44:08 PM
That's just you. In no way is everybody here the same, in fact very few probably think that way.
Personally, I actually don't care much if I do end up with a relationship without any sex. befuddlement
Sarcasm.
Fuck you guys. Dont have sex then if you are so confident that love is so great and sex is nothing compared to it.
Personally ima have sex with all kinds of people (except blacks, sorry blacks, we can be friends though).
If i dont have an STD by the age of 25 i'll be disappointed.
I don't care if you have premarital but teen sex is so stupid.
Also seriously this is his first post?
Teen Sex is stupid.
Yet 4 out of my 5 friends in school aren't virgins anymore befuddlement
It is just stupid to do it at a young age.
Quote from: Kaz on January 08, 2008, 01:35:02 PM
It's not just teens who have premarital sex, you know. Not everyone gets married the day they turn 20.
Anyway, I never saw a real problem with having sex without being married first. I'm not really a religious person. There is a such thing as wanting to express that kind of love to someone you really care about before marrying them. Besides, some people like to know if they're going to be disappointed with their sex life for the rest of their miserable lives before committing to someone.
However, I dislike the idea of kids who are genuinely too young for sex doing it.
That's your thoughts on boyfriend/girlfriend sex, but what about teens just having one night stands with each other?
My friend Sarah just broke up with her boyfriend.
and now one of her best friends is having sex with him regularly
problem 1.)THATS AGAINST THE RULES OF LIFE
problem 2.)she's 15, way too young to be fucking with a 19 year old who only wants her for her pussy.
Quote from: Hyper on January 31, 2008, 10:37:39 PM
That's your thoughts on boyfriend/girlfriend sex, but what about teens just having one night stands with each other?
I don't approve of one-night stands or using someone for repeated sex, when that's all you care about. There needs to be a love there of some sort. Experimenting is something I'm fine with when it's like between friends and such, but even then, they should probably be in the higher end of the age group, preferably 18.
Premarital sexual intercourse is alright, I guess. I just think that you should know what you are doing and know that it's the right choice for you.
Teen sex is something we're all going to have to accept. Agree or disagree, there's nothing we can do to stop it. People will have sex, and we know it. What we can do is encourage them to use condoms or birth control.
Child pornography is what really pisses me off, though...
I don't have a problem with premarital sex, I have family friends who are unmarried, but they have children and are in devoted relationships - they're adults, they can deal with it.
Teen sex on the other hand...not that great of an idea. Teens aren't physically, mentally, or financially ready to handle something like pregnancy, and yeah, they could use protection, but judging by how often teens get pregnant...protection obviously isn't working.
Definately Flameow. i just think some kids are so stupid that they wouldn't use protection during sex when the're still in high school.
"Do you ant a baby?"
"No way, man!"
Do you want warts on your penis?"
"Ugh, that's so nasty. No way."
Then USE CONDOMS! GDMT!" >:(
"And get tested you mofo cruncher."
Quote from: ProtectedMember32 on February 01, 2008, 06:58:02 AM
My friend Sarah just broke up with her boyfriend.
and now one of her best friends is having sex with him regularly
problem 1.)THATS AGAINST THE RULES OF LIFE
problem 2.)she's 15, way too young to be fucking with a 19 year old who only wants her for her pussy.
rape rape rape rape rape rape
I won't be complaining if I get some in high school thats all im saying.
Quote from: xXTheHaunted on April 10, 2008, 10:50:39 PM
I won't be complaining if I get some in high school thats all im saying.
Just use protection and know your shit about stds and stuff like that. I've learned a lot from 'Talk Sex with Sue Johanson' . Not just sex tips, but safety tips also.
As long as they use protection I really don't see a problem with it.
And most girls refuse to have sex with me unless I wear a condom so I've had no problems.