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[Hiro]

i would still try not to get your hopes tangled up in that snowy. sure that might be nice  but you need to make sure you can be happy either  way, and if things don't work out than that will just prolong things.
keep open communication but you need to focus on yourself right now.

[kettu]

I agree with hiro, i feel like people like to 'reconnect' because a relationship that long becomes comfortable and normal. It's hard to leave behind even if you want to move on. Just be careful okay? It's not a bad reflection on you.