troubles with a woman

[Swift]

first time i've ever asked the internet for advice. here's to hoping any of you will listen.

There's a girl I've become really good friends with over this past year.  I'd known of her for awhile and we occasionally talked in class years back but we never really created a friendship from it.  So end of last year we started talking more and became really close.  Maybe too much due to the fact she had a boyfriend and it caused problems for their relationship which was already not doing so hot. and her friends gave her a hard time.  I felt bad and eventually we got it all straightened out.  We hung out a few times studying and whatnot but it was never anything more than that. 

Summer rolled around and I lost all contact with her since she lost her phone and hardly used facebook.  So basically all of June I spent wondering what she was up to.  Finally we got in touch and caught up a lot.  We started talking just like we used to and hung out more.  I was at the point where I truly thought we were going to get serious.  But suddenly another guy came into the picture and they ended up dating.  I was pretty hurt and I let her know and I really think she felt bad, but she never really told me her true feelings about all of it.  They ended up dating only a couple weeks before he fucked her over for some other girl...nothing I wasn't expecting due to the kid's track record.  Anyways I pretty much let her be until she started talking to me again.  Which she did, but just as friends I think.  I'm not even sure what was happening.

And it's been like that since mid-August.  It's constantly bugging me.  It doesn't seem the same talking to her, like we aren't close friends anymore.  The real problem is that we still text each other every couple days.  But at school she hardly even looks me in the eye.  And we even have a class together.  I'm not really sure if I should just ask her about it soon or what.  I don't really want to create another issue but I want to figure it out.  I just want to go back to the way it was. And I can't really work on anything we used to have if she's afraid to look at me, right?  i'm so very confused 

Sorry for just pouring all of this shit out on here but I wanted to get it off my chest in internet form.

[Nyerp]

throw at her until she gives in and loves you

[YPrrrr]

Not to be a downer, but I don't know that it can ever go back to the way it was... I've been on both sides of that before and it's never really worked out, it's just awkward as opposed to when it used to be so carefree

[FAMY2]

 She pretty much knows how you feel. Seems to me she is uncomfortable now. Best thing you can do is treat her the way you used to and give her some time.

[Swift]

@YPR: It's just the fact that it was carefree but I knew we had something...i just knew it and then something changed and I'll never know why I guess.  I really think it can go back to normal I think I'm getting impatient.

She pretty much knows how you feel. Seems to me she is uncomfortable now. Best thing you can do is treat her the way you used to and give her some time.

I think she does too and feels bad about it.  Like before school we hung out once and it was perfectly fine though, like normal.  So I don't know why she's acting like this.  I really wish I hadn't told her when I did, but I guess that's in the past now and I really can't change that.  Her birthday's coming up soon and I'll probably surprise her with a card, she did with my birthday in May.